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Why I hate "I Kissed a Girl"

It's been the earworm that won't let go, that song-of-the-summer, "I Kissed A Girl" by formerly Christian pop-tart Katy Perry.

 

This was never the way I planned
Not my intention
I got so brave, drink in hand
Lost my discretion                                                    

It's not what
I'm used to
Just wanna try u on
I'm curious for you
Caught my attention

(CHORUS)
I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

(V2)
No I don't even know your name
It doesn't matter
You're my expiramental game
Just human nature

It's not what
Good girls do
Not how they should behave
My head gets
So confused
Hard to obey

(CHORUS)
I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it





Can I just tell you how much I haaaaaate this song? It's apparently got kids all over the country flirting with the idea of same-sex experimentation, but rather than making teenagers more accepting, I fear it actually trivializes the issue in a very negative way. The song makes being gay sound like something a teenager just tries on for fun, like a new hair color.

 

In the homophobic culture we live in, gay teenagers continue to struggle. They struggle with acceptance and self identity. High school itself is a real minefield for these kids, many of whom are harassed and bullied. The song, which is so wildly popular with teens and even 'tweens, characterizes being gay as a choice, and as a choice that's more than a little dirty and rebellious. It's none of those things.

 

I hate this song so much that whenever it comes on in the car now, my kids are as likely to turn the radio dial as I am - not because they, too dislike the song, but because they don't want to risk having to listen to another Katy-Perry-inspired lecture from me on the evils of homophobia.

 


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Published Oct 01 2008, 11:43 AM by kgranju
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October 1, 2008 2:29 PM
 

Ejat said:

I'm so with you on this. It makes sound like she's trying out a new drink at Starbucks. It really is a slap to kids who are trying to come to terms with being gay and it gives people who don't "believe" in being gay ammunition. I have found it really impossible to let my 9 year old listen to the radio lately. So many of the catchy tunes are making serious issues sound trivial. The other day I heard a neighbor kid singing the words to the new popular Kid Rock song. Talk about trashy.

October 1, 2008 3:06 PM
 

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October 1, 2008 3:41 PM
 

Mat R said:

Plus it's so braying, musically.  It pounds your head in.  No one asked her.  

And there was a much better song with the same title by Jill Sobule, about fifteen years ago.

October 1, 2008 4:57 PM
 

Jessica said:

Yes, I keep thinking of the Jill Sobule song and wondering how it could be popular with the tween set. I guess that dates me a bit?

I haven't heard this "I Kissed a Girl" yet, one of the perks of living overseas I guess!  

October 4, 2008 9:51 AM
 

meeeshelle said:

i totaly dissagree whith this but im straight and i dont think it gives off the wrong impression about being gay and the song isnt trying to say that being gay is ok and cool, its about the person and their decision and i will neverr "kiss a girl and like it" even though i lovee the song, i still think its disscusting.

but i have to say when i first heard this song i got complety grossed out and i couldnt believe they even put it on the radio, but then i found out the singer wasnt gay and she had some really good other songs like "hot n cold" and shes really talented and she writes her own songs, even plays the guitar. but she didnt write i kissed a girl

but what im trying to say is i think you're misstaken about this song and got the wrong impression about it, and its called judging in case you didnt relize it.

October 5, 2008 3:14 PM
 

grump said:

meeeshelle - I think you've missed the author's point, a bit.  Being gay is not "disscusting" (disgusting) and it's not something that we need to not talk about because you're "complety grossed out" (completely)by what other people do and feel in the privacy of their own bedrooms and heads, respectively.  You don't get to tell other people what they can feel. That's "called judging in case you didnt realize it." (Your spelling is, frankly, not giving your incoherent arguments any help.)

It's also not something to be treated like a fashion accessory - given the prejudice against gay people in our society.  The author is pointing that out.

October 6, 2008 12:19 PM
 

amandashea17 said:

I like the song, and I dislike most pop songs. Ha.

October 7, 2008 11:43 AM
 

Mary said:

Yeah, even if this song had any musical merit (which it doesn't) it would still drive me nuts.

October 7, 2008 12:39 PM

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