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A Day of Firsts

Yesterday was one of those days where it felt like there were lots of new things going on. (How appropriate for Easter, yes?) It wasn't actually the girls' first Easter, but it was the first one we celebrated. We went to church in the morning, and in the afternoon, the girls partook in their first-ever (chocolate) egg hunt. This was totally a last-minute, minimalist effort -- I'd picked up two baskets and a couple of bags of chocolate eggs at CVS the day before. But the girls loved it.

 

I feel like it was the first holiday activity we've done with them where they seemed less like"babies," being dragged along for the ride (say Trick or Treat! Open your present! Etc.), and more like kids. When Clio first came down the back porch stairs, she spotted a chocolate egg, picked it up and said "Where did that come from?" (One of her new favorite expressions). Once we gave them their baskets and explained what they were supposed to do, they "got it" immediately, running around the yard and scooping up eggs, each time shouting "I found another egg!" And, like true kids, they were NOT happy when, after they'd each had some chocolate, I put their candy away to be doled out over the next few days (and eaten by me. Ha). In fact, there was a brief but intense crying jag until I distracted them with the idea of going around the living room and "finding" toys to put in their baskets. Of course, with older kids, this diversion technique never would have worked.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The girls also moved into their first home -- of the play-variety, that is: a playhouse, complete with toy phone, doorbell, sink (as Clio pointed out repeatedly), faux fireplace, and working, lion's head fountain in the wall next to the door. It's called the "old world" cottage or something. Really, you'd swear it was plucked right out of Italy or Southern France. That is, if it weren't made of molded plastic andonly four-feet square. (Details, details). Anyway, the girls were totally thrilled when, at last, we'd finished putting the thing together and they could go inside. Elsa gave many of her signature squeals of delight. I love that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We bought the thing new, which I'm a little bummed about. When it comes to large plastic things, I really prefer to buy them second-hand. I don't like encouraging the production of still more large, plastic things. But our Craigslist effort failed miserably (after we'd already recruited friends and their trailer to help us out) and we're too impatient to keep trolling for another option, and this particular playhouse was on sale. We also figured it will be a damned long time before we can ever take the girls to Europe, much less rent a cottage with a lion's head fountain, so this really is the next best thing. So, if spring ever truly springs (it continues to be awfully chilly here in the northeast) the girls are going to have some kickass backyard days. Next goal: a sandbox. I'd like to avoid a plastic one, if possible, so the mister and I may attempt to build one ourselves. That should be comical, to say the least.

 

 

The other first? Clio asked to pee in the potty, and did. Elsa accomplished this feat exactly once, back in January, but this was Clio's first successful, intentional potty endeavor. We are all very proud.

 

 

Before I go, just wanted to put in a plug for my friend Anna Solomon's excellent piece in yesterday's New York Times magazine -- a funny personal essay about her experience with the "three-month itch" that she got when her daughter was around three months old; in the haze and fatigue of new motherhood, she found herself suddenly thinking a lot about her exes. I myself did not experience this phenomenon; when I get an "itch" it's generally for people in the past that I crushed on but never dated. Or Matt Damon. But check it out -- I'm sure some of you out there will be able to relate.

 


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Comments

 

Alice said:

Re: sandpits - I've seen plenty of nurseries using tyres as sandpits, so if you can get one secondhand.  (A quick google of 'tyre sandpits' seems to indicate that people have managed to.)  Could be better than a plastic one and easier than building something?

Lovely to hear about the girls enjoying their playhouse.  Fingers crossed for lots of sun!  And thanks for the link, that's a great article. :)

April 13, 2009 5:22 PM
 

April said:

Awww the girls look so cute. The same happened to us yesterday. The boys did their egg hunt with plastic colored eggs and they loved it! We had to rehide them and do it again. I felt the same way about this Easter. This is the first holiday they actively participated in. It was so much fun! They took to it pretty quickly.  

Congrats on some potty usage! haha

Also I love that cottage you bought for them.I know which one it is. I want to get a playhouse for my boys too, one of the more manly looking ones but they are super expensive. I also hardly ever can find any good used ones that are reasonably priced, they usually want almost as much as it would take to buy one new. I bought my boys a turtle sandbox and sand toys and a big plastic pool for Easter this weekend and set it up while they were at my mom's house.

You really REALLY should not feel bad about buying Little Tikes and Step 2 type plastic toys. They are made to last and you can use it for how ever many years and then sell it for some good money to someone else who will then use it for several years...etc and so on and so on. That stuff gets recycled several times around by several different kids. They are so many more disposable things around in the world to worry about instead of these toys that last for years and years.

April 13, 2009 8:59 PM
 

Roper said:

Thanks, April. You know, I love how you always remind me not to worry about the dumb things I worry about! You're like my own little voice of reason. :)

A tire as sandbox -- very interesting idea. I will look into that....

April 13, 2009 9:14 PM
 

Rachel said:

Another easy way to build a sandbox is to use an old toddler tub - the big plastic kind, not the kind that fits over a sink (too small).  

Or you could buy landscape edging at the home and garden store to build a frame - usually about $5 per foot - and then fill it with sand.

We ended up buying a plastic one because we were still using out toddler tub as a tub, and the landscape edging seemed like too much trouble.  If we weren't planning to use ours for Josie, we'd offer it to you.  :-)

April 14, 2009 11:56 AM
 

Rachel said:

I forgot to say that the photos were adorable!

Evie participated in our neighborhood easter egg hunt this year and found 18 plastic eggs filled with candy.  Not bad, especially considering that it's not our holiday.  We had to put the candy away until after Passover - I'm hoping she'll forget about it in the meantime.

April 14, 2009 11:58 AM
 

Melissa said:

It's cold down here in the mid-Atlantic too.  We've gotten a couple of weeks here and there of warm weather and just when I'm convinced we're ready for short sleeves, it gets cold again.

They really change pretty quickly at this age, don't they?  Michael is losing some of his chubbiness -- I weep for the coming loss of the fat thighs.

April 14, 2009 1:27 PM
 

snickollet said:

Happy belated b-day, and congrats on all the firsts at your house.

I'm so with you on Matt Damon.

April 14, 2009 2:37 PM
 

April said:

haha Jane well I am glad you find me helpful and not a smarty pants know it all! ;) Thanks.

Yes the girls also look precious in those pics. I think Eric had that same opened mouth wow expression on Easter too.

After using the sandbox two days in a row, I am possibly going to warn you away from it....I mean it is pretty darn messy. The sand tables are not bad because they stand there and just play with it and don't get it all stuck to their clothes and in their shoes like the sandbox is doing. It is worse than I thought. Mostly because they dump all the sand out of the box and HAVE to climb into it to sit right on the sand....I could care less that my porch has sand all over it but I am kinda against it getting tracked into my house. Still what can you do? haha ;)

April 14, 2009 7:47 PM
 

winecat said:

I'm so shocked, I was sure that first picture was of Elsa!  Only when I saw the two of them together did I realize it was Clio!  A first for me. I can usually easily tell them apart.

What makes it really strange is my Mom and my aunt are identical twins who, to all us kids, look nothing alike.

April 15, 2009 5:40 AM

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