"E.R." star Goran Visnjic and his wife Ivana Vrdoljak took a leisurely stroll with their son Tin Visnjic.
How spoiled is that dog?
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Isn't that the guy that won't have anything to do with his daughter?
Yeah, he cheated on his wife and fathered another child. That part isn't so cute.
You know, the fact is that most of what came out in American press about Goran Visnjic and his daughter was nothing but sensational nonsense from Mirela, the woman he got pregnant. The guy has taken steps to keep his daughter away from the press just the same as he does with his son and he pays child support which is literally more than double most people's monthly salary in Croatia (Rupic is unemployed, lives with her parents and spends this money on vacations, concerts and going to see her boyfriend in Zagreb, which she then flaunts in the media.) He filed for visitation rights and they only granted him something like eight hours, one day a month. He's going to be a stranger to her whether he's in the states or in Croatia to see her; I think it's a little unfair to say he just doesn't want anything to do with her.
Uh, what? He was awarded visitation (nice PR move), which he himself has chosen not to follow through with. Of course he doesn't want anything to do with her- or rather, his wife's family will never allow it.
As for the version that got through to the American press, are you kidding? It was Goran's version of events, not Mirela's. The American media persists in calling the baby the result of a jet-lagged one-night stand. As for Goran, he is a joke in Croatia, everyone knows he's been cheating on that Vrdoljak woman for years. You can't throw a rock without hitting someone whose sister, cousin or neighbor has slept with Goran Visnjic!
Wow! What a guy. He was awarded visitation rights almost a year ago but STILL hasn't seen his daughter? I agree as long as he's married to that Vrdoljak woman it's not going to happen.
LOL. I've heard the same rumor too about Goran being the town bicycle. Somehow I think his wife knows but it's the price you pay being married to Goran Visnjic. What a joke he's turned out to be. They deserve each other.
The little girl is probably better off without him. Really sad.
"Ist's a little unfair to say he doesn't want anything to do with her"? So, then he has seen her in person? Yes or No?
That would be No. And according to the mother he never inquires about her either.
Are we supposed to say "aww what a cute family"? Not. There is nothing cute about how Goran has treated his daughter. His daughter deserves to have a father be in her life. And the money that Goran sends her each month? Who cares it's the least he should do. Unbelievable.
You guys don't know anything about Goran and Ivana but most of all you know nothing about Mirela Rupic.That woman is a well known in her home town as a slut that did the same thing to other man-at least she tried.She left her older son with her ex husband and never asked for him in seven years!What a great mother she is!Now she visit him because of the press.Ivana lost her baby when she was nine weeks pregnant because of her threats to her husband and her and constant calls from miss Rupic wanting money.You guys can think what ever you want but the truth is that these two people had a bad year and now they are finally happy again with their beautiful son.And my suggestion;don't judge and don't say bad things about people you don't know because it can hit you latter in your life.You never know what can happened in your life.They are a beautiful familly.They support each other and are together in better or worse.
So, are you saying that Goran has finally seen his daughter? Because I could have sworn he has visitation rights.I hate to break it to you but Goran's not all that innocent. Remember it takes two to cheat. Oh, I forgot Goran was jet-lagged and drunk and it was all Miss Rupic's fault. OK. I've heard everything. Beautiful Family? Are you kidding. Goran and Ivana should both be ashamed of themselves on how they have handled Goran's affair. Your right, I don't know The Visnjic's nor would I ever want to. Shame on them.
Tanya - You have alot of nerve calling Mirela Rupic a slut. Have you taken a look at Goran? He's no saint. When he used to come to Croatia - it was considered "Goran's Playground". And this has been since he's been married to Ivana. So, I wouldn't judge Mirela to harsh. At least Mirela's makes an effort to see both of her children. Can you say the same about Goran. I didn't think so. Like the previous posters have said as long as he's married to Ivana Vrdoljak it won't happen. Goran's reputation is beyond repair. Too much damage has been done.
