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Bye-bye baby shoes; hello big-girl shoes

Today is the day that C gets her first pair of "real" shoes. Since she started walking 6 months ago, all she has worn are these soft, little moccasins (only she has the cheapie ones from Target) that don't have a real sole on them. She does also have a pair of green rubber boots that she loves, but they stay at her grandmother's house for when the two of them go to the park and such on wet days.

 

 

But now that the weather is getting nice (supposedly), and she's actually running and jumping and climbing, she's ready for big girl shoes that will protect her feet properly when she goes to the playground or runs around in the yard. So today E and I are going to take her to get some shoes. I guess that will likely involve a trip to the mall - shudder - since that is the home of Stride Rite, which is the only store in Knoxville that still properly sizes and fits little people who can't actually tell you whether the shoe feels too tight or too loose.

 

Toddler shoes certainly have improved since H was a baby in the early 90s. At that time, all I could find for him when he was C's age were the old fashioned, white leather, lace-up, high-top baby shoes - you know, the kind people used to bronze and keep forever. Those things were impossible to get on and off of him, and they always seemed really uncomfortable to me. But the shoe salesman assured me that he needed "proper ankle support." Who was I to argue? I was 24 years old and knew nothing, and he was a professional baby-shoe salesman. I bought what he told me to buy. 

 

I was thrilled, however, when about the time H turned two or three, I was suddenly able to find much cuter shoes, which seemed more comfortable, and which had - gasp- velcro! I immediately became a huge fan of shoes with velcro for young children, even though my grandmother continually fretted that H would never learn to tie his own shoes. She was so worried about it that she would have him practice on pairs of her own (almost equally tiny) lace-up walking shoes. So that's how H learned to tie laces - on his great grandmother's shoes.

 

Today there are as many adorable and pricey designer baby and toddler shoes on the market as there are shoes for women. I recently inherited a box of gorgeous, never-worn, designer shoes for C from my friend Denise, who is a doctor, and who has only one, very well dressed child. We love getting their hand me downs. The shoes in this box are so beautiful that I want to pick them up and nibble on them. They are tiny pieces of brightly colored pedestrian art - and I know they certainly cost more than any pair of shoes I own. But alas, they aren't going to fit C for another year.

 

So today's it's off to Stride Rite, where I'll be a little sad to slip the wee, well-worn moccasins off of her deliciously fat, little feet for the last time, and mark a big step beyond babyhood.

 

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Comments

 

mamatried said:

I feel this way about everything with baby Lucy.  I am not handling this 'last baby' thing very well.

We like the Pedipeds 'Pediflex' as well as Stride Rite.  We get a lot of hand me downs from friends, though, so I have a gaggle of toddler shoes.  T loves her fake crocs :)

March 14, 2009 11:26 AM
 

cnoelk said:

Don't put too much faith in the folks at StrideRite. I don't think the staff is pretty hit or miss. When they "sized" my DS at age one they gave him a pair of shoes that still don't fit him more than a year later. They're size 7, for Pete's sake! I don't know what they were thinking.

When we went from the Robeez-style shoes you describe to the next step for him, the Robeez folks had just introduced harder-soled shoes that are adorable. May be an option if StrideRite fails you?

March 14, 2009 7:29 PM
 

mamaseoul said:

We like pediped flex shoes as well. They are always the ones my son reaches for. He wore his sandals everyday from May through the end of September and they were still in great shape with no special effort on my part.

we had crocs for the pool, but they made him trip for running around.

vincent shoes are really cute and have a great clearance section.

www.vincentshoestore.us

March 14, 2009 10:29 PM
 

Melissa said:

I LOVE those white, lace-up shoes!  Stride Rite was the only place I could find them when Michael was a year old and started walking.  

I guess it's just a connection to my own babyhood.  I had a pair when I was little.  My mother still has one of these (unbronzed) and it has always been displayed somewhere in the house as far back as I can remember.  She loves looking at that scuffed-up, well-worn shoe.  Of course, I have saved Michael's as well.  

Stride Rite is great, though.  Michael has a wide foot, so sometimes it's harder to find shoes for him.

March 16, 2009 9:15 AM
 

snorkmaiden said:

My 13 month old just started walking, and I also want to keep her in soft shoes for several months.  My MIL is really bothered by this, and insists she needs "real shoes" every time she goes outside.  How did you decide to keep C in soft shoes for six months?  I'm just hoping maybe there's some great "keep your early walker in flexible shoes" article out there that I could show her to get her off my back.  (I've tried to post this comment a couple times without it showing up -- my apologies if they all show up belatedly)

March 18, 2009 12:18 PM
 

Mary Ann said:

Everything I've read says the old-fashioned stiff shoes don't allow a child's ankles to get stronger and develop properly.  Our 17-month-old daughter wore soft moccasins from about 9 months until about 13 months.  Once she started to walk -- and the moccasins started to fall apart -- I got her Pedipeds.  They're still really flexible and have been really easy for her to walk in.  I can't imagine putting her in a stiffer sole or anything that binds her ankles for some time yet.

March 24, 2009 10:47 AM

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