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Kids' Songs that aren't really Kids' Songs

This past weekend, Alastair started recording his first-ever album of kids' music -- or family music as he (and Dan Zanes) prefer to call it. It's going to be a mix of Alastair's original tunes and some covers of songs by American folk/blues greats like Woody Guthrie and Mississippi John Hurt. He played me some of the rough tracks last night, and I think it's going to be a great album -- the kind that adults will enjoy, too. Or at least not be driven insane by. (Of course, I'm somewhat biased.)

 

My sweetie's album aside, I think it's fair to say that we're in the midst of a children's music renaissance right now, and for this I am incredibly grateful. I truly feel for parents of the late eighties and early nineties, who had to sustain their children on an empty-calorie musical diet of Raffi, Hap Palmer and Wee Sing. There are just so many more options out there now -- the Putumayo albums, the former-rock-and-rollers-turned-kid-peformers albums (Dan Zanes, They Might Be Giants, etc.), the rediscovered digitally remastered special edition 70s classics albums (We've got Free to Be You and Me and The Point on CD), and the retro-cool rediscoveries (the Johnny Cash kids' album), to name only a few. I'm excited to check out more of these as the girls get more and more into listening to music.

 

But I'm also increasingly interested in identifying songs that aren't really "kids' music" per se, but that the girls like. We've hit on a few big winners so far: One is "Gone Gone Gone," from Raising Sand, the Allison Kraus and Robert Plant collaboration album. I really dig this album, and this song in particular. Plant lets a little bit of that old-time Zeppelin wailing rip and it makes me ever so slightly weak in the knees. It's also got a really good driving beat. When I play it in the car for the girls, I do this sort of dorky air-drumming and sing "boom boom boom, boom boom boom," along with the percussion. It caught on quick with Elsa and Clio, who started doing their own little air-drumming move and began referring to the song as "Boom boom" and, later, "Chicka boom." (A little cross-media confusion there.) Actually, they started requesting this one so much that I actually did get a little sick of it. Almost.

 

A more recent discovery is "Big Girls Don't Cry" by The Four Seasons. If you've been reading this blog for a while, then you already know that I am a serious, unrepentant Dirty Dancing fan. Well, this weekend on the way home from Maine, I put the soundtrack on because I was in the mood to sing along to something. When this song came on, Clio piped up: "It's a big girl song!" I asked, "Do you cry?" and she said, "No, I not crying." After it was over, she asked to hear the "Big Girl" song again. It may be a little early to say, but I predict that this one is going to be a big hit. Actually, a lot of stuff on the Dirty Dancing album has kid-friendly potential, ironically. There's "Be My Baby," for one (It's got a baby in it!). And "Stay," which features the line "Your mommy don't mind...and your daddy don't mind..." (Never mind what it's really about! It's got a mommy and a daddy!) I think it's probably advisable to stay away from "She's Like the Wind (Through my Tree)" -- but that has nothing to do with whether or not it's appropriate for children. More like whether or not it's appropriate that the song exists.

 

We've also got a couple of rad mix albums that friends of ours have put together for the girls, featuring such excellent non-kid-specific songs as "Octopus's Garden," "Favorite Things" from The Sound of Music, "Que Sera" sung by Doris Day, and "If You Want to Sing Out" by Cat Stevens. I'm planning to push these hard with the girls in the near future. I'm also thinking I need to go through my iTunes and make a giant playlist called "Kids' Songs that aren't really Kids' Songs." Or something slightly shorter. Any recommendations for songs to include? (Especially those that play into my personal predilection toward showtunes and 60s/70s music...?) 

 

 


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Comments

 

April said:

I love showtunes too. What about "I feel pretty" from West Side Story?  

I like Steve Songs.  He is on PBS.  We have one album of his that the kids love and I can tolerate at least the first time around after about an hour it gets old.

My boys like Deathcab for cuties for some reason.  That is the one CD in my car they won't protest about listening to.  They hate my Sarah Mclaughlin cd.

I remember I was babysitting 4 3 year olds when I was in high school. They really loved the Barbie girl song (one boy and 3 girls).  The mom bought the CD and just played "Barbie girl" on loop. I kept going down there to check on them, they just ran around for like over 2 hours singing "Barbie girl, Barbie girl".  They never got tired of it!  Yikes. Kids!

