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Thank You Nap Lordy

I can't believe I'm actually blogging now.

 

See, this week has been nuts.  Mamie was sick, which meant she was glued to me.  GLUED.  I couldn't leave the room to go to the bathroom without her yelling "Mom-meeeeee."   She wanted me in her pocket.  Normally I would love that, but after 5 days of having to nap with her -- on the bed, in the spoon position, unable to shift because that would wake her and then she'd start coughing and crying and then I'd want to cry and then, well, then we'd have to resort to Jack's Big Music Show to re-set -- she is finally sleeping in her crib at nap time.   Thanks to ye olde nap gods!  Halleluyee.

 

I didn't realize how much I got done during nap time.   Besides the regular stuff, like eating and cleaning up the dishes I didn't get to wash during breakfast, this is the time I'd do my Babblin'.  And my emails and phone calls.  And cooking for dinner and laundry.  And editing the book I've been trying to write for months now.  And oh yeah, perhaps relaxing.  Man, I missed this time.  I still cannot believe I am here.  Now.  Talking to YOU (my one reader, Hello!)

 

See, I know how lucky I am to have a child who naps for almost 3 hours daily.  I also know that is gonna stop soon too.  It's already starting.  We're down to about 2.5  hours.  And last week she did a 1.5 hour slumber.  So yeah, it's only a matter of time before there is no daytime sleep and less night time sleep  That's why I'm logging off now.  I have a lot to do!
 

TEN MINUTES LATER:  You don't want to know about the crying, right?  How Mamie woke and cried for me and the bed and the not wanting to be in the crib?  Right?  Well, do you want to know that she is asleep right next to me in the bed, right now?   What could I do, she's sick.  Somebody tell me this will pass.  Somebody?  Are you there?

 


Comments

 

Rachael Brownell (Redsy) said:

I'll tell you, sweets, it WILL pass!! Naps are nectar of the gods, but once they end, don't forget about "quiet rest time" whereby mommy commands everyone to their rooms for quiet time (aka: mommy needs a freakin' break)... not quite as glorious as true naps, but pretty ok.

Nothing as low as kids being sick.  Not. One. Thing.

-Rachael

January 29, 2007 12:21 AM
 

BarbaraR said:

thanks, rachael.  i think we actually turned a corner last night -- good sleep and in a better mood today.  and we're actually going to leave the apartment today.  yay!

January 29, 2007 10:11 AM
 

GirlsGoneChild said:

Woooohooo! I'm so glad to hear that. Good as new in no time, m'ladies.

January 29, 2007 3:43 PM
 

BarbaraR said:

Yeh, it's amazing how one week can be really awful, no sleep, crying 24-7, unhappy kid and parents and then suddenly, it turns and your kid laughs and sleeps!  Yes, the nose still runs, but she sleeps!  She sleeps!!!

January 29, 2007 4:46 PM
 

liprap said:

Something is ALWAYS running with children.

8-)

January 29, 2007 6:16 PM
 

Jah RastaYid said:

Nap time is as much for the parent as for the child.  Keeps everyone closer to sanity.

Mamie is 2, isn't she?  That's about the age Eye and I moved each of our brood from a crib to their own normal-sized bed.  I can't say for certain that it helped with situations like yours, but the sprats all enjoyed having a bed like Jah and Jahma's - sign of independence and all that.  Plus, it made it easier to keep them in their own room at night - if they came to ours at 3AM I could take them back to their room and lay down with them until they went back to sleep.  It gave all of us a sense of place and space.

Jah

January 30, 2007 1:28 PM
 

BarbaraR said:

jah - i WISH she wanted her own bed!  she loves her crib -- it's just when she's sick she wants to sleep with me.  i'm thinkin' this summer we may try the bed thing.  or tomorrow.  or next year.  who knows?!

January 30, 2007 1:55 PM

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