The problem with how much he's paying is that it was never enough for Rupic, for some stupid reason. He was supporting her with plenty before he even acknowledged Lana, but Mirela kept asking for more and more, though it was already a huge amount. Why should it have to be his problem at all? Sorry, but I don't believe that only Visnjic is wrong in this situation just because he's the man and men need to support their family. That's so dated. If a woman makes a choice to keep a baby with a man she isn't in a relationship with, it shouldn't have to be anyone else's problem. Mirela said she was sober, she knew they weren't using any protection, so I don't think she deserves a dime. Everybody knows how babies come into the world; sure it takes two to cheat, but ultimately it was her choice what she did with her body and she should have thought about the consequences.
And as for smart remarks about PR moves, Mirela and her lawyer were the only ones who brought the visitation topic to the press and spoke about the hearing, as well as the ruling. Mirela is the only one who brings any of it to the press, period. Visnjic spoke once on Mirela and Lana and never touched it again. Neither of these people deserve a Parent of the Year award, but honestly, I'd think more of someone who cheats than someone who uses their own children as a means to an end.
So, what you call "so dated" I call taking some responsibility. And as far as what Goran is paying? That should be considered pocket change for him. No big deal. And please don't tell me you think Mirela was the only sober one. You know damn well Goran was the one who called Mirela. He knew exactly what he was doing. But, I'm not going down that road again. And far as using protection? Your right, it's the women's responsiblity when it comes to using protection. Not. He could have easily used it too. He knew the consequences. He just didn't give a damn. Just like he doesn't give a damn about Lana. The guy's a piece of work. So keep defending him - No one else is.
Well Millie,I'm defending him,too.And there are a lot of people who knows the real truth and are defending him.You are the one who thinks anything Mirela said was true,for example that he called her.And everybody in Croatia knows that Goran was not a cheater.Trust me,if he was like that,we would all know suner than when "Mirela" happened.He was always in Croatia with his wife and only for a short amount of time anyway.The thing is,he didn't want to marry this Rupic woman or to have a baby with her.He wanted to have a baby with his wife.He has a baby with his wife.He doesn't care about Lana?Probably not.He didn't want her from the beginning,Mirela did and we all know why.She didn't want her older son because he doesn't bring her the life she wanted.She left him to her ex husband.Mirela is just a slut and she is the one who did the worst thing to both of her children.I'm very sorry for them.Why would Goran want to see Lana now when he knows that he would need to deal with her insane mother?No man would do that.And there are many men like this in the world.There are also many woman who decided to be a single mom and they don't go around seeking for press and some fake publicity.If she was the one who wanted a baby,she should be the one dealing with the baby,period.Goran and Ivana moved on and so should you.
I'm sorry guys I posted this three times but something happened to my server!
Tanya - Goran doesn't need to see Mirela in order to see his daughter. Goran's Mother or a reliative could be the middleman. Just another excuse. Right?
You claim you know the truth? You don't know the real Goran. He's as guilty as Mirela.
Your right Goran probably doesn't care about Lana. So, what does that tell you what kind of man he is. I don't know how the guy sleeps at night, knowing how he is ignoring HIS DAUGHTER.
So long and keep defending him. But he is not worth it.
Goran Visnjic is the worst man I ever heared about it in my life. I mean from the point of view as well known person, at least in home Country, and he should to be good exapmle instead of what he is.
He has a daughter. It is the fact. His daughter didn't ask him would he liked to make her or not.And now when she is living on this earth he avoid any contact with her and to be part of her growing and to be part of her life. It is a normal??? Come on, only empty souls could be so cold and cruel. That liitle girl I suppose already walking, little talking and day by day start to understand a world around her. And in that world her daddy has decided long time ago not to be in. Is it normal for her psyho and physical life?? I don't think so. Goran Visnjic said in his intervies how she is: mystakes, one awfully thing in his life, she could comes to him one day if she will grow up in person with good mannire, he support animal organization and why he shouldn't support his daughter, etc.,etc. Unfortunately there were his words in the press.
On the other side, his wife, said in her interview in Spring 2007 how she doesn't understand why people want to have own children if on this planet there are a lot of children who are left alone and everyone of us has some crazy uncle in familly so what is the point to have own children??? And it is a normal words from "normal" woman????