May 27, 2009 12:43 PM
 

renee said:

You don't have to dig too deep into the Jonathan Richman catalog to find great kids' songs. (I tried to make a Jojo kids' album myself but couldn't find half of what I wanted on itunes, and of course I don't have much of it on CDs.)  But I'm A Little Airplane, Ice Cream Man, Wheels on the Bus...it's perfect.

On road trips one of our kids' favorites is the first Knitters album, Poor Little Critter on the Road.  Their version of Rock Island Line is actually better than Dan Zanes's, and they even like the X song The New World.

May 27, 2009 1:03 PM
 

Andy Berlind said:

Some favorites of our son Alex (2 year and almost 3 months) that are on a playlist that often gets us through meals and car rides: Yellow Submarine (which oftentimes turns into Elmo Submarine), A-Punk by Vampire Weekend (he asks for it by the name Aye-Aye - listen and you'll get it right away), Take Back the City by Snow Patrol ("Whoa Whoa"), What I Like about You (by ?), Viva La Vida by Coldplay, Jump by Van Halen...

We need to add Gone Gone Gone to the rotation, since I love that album too!

May 27, 2009 1:06 PM
 

Melissa said:

I love music and am really moved by a lot of different types of music, depending on my mood.  But I find that Michael loves his kiddie songs the best.  I have a 3-cd set of kids songs, sung by kids, that is very repetitive and can be annoying, but he loves it so much.  Maybe because I'm sort of a jingle queen, it doesn't bother me to listen to them 50 times over and over.

I do need to get the Free to be You and Me cd, though. I grew up on that album!!  I probably still know all the words.

Oh, and we like Laurie Berkner.

May 27, 2009 1:30 PM
 

Heather said:

Early Beatles songs have really simple lyrics.  "You say yes, I say no, You say stop I say go go go . . . You say goodbye, I say hello"  My son's 21 months and he's got all the words down!  Plus the contrary theme fits our lives these days-- I say yes (you need a bath / diaper changed), he says NOOOOOOOO!!!!!

May 27, 2009 1:53 PM
 

beyond said:

kids usually love the beatles.

May 27, 2009 2:04 PM
 

EG said:

I love Dan Zanes.  I have "The Welcome Table" on our baby regsitry for #2 even though I'm the one who really wants it!

Keep us updated on A's album!

Little Man loves They Might Be Giants as well - we have Here Comes the ABC's, but he likes it all equally (Hubby says ABC's is their most coherent album 'cause they stick to one topic that kind of makes sense).  And we don't want him to learn any lyrics, but he likes anything with a strong beat like hip hop or hard rock.

May 27, 2009 2:06 PM
 

Michele said:

Great idea! My husband and I are big fans of New Orleans music so we bought this when it came out:

http://funkykidzmusic.com/

So they are actually kids songs, but done with more sophisticated instrumentals and with a fun twist.

We also listen to a lot of soul music with them (Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Maze, etc.) and they seem to like it.  At least we do and they are too young to tell us otherwise ;-)

May 27, 2009 3:11 PM
 

Dustin said:

hi Jane- it's been too many years since I've seen you!

Some recommendations....

Not for Kids Only - Garcia and Grisman

Family Time - Ziggy Marley

Sing Alongs and Lullabies- Jack Johnson

Hope you are well!

Dustin

May 27, 2009 3:24 PM
 

Eva said:

Recent favorites at our house:

In the jungle the mighty jungle...

Do Re Me (Also Sound of Music)

Penn State Blue Band (maybe that's only a local fave)

Me and Julio Down by the Schoolyard (be ready to answer "Why Mama spit on the ground?")

Put the lime in the coconut

Iko Iko (not the Rainman version)

Abba is quite popular (Dancing Queen is a fave)

I know there are others, but that's what I can remmeber

May 27, 2009 3:55 PM
 

jb said:

How about Feelin' Groovy [The 59th Street Bridge Song] by Simon & Garfunkel?

