Emma Bunton is a women after my own heart. 

Emma gave birth 5 months ago to Beau and in true celebrity tradition already looks to be in good shape. She is in such good shape partly because of the vigorous work she did post-baby for the spice girls reunion tour. The tour was only two and a half months after she had little Beau and she has said that she doesn't know if she would ever do that again, put her body through that kind of work out, that is. Emma also had insecurities, all of us do, but, she actually talked about them. She said that she had to remind herself that she wasn't being judged for her weight, since she just had a baby. She decided that she liked being curvy and her insecurities were swept away.

Does that mean that we are too hard on ourselves and others for having that baby weight at all? Sounds like it to me.

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