About "pregnancy" of Visnjic's wife: it is absolutely lies. One year, after the truth of Visnjic's daughter has come out, she said how "she was pregnant". In Croatia, and especially in Zagreb (main town of Croatia), people know how she unfortunately isn't able to have own childe. Probably because she was deep in drugs when she was young.
I hope so, Visnjic's daughter will grow up in happy and smart person, and her father has to live with his thoughts in his had what he has done to own child. I was reading here how "he didn't want his daughter". For God sake, how anyone could say so cruel words??? If you get a child how you could say I DON?T WANT IT, and turn your head on the other side, like from the peace of shit??? Really nice reputation of Mr Visnjic and his immage.
I whish him luck, because he really need it in his life.Awfully!
Here I see how Tanya strongly defend Goran Visnjic and spit on Mirela, but only I am wandering why? If you Tanya maybe has seen all media stories then you has to notice how Mirela said few times about her son some really nice story and it is how her son is living with her and with his daddy. Is it abnormal? I don't think so. I think how children from separated parents don't have to grow up only with one of them but it is really nice to see how in life of Mirela Rupic's son is involved also his father. And information what Mirela Rupic said is how she is in so good relation with ex husband, so I think how this spit on her that she hasn't anything with own son is such cruel lies and everyone who spread it around could only makes demage to her son because he is I think 16 years old and he is able to see all so hard words against his mummy. But unfortunately for all of people who like to talk against Mirela, her son knows who his mummy is and how much he loves her.
Instead, unfortunately, how Lana's father doesn't care about own daughter and run away from her like from davil.
While on the other side takes care about some baby who isn't his own.
And really interesting, how Visnjic's wife could take care about little Tin, because maybe he has someone crazy in familly and will become crazy in future? I am talking this words because she said so stupid and so ugly statments how there is no any sense to have own child becasue everyone of us has someone crazy in familly. OMG, what a woman... poor Goran Visnjic...
First interview of Goran Visnjic about his daughter Lana Lourdes
THIS IS INTERVIEW OF GORAN VISNJIC IN MAGAZINE "STORY" OF 11.JULY 2007 Story, 11.07.2007., number 28, exclusive interview Journalist: Sandra Njavro(wedding god mother of Goran's wife)
TITLE: "Goran Visnjic only for Story- I'm not running from the truth"
LEAD: Last month the Croatian medias are shaken from the scandal of Goran Visnjic, Croatian actor who has permanent address in Hollywood. All that because of the accusations that are coming from his fellow-citizen, 36 old student from Sibenik, Mirela Rupic. Two weeks ago she didn't want to give any answer to the numerous questions of the journalists. She didn't want to tell who is the father of her 4 months old daughter Lana Lourdes. But last Friday in one daily newspaper she unveiled her shocking truth- the father of her daughter is Goran Visnjic! It seams that this unemployed, self- supporting mother has decided to sell her privacy. In other words, one month ago some person from Sibenik called editorial of Story magazine in the name of Mirela Rupic. The person was offering an interview about the relationship between woman from Sibenik and Visnjic and also secretly taped conversations between Mirela Rupic and members of Visnjic family and all that for money. With that money she could solve her housing problem in Sibenik. Editorial of Story didn't want to pay that. That person (a man) told that is also negotiating with other Croatian editorials. After 3 weeks Mirela Rupic's lawyer, Nenad Skare (from Zagreb) addressed the public.... Nenad Skare then revealed that in the name of his client he is pressing charges at the County court of law in Zagreb so that the paternity would be tested and because of the alimony in amount of 10 000 kuna. "Considering Visnjic's incomes that is not too much" said Skare. That time he had forgotten to tell in public that Goran Visnjic, although he didn't make DNA test, is paying in last 4 months (that much is Lana Lourdes old) 1,500 American dollars every month on the account of her mother. It is known that Mirela Rupic has a 13 year old son from the marriage that ended recently. Her son lives with his father and her fellow-townsmen can't find nice words for her and her acts. There are some rumours that she is known for the similar scandals because she was demanding money in the past from different rich men in Sibenik. She had love affairs with them, say those who are informed well. Because of that she earned epithet of "sponzorusa " (woman that is "sponsored " by man). It seems that her last victim is Goran Visnjic who recently, after 9 years, told "goodbye " to the popular TV serial "Hitna sluzba" ("ER", in English). In this difficult personal moment Goran has the unselfish support of his wife Ivana, their families and also friends who consider him as very honorable and fair person. However, he decided to make a confession in this exclusive interview and only in Story magazine. He also revealed how much joy his little 3 month old adopted son Tin brought to his family life although his (Goran's) life was not so easy in the last month because of the scandal. Interview in Story magazine is the actor's first and only public conversation on this subject that is not coming down from the front pages of newspapers or the first minutes in TV News.
