Band on the Diaper Run

Let the Language Linger

I just realized today that I'm guilty of thinking my child's pronounciation of words is too cute to correct.  She wanted to play the "Fanking" game (try to tag each other by spanking and then running away-totally in fun of course-no real spanking at our house)  Then I heard myself saying "prenzel" when she wanted to eat a pretzel.

 

 

 And my favorite, "I want the flower girl dress with Farkles on it!"  (that's sparkles-in case you can't translate)

 

I remember thinking it was annoying when Mags was a baby and people would do baby talk words to her when she was old enough to say the real word-or adding on an additional repeating word to make them, I don't know, more comprehensibe to a one year old?  (ie.  Do you want your "dink-dink" for "drink")

 

I guess I'm guilty of not educating her to the fullest...Sometimes, I just don't want her to grow up.  But, this week she learned how to finger knit and sew.   In some cases, I'm so proud to see her to grow up and become independent and at other times, I want her to keep talking like a little girl so I can savor her preschool years. I'm sure eventually I will start working with her slight lisp and her consonant blends but for today, nope.

 

We registered for Kindergarten (even though she still might go to a private school-we have to register just in case) Sitting there with my health forms and paperwork waiting to be a part of the system (maybe),  I realized that in less than 2 months we will be returning from tour to see our little girl graduate from preschool. And, yes, I'm pretty sure we will be crying behind our video camera.  After her preschool conference we were even more confident that we are proud and fragile parents-just like all those parents that hover on the playground or worry about their kid crying the second they leave them the first day of school...the kind that the non-parent people make fun of...that's us.  

 

My little sister, who coincidentally is the best baby talking impersonator I know, is having twins on Thursday.  I can't even imagine how that would feel.  It's exciting and I'm sure very exhausting.  Any twin advice out there?  She will have three boys total this time on Thursday.  She's a boy maker and I'm the girl maker.   I can't wait to see her with 3 kids.

 

 Good luck!!


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Comments

 

Apryl said:

I totally feel your school-related-angst.  I've been trying to decide between starting kindergarten vs. one more year of preschool.  So if we have pre-school graduation in 3 months, I'll be crying AND feeling guilt about pushing my little baby out of the nest too soon.  Who knew that school could be so stressful.  Forget about college!  Kindergarten is what's killing us!  And I am now a neurotic overplanning parent.  Crap.

BTW, my 4 year old won't let me take "Bring It Back" out of the cd player.  Her favorite bit to sing is the, "...taste of the meal, and not the routine" part.  

March 11, 2009 12:08 AM
 

Whonow said:

For twin advice:

Have two sets of supplies (diapers plus bouncy seats or swings) on each level of the house so you dont have to run up and down the stairs. (helped us a lot)

Make sure Dad comes home at a decent hour to keep you sane.

Split up the night time care (one per parent).  The one who sleeps the best can go with dad (assuming he goes to work and mom doesnt).

Hire someone to help you..(unless you have a very generous relative around who is willing to help)  At least for a few hours a week - its too much work for one person!

March 11, 2009 12:30 PM
 

Migs said:

I was totally thinking this same thing this past week.  As my husband was correcting our 2 year old I told him to stop because I'll be sad when she learns the correct pronunciation once and for all because she'll never go back and that will mean she's growing up and she's doing that fast enough dangit!  For the letter "w" she used to say 'double doo' and has already corrected herself to a proper 'double you' sound.  I miss it already.  

March 11, 2009 3:08 PM
 

Jeff B said:

I had a lisp when I was young as well. I just got put in a speech class in elementary school...Basically I would talk the way they told me too when I went to the class once a week and talk normally the rest of the time..ha..

March 11, 2009 4:01 PM
 

heather said:

lots and lots of speech "impediments" are still age appropriate beyond klindergarten so don't start correcting yet - you'll only stress everyone out.

i remember driving my neighbor's kindergartner to school with my 3 year old son in the car, my son asked the 5 year old, what's your teacher's name?  he replies mister wawwy (real name mr. lally), my son says, oh, mr. wawwy, kindergarten says no, mr. wawwy - and on and on!

btw - "l"'s that sound like "w"'s is age appropriate still for a kindergartner  :-)

March 12, 2009 12:37 PM
 

Jessica said:

Hi Kori. I know that this i probably not the right forum for this, but I had to try.  I didn't know how much you check your regular website email.  My husband and I are avid fans of Mates (and your blog).  Your music has been part of our lives in a big way over the last several years.  We are expecting our first kiddo in June! We were planning on going to the April 5th show in Williamsburg.  It's the day after my baby shower and was going to be our last "show date" before the kid.  So, i just went to get tickets and it's sold out!  I waited too long.  I know that I'm going out on a limb here, but I was wondering if there is anything you can do to help us out.  Here is my email address if you can get back to me.  jmaeallen@hotmail.com

Thanks so much.  

Jessica

March 13, 2009 12:04 PM
 

Claire said:

Hi,

I just found your blog through the website (so excited that you're coming to LA next month- I'm totally going to be at the Fonda show!).  Hope you don't mind if I check in to your blog every now and then- My husband's in a band and we're trying to get pregnant this year (actually proving to be rather challenging, when he's out touring and not home- haha!) so I'm really interested in hearing your experiences with having your kids on the road with you...

And now an actual response to your post- my nephew always would say "BlehBlah" instead of "water".  He could pronounce Water-  We'd say "WAH" and he'd repeat "wah" then "ter" "ter" and then "water" and he'd say "BlehBlah".  Every single time.  And then one day when he was probably about three, we noticed he was saying the real word for "water" and it broke our hearts.  So I say, it is cute and don't worry- she'll probably correct it herself down the road when the time comes.

March 15, 2009 9:27 PM
 

Penny said:

Hey fam, love you all

My thoughts are that as long as you say the word properly most of the time, it should be fine. As long as she generally hears the word properly, she'll eventually say them correctly. I know a 7 year old who still says words wrong because when his family said it they always said it the 'cute way' he did (ie 'ponice'= police) Some of my favorite things that Paige says are the mispronounced words. (ie 'moy'=more).

March 16, 2009 11:36 PM
 

Christi* said:

In our house it's brezpiz.  He's six on Friday and I've never corrected him.  Selfish.  So what?  I don't get what I want most of the time.

March 17, 2009 7:13 PM
 

Courtney Hutson said:

Kori...Smart Mom sent me an extra bracelet/necklace set (it's turquoise) and I'll bring it to dance class for you on Monday.  I think you'll really enjoy wearing it, especially when you're nursing so she has something to tug on.  Thanks for checking out my blog...and tell your friends.  I have all sorts of giveaways and stuff coming up!  

P.S.  Your blog is adorable and Brooklyn and I checked out your music and we love it!

See you Monday,

Courtney Hutson

oneboredmommy.blogspot.com

March 18, 2009 7:36 AM
 

Mindy said:

Have you thought about homeschooling at all? It's obviously portable so your kids could be in school wherever you go. Apparently, homeschool curriculums are really easy to teach and home schooled kids often finish school faster than they would in a more traditional school. Also, there are a lot of groups around just for homeschool kids to get together and socialize. There are sports groups, dance groups etc. depending on what's available where you live.

March 23, 2009 6:30 AM

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