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  • Latest Library Finds

    We've gotten in the habit of going to the library every few weeks and taking out a dozen or so kids' books. It keeps things interesting at storytime, and gives the girls new material to check out as they more frequently look at books independently. (I love this!) It's also a great way to try out a variety of books and authors, see what you like and don't like, and what appeals to the girls. Of course, what appeals can be different for each of them, which gets a little tricky. Elsa, for example, seems to really like books with monsters, dinosaurs and other slightly scary or spooky things. Clio, these days, is terrified of them. Even 'Hop on Pop' freaks her out for some reason. (And yet, we just got this book about a monster who eats the darkness -- aptly named The Monster Who Ate Darkness -- which she likes. The girl's an enigma.)

     

    Anyway, the downside is that we don't get to keep the books that we love. I'm trying to make note, however, of ones I might like to buy at some point. Or at least borrow repeatedly. Here are a few we've discovered recently that I think are pretty cool. Admittedly, these are ones that both the girls and I like. There are plenty that they love that I find as annoying, dull and/or poorly written as all get-out. But here are a few mutually appreciated library finds that I'd highly recommend. Common themes include: good writing, good illustration, a good storyline, humor, and absence of zoo-geological inaccuracies (i.e. tigers in Africa, alligators in India, etc. -- drives me bonkers!)

     

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  • When do twins understand the concept of twins?

    Not that it's that important, really. But I've often been curious about when twin children are old enough to understand the fact that they're twins, and what that means (in broad strokes, anyway). Just as Alastair and I don't know any other way of parenting except the two-at-a-time sort, our girls don't know any kind of existence but the there-is-another-person-who's-always-around sort. They are peretually aware of each other, looking out for each other, competing with each other.

     

    Meanwhile, most of their "friends" (i.e. the children of our friends) are singletons. But if they find this state of being strange (Where's the person you fight over stuff with all the time? Who's the other person in your room? You mean you get your parents all to yourself?) then they certainly don't give any indication. Now that the girls are more verbal, we've started talking about the fact that they're twins sometimes, usually in reference to other twins they sometimes play with: Ethan and Emmett are twins just like you! Milo and Amelia are twins, just like you! Etc. I wonder if, when they hang out with their singleton pals, they wonder where the "other one" is?

     

    (Pic after the jump)

     

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  • Asking in a Library Voice

    Sometimes I feel like I lose perspective on whether I'm being a reasonable, fair-minded member of society or I'm being an entitled, self-centered, pain in the ass Mom with a capital M.

     

    When you become a parent -- and a parent of twins in particular -- you become suddenly aware of all kinds of things you were never aware of before: which parks and playgrounds are enclosed; which coffee shops can be entered and navigated successfully with a double stroller; which grocery stores have those carts shaped like cars, with two seatbelts and two steering wheels up front. You generally go to the places that are twin-toddler friendly and avoid the ones that aren't. You're grateful when people are helpful -- holding doors open as you try to maneuver through with your Hummer-sized stroller, for example -- but you don't expect the whole world to adapt itself to your peculiar (and temporary) needs.

     

    Still, is it wrong to make a teeny tiny suggestion? To a public institution? As a taxpayer?

     

    Here's what happened. On Friday morning, I was all excited to take the girls to our town's public library. They've been really into reading lately, so I thought we could pick out a few titles to refresh our board book collection, hang out, soak up the library scene. The air was crisp and sunny. I was in a good mood. It seemed like the perfect, wholesome, low-cost morning outing.

     

     

    Reading with daddy 

     

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Jane Roper

Jane Roper in Boston

One baby? Piece of cake. Try two. This working mother gives you the inside scoop on the ultimate in extreme parenting: twins.

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