When I was tiny, my parents bought me a cassette of doo wop songs--Rockin' Robin, Itsy Bitsy Teeny Weeny Yellow Polka Dot Bikini, This Diamond Ring, Teenager in Love.  It was my favorite favorite tape!

May 27, 2009 4:17 PM
 

Rachel said:

I second the Beatles, Steve Songs, Jonathan Richman, and showtunes (the ones that aren't annoying).  I found that Evie also really liked most of the songs on Graceland, even though I'm sure she doesn't understand the lyrics - she likes the music.

May 27, 2009 4:31 PM
 

Liz said:

The Garden Song- David Mallett

Love Story-Taylor Swift (which my (might-as-well-be) nieces refer to as the princess song and tend to sing "I'll be a princess, you'll be a princess"))

Umbrella- Rhianna (be prepared to hear ella ella ella eh for hours)

Sweet Potato Pie- Ray Charles & James Taylor

Coming Around Again- Carly Simon (the live version with itsy bitsy spider was a fave)

The Circle Song

But we listened to a lot of Jackson Browne, Billy Joel, James Taylor, Carly Simon, Bruce Springsteen, Eagles and Don Henley... nothing too scaring

May 27, 2009 4:45 PM
 

cnoelk said:

Musicals, musicals, musicals! There is soooo much to choose from that will please the adults and minors in the car or wherever. Off the top of my head, here is a short list (given time I could go on for days!):

Wouldn't It Be Loverly - My Fair Lady

A Bushel and a Peck - Guys and Dolls

Do-Re-Mi - The Sound of Music

Any Dream Will Do - Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat

Hair - Hair

Tomorrow - Annie

Getting to Know You - The King and I

Seasons of Love - Rent

Over the Rainbow - The Wizard of Oz

As a child of the 70s/80s, I am also a huge fan of Free to Be You and Me.

May 27, 2009 5:09 PM
 

Heather said:

My twins are only 9 weeks but I already had all of the Justin Roberts cd's before they were born.  Definitely songs that you won't ever tire of!

May 27, 2009 5:10 PM
 

Googhie said:

My twins are a month behind yours in age.  Beatles are a huge hit with us especially Ob-la-di Ob-la-da.  They also seem to enjoy Talking Heads of all things.

May 27, 2009 7:03 PM
 

Jen said:

Quibble time - I respectfully dissent from any opinion which remotely suggests anything but total adoration of all things Patrick Swayze. And that includes the brilliant "She's Like The Wind (Through My Tree)." End rant. Oh and sorry but I loathe Dan Zanes - he seems too happily complicit in unleashing his "music" on the world and unsuspecting, Patrick Swayze-adoring adults everywhere.

May 27, 2009 8:13 PM
 

Twin Mom said:

My twins love the Carpenters

May 27, 2009 8:24 PM
 

Alyson said:

Another vote for the Beatles.  Always a big hit!  The girls also like:

Ricky Nelson's version of You Are My Sunshine

Tia Carrere's Hawaiian version of Sing

Robin Hitchcock and the Egyptian's  Balloon Man

The Coasters' Yakety Yak

Bing Crosby's Swinging on A Star

Thurston Harris' Little Bitty Pretty One

I also want to recommend Frances England.  She does play kids music, but it's totally something I would listen to anyway.

May 27, 2009 8:29 PM
 

Alyson said:

Also wanted to recommend the Smithsonian Folkways kids album.  Delicious!

May 27, 2009 8:31 PM
 

Rachel said:

Alyson - we love the Smithsonian Folkways album, too!

We also like They Might Be Giants (but we like Flood, not the kids album).  

"Hey ya" by Outkast is a favorite, too.

There are some great recommendations here - I'll have to check some of them out!

May 27, 2009 9:12 PM
 

jenn/hippygoth said:

This is one of my all time favorite favorite topics.  First thing I would recommend is to listen to the Spare the Rock, Spoil the Child podcast (http://www.sparetherock.com and iTunes).  Bill is local (Western MA in the house!) and has great taste.  The tagline is "Indie Music for Indie Kids," but it isn't as precious as it sounds.  He plays lots of family music and also lots of just regular old music that is great for kids.  And his kids co-host the show.  It's good stuff, I swear.  I have been known to listen to the podcasts at work on my headphones.