Story: When did you and from who did you for the first time found out that 36 old Mirela Rupic, student from Sibenik, is telling that you are father of her daughter? GV: I found it from her. She called me telling me that she is in the fifth month of pregnancy and that I am the father. S: Is it true, as she is telling, that you are having a telephone contact all the time? GV: No. At the beginning she was calling me often trying to threaten me. I told to Ivana for what she is accusing me and I let her hear the message in which Mirela Rupic is threatening that she is going to ruin my marriage and that I should think about how much her silence costs, 200 000 Euros or 2 million Euro
S: In one daily newspaper Mirela Rupic was accusing your wife Ivana for leaving insulting messages on her telephone machine. Is there any truth in those accusations? GV: After I told Ivana what have happened and after she heard a message of Mirela Rupic, Ivana called her. Mirela Rupic hang up on her after Ivana told her that her marriage is too strong and that this kind of person cannot destroy it. Because she didn't want to hear what she is telling to her (obviously she wasn't too happy about the things that were said), Ivana left her a message in which she told her that she is not the first or the last person that is trying to catch a famous person, just for a lot of money and five minutes of glory. At the end she told her that she is feeling sorry for the child that has such mother. Of course she wasn't polite or kind to her in that message, but who would be in her place? S: Tell us how long do you know Mirela Rupic and is it true that you were in the relationship with her last summer, as the national medias are writing? G: I know Mirela Rupic since primary/elementary school, but I haven't seen her until last summer, and I saw her only one time. It is funny that newspapers write that we were seen in restaurants because paparazzi follow me all across Croatia. Do you really think that this would stay unnoticed in such small place? S: What actually happened last summer when you came to Croatia without wife Ivana and why did she join you on your vacation 2 weeks later? GV: Last summer, when "Hitna sluzba" ( "ER" ) ended, Ivana and I were working on our new house. My mum had some difficulties with health and I haven't seen my parents for a year. Ivana suggested that I should go to Zaboric, to see my parents (Zaboric is a small village near Sibenik) and that she is going to stay and decorate because she was anyhow deciding how will house look like. Her parents came to visit us a few months earlier. I came to Croatia and since then I was in Sibenik only for one evening. The rest of the time I was in Zaboric at my parents together with my friend Paul (an actor from England who came to visit me with his wife and two kids). The other part of vacation I was spending with my friend from Sibenik and we were in Egypt. When I came from America, I went out to town to relax with my friends that I haven't seen for a year. That evening, at the same cafe was also Mirela Rupic who came to say Hi! because we haven't seen each other since primary school. However, every time when I come to Croatia, I go to Gavella (a cafe located in the theatre Gavella in Zagreb) to spend some time with my friends actors. That summer I didn't go to Gavella because I wasn't staying long in Zagreb without Ivana. I really miss my company (friends) when I'm in America. I work very, very hard there and I don't have time to party like people in Croatia do. Probably alcohol and jet lag made some influence on me. That is not something that I'm proud off but I'm ready to accept all consequences. About the details- believe me I don't remember anything. I only know that I would never do such a thing in a normal condition. I don't consider Mirela Rupic as an attractive woman, but that is not important now. It is important to say that I hurt the only woman that I care for, and that is Ivana. I don't have needs to cheat on my wife. I was always against the adultery. Because of that I'm sorry even more and it is unbelievable to me that I did that. My friends usually make fun of me because I'm always on phone with Ivana when she is not near me. I called her that night, of course, but I was boring to her because I was drunk. She didn't want to talk with me in that condition because I couldn't say anything distinct.
