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  • The 20-month bump

    I'm sure I've said this before, but every few months or so, it feels like the girls make a great leap forward developmentally. They can be cruising along at more or less the same social / verbal / physical level for weeks and weeks, then all of a sudden, they surge forward on the winding path from babyhood to childhood.

     

     

     

    The latest leap seemed to coincide with our recent vacation, (which I think is part of what made it an especially rewarding trip) and was all kinds of fun to experience. The novelty will no doubt wear off soon enough, but there have been some particularly heartwarming and adorable developments.

     

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  • And we're back.

    Home again, after a week at family camp in New Hampshire, followed by a few days in Vermont, where Alastair played in a folk festival. I am pleased to report that we had a really lovely time. In fact, this is the first time we've gone away with the girls that I wasn't dying to come home by the end of it. The secret: expectation management. As I mentioned in my last post, I went into this vacation with my eyes wide open, knowing it was going to be tiring and chaotic and nothing like pre-child trips of yore. But I very consciously decided not to be grumpy about this, and try, instead, to savor what is so fabulous and rewarding about having Clio and Elsa along for the ride.

     

    Like introducing them to the wonderful game of bocce. The balls were a little too heavy for the girls to pick up, so we played a little-known, ancient variation on the game where you run up and down the bocce court waving your hands over your head and squealing, and occasionally kicking one of the balls. (It's still played this way in a certain village in Sardinia, I'm told.)

     

     

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  • The Vacation Album

    As promised -- and I know you were all holding your breath -- here are some pics from our week at Sandy Island. After that, we'll have a slide show and lecture on the gymnosperms of New England, and after that, we'll clean out the garage. Then I'll buy you all ice cream for being so good. Ready? Let's go.

     

     

    Here we are on the porch of Alastair's parents' cabin, Analto (for all you other Sandyites out there). During the week we discovered that paper cups make excellent toys, as do paper plates, plastic bowls, empty potato chip bags (crinkly!) and flip flops. Shortly after this photo was taken, Elsa attempted to dive face-first off the porch onto the granite step below. I caught her by the straps of her dress, just in time. The girl has no innate sense of self-preservation. At what age do they start understanding the concept of ledges, and how you shouldn't crawl / walk / dive over them? Ever?

     

     

     

    Here's Clio in the dining hall with her "uncle" Jeff. I have to admit, I'm not a big fan of the ersatz uncle moniker, as it makes me think of a slightly sleazy boyfriend a divorced mom brings home. "Kids, meet your Uncle Jim. You're going to be seeing a lot of him. Not like Uncle Dave and Uncle Bob and Uncle Leo. They were no good, two-timing bastards. But Uncle Jim is here to stay. Right, Jim-baby?" 

     

    But I digress. As I mentioned in the last post, Clio was in great spirits at Sandy, and seemed much more comfortable around new people. She also added a few new silly moves to her silly repertoire. While sitting in her high chair, she would suddenly tilt her head over to one side, resting on her shoulder, and smile. Lord knows why, but it was very cute. She's also started doing this goofy-bordering-on-creepy thing where she bobbles her head back and forth like a Bollywood heroine. And she continues to enjoy flapping  her arms and banging her feet and rocking vigorously forward and back, headbanger style, while seated. I hope these repetetive motion tendencies aren't an indication that something is amiss. My apologies to any Indian film stars or Quiet Riot fans I've offended by posing the question.

     

     

     

     

    Here, the ladies lounge happily on Sandy beach. Elsa is probably about to put a handful of sand in her mouth, grimace in displeasure, whimper uncomfortably as I try to get the sand out of her mouth and off her face, and then grab another handful of sand and repeat.  


     

    Sometimes putting the babies in the water went over well. Other times, not so much.

     

     

     

     

    We borrowed our friends' Urban Mountain Buggy double stroller for the week, and I don't know how we would have survived without it. The thing handles like a dream, fits through doorways, works on almost any terrain. Only problem is, now we're totally spoiled and we totally want one. But they totally cost about $700 new. So even a used one wouldn't be cheap. Hey, if anyone from the Urban Mountain Buggy stroller company is reading this, do you need a spokesperson? Like, perhaps an unfamous mother of twins with a mommy blog read by dozens of people? No? Well, it was worth a shot.

     

     


     

    Here, the girls tolerate and survive their first Sandy Island Italian Night. Shown here, the traditional bellowing of "That's Amore" by a bunch of silly adults, including abuelito, all of whom have had a few glasses of wine before dinner.

     

     

     

     

    Speaking of wine....well, probably the less said about this picture the better. Sufficeth to say, Mama still remembers how to party. And she's a pretty good shot. (That's a BB gun, by the way.)

     

     

     

    About to board the 11:00 boat and say fare thee well to Sandy until next year -- when the girls will be walking. And I thought this year was a lot of work...
     



  • How We Spent Our Summer Vacation

    We just got back from a week at lovely Sandy Island family camp, and have the bug bites, dirty fingernails and suitcases smelling of damp towels to prove it. It was a great week, with stellar weather, and the girls wowed everyone with their cuteness. It was a lot of fun to introduce them to people we've known for years, some of whom have known Alastair since he was a kid. Clio quickly overcame her stranger anxiety, and let herself be passed from person to person like a small, smiling hot potato. (Or cheap floozy, if you like.) Elsa was actually the one who got a little cranky and clingy as the week went on, showing a marked preference for being held by yours truly. I must admit that while part of me wanted her to just buck up and deal, another part kinda liked it. (I'm the mommy! I'm the mommy!)


    The gals had many adventures, including a couple of dips in Lake Winepesaukee and their first glimpses of live tennis, as their father triumphed on the court to become the reigning Week 9 champ. Elsa sampled mouthfuls of every natural substance on the island, including sand, dirt, pine needles, grass and wood chips, and Clio finally broke a tooth. It's just a little white speck, but it's there. In other oral news, both girls became quite proficient at eating Cheerios, which we employed frequently to keep them occupied in the dining hall during mealtimes. By the end of the week, they were actually swallowing the majority of the O's that they stuffed in their mouths, as opposed to dropping them down their shirts, getting bits of them stuck in their noses, smeared on their shirts, etc. By majority, I mean approximately 51%.

     
    We had a great time, too, although, needless to say, it was quite a different vacation experience from past years at Sandy. Thankfully, people were incredibly helpful (extra special shout-outs to Heidi, Jeff and Julia and, of course, Abuelito) so we did manage to squeeze in some tennis, a few dips in the lake, and some nights "out" -- contra dancing in the lodge, music trivia in the dining hall, moon-gazing on the dock. But -- did you sense a "but" coming? -- as nice as the week was, it was also the first time since the girls were born that I've felt a little bit of longing for my life before them.

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