That being said, some of Charlotte's favorite "regular" music songs are "London Calling" by the Clash and anything punk that passes the censors.  Also, big fan of "Sweet Caroline" by Neil Diamond.  It's a Red Sox thing.

May 27, 2009 9:17 PM
 

Julie said:

Right now, our car rotation includes Blondie, Aretha Franklin, Elvis Costello, Hoodoo Gurus, Jimmy Cliff and the Wilco/Billy Bragg CD Mermaid Avenue V.1 (great one).  If you do burn a disk of kids' music that's not really kids' music, I might want to buy a copy (or at least copy your play list).  

Great idea for a post, I'm happy to see what other people are listening to.  My husband has a gajillion Johnathan Richman CDs that we haven't listened to in ages -- glad to be reminded of him.

May 27, 2009 11:05 PM
 

outlawjosywales said:

We like Ella Jenkins and Elizabeth Mitchell!

Make us a playlist please!

May 28, 2009 12:06 AM
 

patricia said:

My daughter's taste runs to the Lite FM playlist, I'm afraid (not because that's what we listen to; Im not sure where she gets it), but she really likes Jason Mraz's "I'm Yours", and anything by Ingrid Michaelson.  She also likes most everything by Pink and Beyonce's "All the Single Ladies" and Rihanna's "Umbrella."  

Funny you should mention "Big Girls Don't Cry."  My kid likes the Fergie song by the same name.  I bet she'd like the Four Seasons song as well!

May 28, 2009 9:34 AM
 

Melanie said:

Mary Poppins soundtrack is in heavy rotation in our house, especially "steppy time" as our 2.5 yr old calls it.  We've got The Point too (husband's nostalgic fondness led us to that one) and I must admit that the narrative parts drive me nuts a little, but the music is good.  We've got "Peter and the Wolf" (the classical piece) narrated by Boris Karloff that I like better.

Other stuff that are hits in our house:

"Marching band music" i.e. Souza marches like Stars and Stripes Forever

Toots and the Maytals

Bomba y Plena (Puerto Rican music, world music in general, and Caribbean music in particular, seems to be appealing)

Elizabeth Mitchell

May 28, 2009 9:54 AM
 

Robin said:

I recommend The Terrible Twos. I saw them on the Kidzapalooza stage at Lollapalooza last year and the kids seemed to love it. Also, Feist is always good.

May 28, 2009 1:34 PM
 

snorkmaiden said:

My 15 month old loves the Smiths ("Sweet and Tender Hooligan" is a favorite).  "Jazz for Kids" is another big hit at our house (a compilation I found out about on Babble).  And nobody's mentioned the Barenaked Ladies, yet ... I have "Pollywog in a Bog" stuck in my head as I type this, and I'm totally okay with that because it's actually a really great song.  Definitely post your playlist!

May 28, 2009 2:30 PM
 

Nik said:

Elizabeth Mitchell has already been mentioned-- she and her husband are really wonderful. They have a few albums out that are for kids (they also have an indie band together-- Ida-- that's really good.). The albums are mostly classics and standards and maybe a few originals. These were the first albums that my daughter would stop her playing to listen to. She sits in front of our speakers and sings along. The listening is actually an activity in and of itself rather than just background. The songs are just really pretty and sweet. I love them as much as my daughter. Other music we are enjoying lately as a family:

Sufjan Stevens

Yo La Tengo (esp. the album Fakebook)

old Elvis Presley

anything bluegrass

Raffi

May 28, 2009 3:09 PM
 

Lori said:

Both my son and I LOVE the Nicky the Jazz Cat album: www.nickythejazzcat.com/home.html. Highly recommend it!

May 28, 2009 4:07 PM
 

Jen said:

At summer camp when I was little we used to sing Cats in the Cradle, Circle Game and Miss American Pie.  At the time, I had no idea what they were about or that they were anything but summer camp songs...which is kind of funny because Cats in the Cradle is a little depressing!  We even had fun hand movemements to go along with Circle Game.