S: How did Ivana react when you told her what have happened? GV: Ivana and I came to America together 11 years ago. We were alone, without friends or family. In that time we were really getting to know each other and we connected more. We became the best friends. People in Croatia who don't know us have a totally wrong picture of our life. We live solitary life and like the most to stay at home with our animals, and especially now when we have a child. Ivana knows very well that I'm not some womanizer and that I don't have mistresses. If she would think so, the easiest thing for her would be to say "go to hell" and throw me out of the house. She lives in L.A. just because of me and my work. By the law of the land where we were married, she can take my house and 50 percent of all my incomes, that belongs to her automatically. Ivana is a person that doesn't tolerate any kind of mistreat. She tells everything direct, in face. In this case she supports me 100 percent, also her family. That means a lot to me and it absolutely makes horrible situation easier for me. I cannot describe how sorry I am that I was so stupid, that this happened to me and that I have hurt so many innocent people, and before all Ivana and our families. S: What do you think who is the father of little Lana Lourdes? GV: I don't know. The DNA test will show. S: Why didn't you make tests earlier. In that way you wouldn't be involved in this media thing? GV: This media thing was impossible to avoid. I told to Mirela Rupic that she should be careful not to involve some innocent child in this scandal that will follow her all her life (and there is not important if child is or isn't mine). I wanted to protect the baby that didn't do anything wrong that is happening now. TO ME AND IVANA IS EASIER BECAUSE WE ARE FAR AWAY FROM EVERYTHING AND WE DON'T HAVE TO GO TO CROATIA AT ALL, BUT SHE IS THE ONE THAT LIVES THERE AND THAT INNOCENT CHILD WILL GROW UP, GO TO SCHOOL AND LISTEN ALL THOSE UGLY COMMENTS. I told her that I will make tests in America and if child is really mine, I will pay for it. I told her that we should not go in public with this in the sake of child. Mirela Rupic told me that she doesn't have money. When baby was born I offered her to send 1 000 dollars a month and that I will make a DNA test in the future. She told me that she is a student and that this amount its not enough for her, so she wanted 1,500 dollars a month. After a few months she asked for more money. I told her that monthly salary of my brother and his wife in Sibenik is 8,000 kuna (1,500 dollars) and that they are taking care of two children with that money. S: Do you still support her with money? GV: Yes, of course, with 1,500 dollars a month. S: Why did you agree to support her without having DNA test? GV: Mirela Rupic was complaining that she doesn't have enough money for living. WE ARE SUPPORTING ONE CHILD IN INDONESIA FOR YEARS, WE SUPPORTED OPERATION OF ONE CHILD IN CROATIA, we gave some medical equipment to hospital in Sibenik, we are helping de-mining of the Croatian territory AND GIVE MONEY TO DIFFERENT ASSOCIATIONS FORSAVING ANIMALS. SO WE DECIDED TO HELP MIRELA RUPIC.
S: It is known that Mirela Rupic is a mother of a 13 year old boy who doesn't live with her and it is supported by a father, her ex husband. If she cares about the girl and if the DNA test will show that you are the father- wil you fight for guardianship? GV: I'm sorry but Mirela Rupic have showed that her priority is not that poor child. I think that would be better for this child, like any other child in similar situation, to grow up in a better situation and condition. Unfortunately, they told me that it is not possible in Croatia to get full guardianship if mother doesn't agree. I cannot see a child that constantly hears bad things about me and my family. ONE DAY,WHEN SHE GROWS UP,SHE IS FREE TO COME HERE TO TALK TO ME AND IF SHE WILL GROW UP IN A GOOD-MANNERED CREATURE,I DON'T SEE WHY WOULDN'T WE BE IN A GOOD RELATIONS.Of course, I expect from here to treat my family with respect. S: Mirela Rupic allegedly offered to numerous croatian editorials an interview and also audio- tapes of the conversation that she was having with you and with members of your family. Do you have any comment on that? GV: Audio tapes, if they really exist, are just a proof that this woman was planning blackmailing from the very beginning. She planned to promote herself in newspapers. Why would she tape telephone conversations when they are not valid in court? Today everyone can make mounting (fake tapes) so that it looks like you said something that they want. I'm not interested in that at all. S: There are some rumours that Mirela Rupic was noticed on the internet site Index.hr under pseudonym. She was insulting your wife accusing her that "she made an expedition adopting a child because she was jealous that she cannot give you biological"? GV: I don't understand how someone can be so cruel and to insult women that cannot get pregnant? It is the same is if you would insult someone who has cancer or any other hard disease. About Ivana- she made all medical tests and she absolutely can get pregnant, but it is not important to either of us is the baby biological or not. We are letting nature to decide when and are we going to have our biological child. And about "expedition " of adopting- for God's sake people- do you really think that a child can be adopted over night?! We first started asking around adoption in Croatia 2 years ago! In America we've been in the process for 1,500 year. In that time social service was checking everything about us, and also our medical condition. In several times they talked to me and Ivana, together or individual, they were talking with 5 our friends and they visited our house. That is not a simple process.
