The Back To School Issue

Find your cubby and join us on the mat. by Babble Editors

September 9, 2008

This morning, my son started a wonderful nursery school. The experience was equal parts heartwarming and awful. I'd been prepared for separation anxiety, for bullies in the classroom, for bad flashbacks my husband and I would have of our own school days, for my just-two son's being one of the youngest kids. What I was not prepared for: his not being able to get it through his head that he couldn't go into the hallway. The school has a prolonged phase-in, where parents sit in the classroom with the kids for the first few classes.

In theory, this is a great system, whereby everyone slowly gets used to the idea that for a few hours a week the child will be in someone else's care, doing new things and abiding by new rules . . . like please, dear God, do not go into the hallway again. Instead, it's like an Olympic event in which every ten minutes you leap from your foot-tall chair to pry your shrieking, but usually-very-reasonable-I-swear child once again from the classroom door.

In our Special Issue, we'll be talking about some other things that can blindside you when it comes to school. Holly Korbey will talk about why she's eager to get her kindergarten-age son into school despite pressure to "redshirt" him and keep him back. Kevin Keck will talk about his wife's curious vendetta against their young son's teacher. Joanne Rendell will talk about why she's opting out of the whole experience and keeping her kindergarten-age son home.

Plus, there will be plenty of useful information, like family-friendly recipes by the amazing author of Out of the Frying Pan, chef Gillian Clark, the latest research about the vaccinations required for school entry, and a masterlist of timesavers that will help you get out of the house faster in the morning.

In my memory, this whole morning was one long blur of pulling my furious toddler away from the door, but in retrospect, it was a pretty magical first day at school. He painted two pictures, played with PlayDoh, met some lovely new kids, fawned over his pretty teachers, did a whole train puzzle, fake-bathed and put to bed an army of dolls, and smiled through the goodbye song. And so, the irony: when I tried to take him home, he didn't want to leave. — Ada Calhoun

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Not Holding Back

By Holly Korbey

Why I didn't "redshirt" my kindergarten-age son.

 

Babble Best: Boys Formalwear

By Kate Bayless

Our five favorite suits for dapper toddlers.

 

Parental Advisory: The Preschool Bully

By Rebecca Odes & Ceridwen Morris

How do I protect my kid from the jerk in his class?

 

Parent-Teacher Conflict

By Kevin Keck

My mother assaulted my teachers, and now my wife is gunning for our son's.

 

Five Minute Time Out: Sandra Tsing Loh

By Madeline Holler

The writer-performer takes on those scary, scary public schools.

 

Primer: Compulsory Vaccination

By Kate Tuttle

The latest on vaccine safety -- and why skeptics still oppose required shots.

 

The Babble List: 25 Morning Timesavers

By Nicole Feliciano

Leave the house less harried with these helpful products.

 

The Babble List: 7 Simple Family Meals

By Gillian Clark

The single-mom chef's best recipes for busy families.

 

Bad Parent: Unschooling

By Joanne Rendell

Why my kid won’t attend school this fall — or maybe ever.

 

3 Most Common Mistakes: Kindergarten Prep

By Babble Editors

Expert advice on preparing your preschooler.

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Reform School

By Kim Mance

How "No Child Left Behind" ruined American education.

Herland

By L. J. Williamson

Why are there so few male teachers?

Five-Minute Time Out: Two Angry Moms

By Jessica Wakeman

School-lunch crusaders take on the USDA and the slushie.

Pre- and Elementary School Philosophies

By Babble Staff

Waldorf, Montessori, Reggio Emilia -- what do they all mean?

Cribsheet: Education

By Sarah Sundberg

Education. Private school in NYC, K-5: $161,590.

Five-Minute Time Out: Chris Mercogliano

By Miriam Axel-Lute

How to keep your kids' "inner wildness" -- and still keep them safe.

Five-Minute Time Out: Mr. B., Chorus Teacher

By Gwynne Watkins

The YouTube phenom on teaching kids to sing Tori Amos.

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