Tori Spelling and her mom put their differences behind them last year after the birth of Spelling's son Liam.

"I love my mom. My mom loves me. We don't have an easy relationship. I don’t think we ever will, but I’d rather have a complicated misunderstood relationship than no relationship at all."

This stressful relationship has Tori torn about wanting a daughter.  "Part of me desperately wants a little girl, so that I can have the relationship that my mother and I didn’t quite have. And then on the other hand, I’m scared that I’ll just kind of repeat mistakes that my mother made with me, maybe. Um, so -- but I’d like to give it a try."

Having gone through the same thing myself, and ending up with two sons, I understand exactly how she feels.  I hope that whatever she has, she knows not to make the same mistakes her mother did.  I'm sure the awareness of this possibility will be enough to be a good mom to another son, or a daughter.