S: Why have you and your wife decided to adopt child in America and not in Croatia? Is it true that over there you had an oportunity to choose biological mother of your child? GV: We adopted a child in America only because of the American law that doesn't allow anyone who hasn't got American passport to adopt a child from another country and bring it to America. By this law- we would first have to live with that child in Croatia for 2 years and then we could bring it into country. That was just impossible. They told us that only way for us (because we have green cards) is to adopt child in America. It is the law, I didn't write it. At the end- it was not important for us where is child coming from. And about choosing- biological mother is the one that chooses the right family for her child. She gets our biographies, but without names or photos. Agency send that to her. If she decides that she wants us- she can ask to meet us- and you can say yes or no to that. However, here is this process very opened and people get to know biological mothers. S: Now you are the father to the 3 months old little son Tin. How much has Tin changed your life? GV: It is a big responsibility to have a child and that is why Ivana and I were in the marriage for a long time without kids. That definitely changed the rhythm of our sleep, but it is absolutely great joy! In every case- this is one beautiful experience! S: What is your favorite way of spending time with your son? GV: I tell him stories, legends, I say funny things! He likes to hold my fingers. I sing "Maslina " to him and Ivana doesn't allow song "Zeko i potocic" if the end of that song is not changed into something more happy. S: Are you one of those fathers who have nothing against changing diapers, putting baby to sleep and feeding...? GV: I don't hate those things, but there are a lot of things that I don't know and I am a bit clumsy so I let Ivana do that. S: Describe baby Tin. GV: He is very joyful and vivid, likes reggae and Bob Marley. He doesn't cry and when he wants something he just yells and then he waits for our reaction. If we don't react, he yells a few more times but there are no tears. Just demands. He likes to be carried in arms. S: Recently you christened your son. What was the ceremony like? GV: We did that in the Croatian church in America, Church of St. Ante (Saint Ante/Anthony). The ceremony was solemn and beautiful, especially when our Don Mate (Matthew) spoke to us as to a mother and father. Then you figure what is really happening. Ivana's parents and our closest friends that live here were with us. Unfortunately, my family couldn't come and Ivana's brothers also. It is hard to bring them all together. America is to far away, but my folks will visit their grandson this autumn. S: Are you planning to adopt another child in the future or maybe to do something about you biological one? GV: Ivana and I certainly want to have more children. Is Ivana going to give a birth to a child or are we going to adopt another one- I don't know, but we want for our Tin to grow up with a brother or sister. THE END
Ivana Vrdoljak (Goran Visnjic's wife): Mirela,your bastard will have nuts of life!
Article from daily newspapers "Slobodna dalmacija":
www.slobodnadalmacija.hr/.../Default.aspx
20.04.2008. | 21:22
Ivana Vrdoljak: Mirela, your bastard will have nuts of life!
Mother of daughter of GV, woman from Sibenik, Mirela Rupic, said to one daily newspapers - how GV's wife was threating her for months with nasty massages, after it was discover how she is pregnant with famous actor.
Ivana was, discover Mirela, called her and left massages full of hate and threating, what pregnant woman upset so much that her pregnancy take a risk, and because of stress she almost lost a baby.