May 28, 2009 5:39 PM
 

snorkmaiden said:

Jen, that's so funny ... "Cats in the Cradle" was my absolute favorite song when I was little!  I completely ignored most of the lyrics and just focused on the childlike part of the chorus, and I was amazed when I was older to realize what the song was actually about.  When I was a little kid I also adored Liza Minelli's version of "Cabaret," but was completely unaware of most of the lyrics (pills and liquor?  happiest corpse?)  That's why I don't tend to sweat the questionable lyrical content of some of the non-kid music my toddler listens to, especially right now.  If she can bounce around like a maniac to it, it's a good song.

May 28, 2009 7:36 PM
 

Megg said:

We cant get enough Kimya Dawson.

May 28, 2009 9:35 PM
 

Julia said:

We were all raised on a steady diet of oldies - they work pretty well because they used to not be able to say anything inappropriate and they're insanely catchy. I think My Girl was my favorite song until I was maybe seven? It's a good one, is my point. The most over-played tape (hah! tapes) in our car was far and away what we called "The Brenda Tape", which was a mix tape recorded off the radio (I know, right? How old-school is that?) of oldies.

Also, our favorite kid's-artist-my-parents-liked was Bill Harley. I think they got every cassette he'd ever made even after we outgrew him.

May 29, 2009 12:31 PM
 

knockedup said:

I'm a big oldies fan myself.  Axel seems to like some Beach Boys songs (Barbara Ann, for example), and Buddy Holly (Maybe Baby's a good one).  But really, he likes anything - my husband plays lots of old school punk and hardcore and he digs that, and he's also been known to dance to snippets of opera that have come on NPR.  He really likes Weezer, The Specials, Morphine and Rocket from the Crypt, and also digs the Hawaiian version of Somewhere Over the Rainbow.  

I have yet to play him the Dirty Dancing soundtrack, but now I have to.  I, too, love that movie.  It's the perfect sleepover flick.

May 30, 2009 10:18 AM
 

Roper said:

WOW!! SO many great ideas here. I knew you people would deliver.

Now, if only I could afford to go download all of this stuff from iTunes.

I will, however, make my Kid-friendly-grownup-music playlist at some point -- and may even spend a few bucks on it -- and will report back to you here!

May 30, 2009 4:23 PM
 

Cathy Hurst said:

This exchange makes me remember the song that my son called "The Shampoo Song" when he was about your girls' age--he was raised in the disco era (poor guy) and we used to sing this when I washed his hair in the bathtub.  I'd soap his hair and pour water on it, and then I'd sing "How do you like it, how do you like it?" and he'd come sputtering out from under, singing "More, more, more!" and then I'd pour more water.  It went on for at least a half dozen rounds!  (As with "your mommy don't mind", we left out the "how do you like your love" part....)

May 31, 2009 8:53 PM
 

Jen said:

I forgot to mention, Piano Man was also a favorite at summer camp.  Never even thought about the businessmen slowly getting stoned because I had no idea what it was.  I also wondered why they were putting bread in his jar (like loaves, not cash).

June 1, 2009 5:29 PM
 

Kara said:

While not 60/70's, Brendan LOVES Beck and has an affinity for the Who. Beck was on demand for the longest time and played daily. Clap hands is great song/video. They use glasses, bells, forks, knives, spoons as instruments. Check it out on YouTube.

June 3, 2009 1:28 PM
 

winecat said:

Might as well have fun while you're at it - Alice Peacock

This Land is your Land - Arlo Guthrie

Ukulele Lady - Arlo again

All Work together - Arlo  Yes I'm a folk music junkie

Devoted to you - beach boys

Splish Splash - Bobby Darin

Devoted to you - Carly and James

There's a kind of a hush - Carpenters

Let the Sunshine - cast of Hair

Orinoco Flow - Celtic Woman  probably over the heads at this point but a great song.

Heart & Soul - The Cleftones

But your record on - Corinne Bailey Rae

Lots of Peter, Paul & Mary especially if you want them to grow up protesters - Yes Elsa and Clio protesting whale killing, green house gas, social injustice.

I think I better stop now or this list will go on all night.

Some of the songs will be to "Old" for them put just let the music flow through their lovely souls.

June 3, 2009 10:35 PM

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