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Wholesome Fall Fun

The girls and I spent last weekend up in Maine with my folks, and had a lovely time. There were farm animals and apples, blue skies and falling leaves, chyrsanthemums and homemade cookies. The whole Fall-in-New England extravaganza. 

 

Of course, first we had to get there. Packing up for a weekend away with the girls is hard enough when Alastair is around to help, but it's pretty much insane trying to do it on my own. I was able to load the Pack-n-Plays, booster seats, diapers, toys, etc. into the car while the girls were parked in front of Sesame Street. Then I brought them upstairs to hang in the nursery while I packed their suitcase and they "helped" by pulling every single item of clothing out of their bureau while gleefully exclaiming "out!" "out!"  Then I distracted them with legos while I packed up my own bag -- something I don't do well under pressure. Seriously, as soon as I put an empty suitcase out on the bed, it's like my IQ drops 50 points. There I'll be, twenty minutes later, standing over a suitcase full of nothing but socks, holding a pair of hiking boots in one hand and a cocktail dress in the other, muttering to myself about bobby pins. Add two small children into the mix and, well, it's a miracle I managed to pack anything at all.

 

 

To top things off, I'd stayed up too late the night before watching the doggone VP debate and drinking wine, but couldn't pound coffee and water the way my body was begging me to do  because I needed to avoid the need to stop on the drive up to Maine. (A bathroom stop with two toddlers and no double stroller: pretty much impossible.) Still, somehow we all got out the door and onto the road and made it to Maine without incident. (Hint to solo traveling parents: tie sippy cups / pacifiers / etc. to the carseat or the back of the front seats with a piece of twine, so when your toddler(s) drop them, you can retrieve them without having to pull off the road. Probably a strangulation hazard, so don't leave children in car unattended -- not like you would anyway.)

 

 

The girls have gotten to an age where it's finally not quite as stressful to keep after them in an un-babyproofed house. And my parents had set up a little playroom for the gals in the basement, complete with mini table and chairs, mini basketball hoop and a bunch of other toys, most of them rescued from the "swap shop" at their municipal dump. (The small town version of Freecycle.) On Saturday morning my folks watched the girls while I went on a gorgeous, 4-mile run past organic cattle pastures and woods and views of the ocean.

 

 

The highlight of the weekend, however, was a trip to a local Farm Day festival, where my mom got some great pics. Disclaimer: my mom also bought the girls the matching outfits and insisted that they wear them. (She has old pictures of me and my cousin in matching overall outfits, circa 1976). Not my cup of tea, as you know, but I must admit, they looked awful darn cute.

 

 

 

My Dad, aka "Bapa," introduces the girls to a duck. (Poor Clio, you'll notice, is a little puffy and splotched...she had a mysterious case of hives over the weekend, which we treated with Benadryl, and which have now completely cleared up.)  Shortly after this picture was taken, Elsa grabbed the duck and tried to hug it. 

 

 

 

Then it was over to the story tent, for some storytime with the town librarian / state rep. We have Silly Sally at home and the girls like it. I like it, too, though it does get a little weirdly PG-13 when ole Neddy Buttercup shows up on the scene.

 

 

 

 My mom was determined to get an adorable twins-in-the hay shot, but if you want to see God (or me) laugh, try to get two toddlers to stay in one place and look at the camera for a photo at the same time. Some of the resulting pictures were actually sort of interesting, like this one. Though, upon closer inspection, Clio looks like she's plotting some kind of children-of-the-corn-type massacre, and Elsa looks like someone just flashed her from the animal pen.

 

 

 

 

 And finally, here we all are, eating apples.

 

The stuff of which memories and Norman Rockwell paintings are made, eh? Of course even better than the weekend was Monday night, when Alastair finally came home from Europe, safe and sound. 

 


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Comments

 

childless lurker (not in a creepy way) said:

damn, are you a good writer!  been meaning to tell you that.  