"She said to me" - "If you want to your child to be fine, you give it somewhere for adoption or I don't know what you will do it with it. Whatever you decide to do, stay away from our liefs, because you will scroll up child's life"- Mirela remember it with horror, and added how Ivana called her still unborn baby - bastard.
- She said to me how she is wandering what kind of life I will have in those little place with all things on my head and how she and her husband has everything what they need in America - said Mirela, concluding how she understood this massages like threating for herself and her daughter Lana Lourdes.
But, Mirela decided to left everything behind herself. It is unknown why she now said about this. It is interesting how she didn't delete massages and she still keep it, so it is question does she want to do something about it.
Threating is criminal act, and it could take jail from 6 months to 1 year...
ok, since so many people have shared their opinions on this situation, here's my input.
There are so many interviews and stories floating around between USA and Croatia, not to mention whats now available on line, about the affair between Goran and Mirela. So many public figures have sued magazines for printing false information about themselves. Who knows if what your reading is A truth, THE truth or the WHOLE truth. Who knows if what was printed are the real words of Goran, Ivana and Mirela or not.
The only 2 people who know what really happened about the affair are Goran and Mirela. What we read about them might be A truth, but not necessarily THE truth. So many professional writers using catchy words or phrases to draw the public's attention to read the latest story. The public really needs to read with caution.
I was a bit disappointed to learn that the actor, Goran Visnjic, indeed had an affair. Regardless how it happened, I am more curious about Mirela. I always believed "behind every cheating man is a cheating woman." However, no one forced her to sleep with Goran. IF IF IF Goran was drunk and jet lagged as he claimed then Mirela took advantage of him. IF IF IF Goran made advances towards her, she knew enough to walk away but she did not. It was her own free will to sleep around with a married man, famous or not.
In one magazine interview, Mirela claims she didnt want the affair to come between Goran and his wife Ivana. Well, what was Mirela thinking then? Did she think that sleeping around with someone else's husband would strengthen their marriage?? Mirela also claimed while she was pregnant she almost lost the baby and was hospitalized few times due to the threatening messages left from Ivana. Well..did anyone interview the hospital to varify if Mirela almost lost the baby?
One article Goran says he met Ivana in a bar and one look at her made him realize she was the woman for him. Now the articles say their marriage was an arranged one, through Ivana's father, a movie director, who pulled strings to get Goran in film.
There are so many missing pieces. This unfortunate incident has become a 'he said, she said' scandal.
Mirela knew exactly what she was doing with Goran. She did not have to go to the public with her story, but chose to do so. If the articles about her are true, I find her to be a person who is not willing to take full responsibility of her actions, rather someone who blames others for them, which is what she is doing with Goran.
If Goran was not someone famous, I'm sure Mirela wouldn't bring this to the public's attention because no one would care. But since Goran is someone famous, then Mirela's intentions were to harm the actor. Mirela is gaining much fame over this and in my opinion is using her daughter for added attention. Goran and Ivana on the other hand are keeping a low profile on Tin, which is understandable. Whereas Mirela allows the world to see 'Goran's love child.'
Someone posted a comment earlier stating Goran is known for cheating on his wife for years with women in Croatia. I believe the 'other women' would also step forward with their claim about the actor, instead of keeping silent.
Goran never put himself high on a mantle to be honored as a person without errors, the Media did. Countless interviews and magazine articles were taken to help boost his acting career, are now on a warpath to get the public to cast the first stone at him. Not to mention the expertise of professional writers using catchy words or phrases to get the public's attention.
Lastly, as for Ivana and her drug addicted past. Doesn't everyone deserve a second chance in life? She is a new woman today with a future. She personally decorated their former house and has received many offers from people to decorate their homes. She is a talented woman who got on the wrong side of the tracks years ago, but its over with folks !!! Focus on who she is today! How do you react when people remind you of your past?
my apologies for repeating the last paragraph. it should have been omitted.
Pugino, as I see you are very well informed about Goran attitude to his daughter so I have one question. As I saw you posted here how Mirela "used" their child in public, but if I could say my opinion I think you are wrong. As I saw her statments as well as of Goran Visnjic, so, she has been talking how he was asking her to keep silence and the worst he has refused to sdmit their daughter as own. Do you think it is correst? Not to woman, but to own child?
