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  • Surviving Birthdays and Packing Again

     

    It feels like I haven't had a moment's rest since coming back from Ethiopia.  Chet's party was the day after and then two days later I was driving Ava and three of her best friends to the Hamptons for a slumber party.  Ava'd been planning this for at least ten months, ever since I'd told her that my Uncle Billy was kind enough to allow us to use his beach house whenever we wanted.  I also hit him up to borrow his big Mercedes so the girls got chauffered out there in style.  It was Radio Disney on the radio and Nanny McPhee on the portable DVD player in the back for three hours.  A and her daughter M and Chet drove in A's car.  I was still a bit off balance, remembering that just a few days before I was watching donkeys pass through a traffic jam in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.  If it weren't for A's help and M being the cute mascot to all the little girls I'd never have made it.  I was also still battling my GI tract.  It felt like a rabid family of ferrets were wrestling inside my stomach.  But Ava had a great time, the ice cream cake and the pizza and the beach were just perfect.  I hope she remembers it for years to come.

     

    Now back in the city for a few days we have to pack tomorrow for two weeks in France.  I'm not thrilled with the idea of getting back on a plane but the kids have been looking forward to the trip for months...

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  • Back from Ethiopia

    I've been silent for a week but not out of laziness. I've been in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, helping them start up a film industry.   The kids' mom flew up from Atlanta to watch them.  

     

    Here is one of my favorite buildings in the bustling city of five million, a bar shaped like the space shutte. 

     

     

     

    Here is a typical street scene

     

     Here's my favorite photo from the teff grain store of the "Former Women's Wood Carrying Collective."

     

     

    And here's just outside:

     

    Most of the rest of the city is more chaotic and urban.  I was just there a week but am already looking forward to coming back.

     

    What I wasn't so much looking forward to was what's happening right now...

     

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    Posted Jun 27 2008, 11:49 AM by Trey with | with 6 comment(s)
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  • Karaoke


    Sunday turned out to be a Japanese-themed day.  First we were invited to the second-annual Japanese children's festival, Kodomo no hi. 

    It was originally just to celebrate boys but they've gotten with the program and now include  girls as well.  Chet's friend's mom put out the traditional carp kite and laid out a spread of traditional Japanese delicacies.  Having lived in a small town in Japan for four months I knew that what looked like chocolate was really sweet red-bean paste but I didn't tell the kids that hoping to fool them into trying something new.  Didn't work.  Oh well. 

     

    Afterwards we rushed downtown to Koreatown where American friends had rented a karaoke room.  I've been to big drunken karaoke bars and the whole public humiliation thing or the insufferable amateur showing off thing  never grabbed me, however here we had our own little room with a futuristic wireless karaoke set up and disco lights.  The kids weren't the only ones in heaven.  We all shouted our heads off to Smashmouth's "Rockstar" and "Let's Get it Started in Here."  For Chet and his young kindergarten friend Benny, reading so quickly  was  a challenge, especially the uptempo songs, but they did great.  Some song choices were a little dicey. When my friend Steve punched in the numbers for Eminem Ava giggled her head off at the parade of bad words.   Dominique, Steve's wife, sounded like a real rockstar.

     

     

    If you've got a Korea or Japantown where you live try out a karaoke bar with the kids.  It would make a great place for a birthday party too. 

     

     


    Posted May 05 2008, 12:56 PM by Trey with | with 1 comment(s)
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Arthur Bradford

Trey Ellis in Manhattan

The author of Bedtimes Stories: Adventures in the Land of Single-Fatherhood, Trey is busy raising his school-aged girl and boy in New York City. When he’s not shuttling them to public school, he is a novelist, screenwriter, political blogger on the HuffingtonPost and film professor. Visit his website here.

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