- mara

October 8, 2008 10:01 AM
 

Roper said:

Thanks, Mara! Lurk your heart out. (Is this the Mara I know?)

October 8, 2008 10:18 AM
 

Sabrine said:

Neddy Buttercup!

He cracks my shizz up. What a prince.

October 8, 2008 1:14 PM
 

Melissa said:

Sounds like great fun.  Reminds me of my childhood, driving from the Bronx to upstate NY for fairs and such.  It is a slightly different feeling from Fall in Northern Virginia.  

The hay picture will make a good cover for Elsa and Clio's first folk CD.

October 8, 2008 1:20 PM
 

betty said:

so. cute. and that picture where elsa has a cute red pea coat, barrette (in tact, impressive), and i'm sorry, is that a purse? SO CUTE.

October 8, 2008 2:23 PM
 

mara said:

yes!  it' me.

mara

October 8, 2008 2:27 PM
 

Joanie said:

Adorable.

October 8, 2008 2:51 PM
 

winecat said:

Matching coveralls, adorable.

October 8, 2008 7:47 PM
 

chochomom said:

Love the pea coat. Where did you get it?

October 8, 2008 11:06 PM
 

Roper said:

Chocho -- the red coat came in a box of hand-me-downs from a friend, but I believe it's by Hannah Anderson. (Probably 3-4 years old, though....)

Betty, there's no purse -- I think you're just seeing the stripe on the coat -- but seriously; how cute would that be??

October 9, 2008 9:11 AM
 

Cara said:

So sweet and cute.. but gasp.  Are they matching and wearing pink?  Are you slipping over to the dark side??  Welcome!

October 9, 2008 11:35 AM
 

Roper said:

Cara -- no! My mother made me do it!! (See the disclaimer before the first photo!)

As for the pink, I've long since given up on trying to avoid that. It's impossible! (And truth be told, I like pink. As long as it's not too frilly....)

October 9, 2008 11:44 AM
 

Alisa said:

I fought the good fight about pink until people started giving me bags and bags of lovely, and very girly hand-me-down baby clothes. Now she's all dresses and pink and hot pink. We draw the line at princess stuff (until she asks). It just seems silly to buy clothes that are more gender neutral when we got the frilly stuff for free. And she looks damn cute in whatever she wears, so it works out.

The hand-me-down red/pink/polkadot satin dress was a big hit at Rosh Hashana services last week.

Also, as a twin who was almost never dressed alike, a few times won't hurt. My sis and I are two sides of the coin: very different, yet oddly similar :)  

October 9, 2008 2:34 PM
 

T's mom said:

Love it!! Oh and your mention of the swap shop is grand. My folks live in a teeny town in NH and before my last visit my step mom went to the swap shop and got all sorts of great baby gear, including an umbrella stroller that came in very handy on a few occasions!!

October 9, 2008 5:01 PM
 

Megan said:

Hi Jane,

Your description of the packing craziness was priceless,especially your stuff. I can just see you with a "suitcase full of nothing but socks, holding a pair of hiking boots in one hand and a cocktail dress in the other!"  Loved the picture of the three of you munching apples.  I really enjoy your blog and have been meaning to comment for a while.  I know Alastair from Fayerweather, where I used to teach preschool.  So glad he is back safely from Europe.  Just got his newsletter, his tour looked amazing, going to write to him next.  I am so sorry I haven't been able to catch any of his gigs, as I now live in Florida.  

PS I admire all that you manage to juggle with two toddlers.  I recently had my first child at 43 (Lucy- aka Lulu- now 7 months old) and I have my hands full with just her:-)

October 10, 2008 11:24 AM
 

Lauren Rosenthal said:

Hi Jane Roper.  Lauren Blum here.  Remember me?

Your posts make me laugh out loud.  And, being the mother of 2 ... I can totally relate.  No, they're not twins - they're 4 and 1.  My sister has twins though!  Would love to hear from you -- lauren.rosenthal@verizon.net

October 14, 2008 5:43 PM

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