And Croatia is little country, so could you immagine a little town as it the place where she is living with baby. Anyway, I think, as she get decided to get court battle it is obviously how Goran Visnjic didn't want to accept own child. And their daughter has been 4 months old when Mirela went to the court. Why Goran Visnjic didn't recognize own daughter when she was born? Why he has waiting until she was 4 months and he didn't do it neither in that time? So, I think how all mess Mirela wasn't be able to avoid and I think how she actually used media to makes that mess over as soon as possible.
I think how it is the truth that Goran Visnjic didn't want to recognize own daughter and Mirela didn't have any choice but to keep in silence and to be paid for it (what is bizzar and apsurd if you ask me) or to go in court in what case it is immposible to avoid media in that so little Country. Anyway,for my taste, I am not judge to no one on this eart, but I don't care for the reasons why Goran and Mirela have been together because they are two the only one who knows what is the pure truth. But I feel sick whe I see how one child on this planet has to "find own father" only over the court, because he gave only that chance and he is the only one who has made a scar on psyhical life of his daughter
He could be a man, and if he has a daughter, he could made everything withut mess and scandal, and recognize own child, because at least the result is the only one: he did it but on the hardest way.
So soon, his daughter will be able to read his statments about her and everything what he said about her and her mummy, do you think it is ok? For Good sake, he takes care about child who isn't his blood while on the other side he spit on his own.
i am sorry bit it isn't normal person.
And yes, I couldn't immagine how child could be unwanted? It could maybe to be unexpectable, but doesn't unwanted. For my point of view.
I don't care how much Goran visnjic or Mirela Rupic are "quilty" for their "story", but I care whe I see how someone run away from own child as he does it to his daughter.
This entire thing is rather ridiculous. Goran and Mirela are the ONLY people who will ever be 100% sure of what the truth is in their situation and it's really quite silly that anyone outside of their immediate circle is so invested in it.
pugino- About the rumours that Goran and Ivana had an arranged marriage, that was originally part of an article that also included the "fact" that Goran was living in his Sherman Oaks home without paying rent because of Branko Lustig's (the man who Antun Vrdoljak supposedly made arrangements for Goran with, in exchange for him marrying Ivana) connections. There was a lawsuit, Visnjic produced evidence such as invoices and I believe bank statements and subsequently won the case. I wouldn't put much stock in any of that arranged marriage nonsense as Globus, the publication that began the rumours, isn't a very reliable source. Besides, the press had no interest in Ivana until Goran became known- I'd think that if she'd been doing anything newsworthy, it would have come out earlier, her father being who he is in Croatia.
I have found one sites with few articles about Goran visnjic and his daughter, on the link bellow. She is such cute amazing baby. I don't know how he could resist to be out of her life.OMG!
www.zimbio.com/pilot
Jessica, i agree with you 100%. i read about Visnjic winning that lawsuit, sometime ago.
Lea, you can believe what you wish, but consider Mirela might be putting words in Goran's mouth he never said.
all i said was: "Mirela is gaining much fame over this and in my opinion is using her daughter for added attention. Goran and Ivana on the other hand are keeping a low profile on Tin, which is understandable. Whereas Mirela allows the world to see 'Goran's love child.' " Lana's first birthday and baptism photos are all over the internet. not to mention Mirela made the front cover of a Croatian magazine. i believe it's entitled: "Lana's first swim." is this really necessary?? i feel very sorry for Lana. it appears she will not have a life of her own, as long as Mirela permits every step of her daughts life to be publicised.
there are so many people out there who dont consider the consequences of their actions. ive seen men who refused to believe they were the father of an unborn child and kept on disbelieving after the baby was born. i've even seen men given DNA tests years after the baby was born. - as weird as it is, it happens. if people sleep around, they better be prepared for what just might be produced afterwards.
Goran admitting to an affair is what the magazines are stating. but Goran himself is quoted to say: " i dont recall anything, i was jet lagged and drunk."
i recall a friend of mine who found herself pregnant one month after she got drunk at a party she attended. she recalls the party guests, which included one guy she knew of, and drinking heavily, but everything after that is a complete blank! that was over 20 years ago. anything is possible.
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