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  • Brotherhood

    In toddler world, older kids are gods. And in baby world, toddlers grace the cover of the baby version of Tiger Beat. Jonas is lucky - he's got his very own toddler idol rooming just down the hall.

     

    Sometimes, as parents, we delude ourselves into thinking we're important. I give Jonas milk - not just give it to him, I make it. I change his diaper, I wipe his butt, I bathe him in the sink without bonking his head on the faucet, I smile and laugh with him.  Those things seem pretty important.  Life-sustaining, even. 

     

    But I'm nothing compared to a walking, talking, be-bopping older brother.

     

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  • The Big Brother

    Throughout my pregnancy, people have asked me if Axel is excited to be a big brother.  Ummmm, not really, I would say.  He's 16, or 17, or 18 months old.  He's excited about dogs, airplanes, the refreshing taste of apple juice, and spinning around until he falls over.  Big brother is not a concept that he gets.  He does not know there's a baby coming.  His favorite two word phrase is "Hi, truck!" 

     

    Well, all of a sudden, he seems to get it.  About a week ago, he added the word baby to his vocabulary.  We installed the baby's car seat, next to Axel's seat, and told him that it's for his baby brother.  He looked at the car seat, asked, "Baby?" as in, "So, where is this mysterious baby of which you speak, hmmmm?  I know what a baby is, and there's not one around here, I can tell you that." 

     

    Axel seemed to think we were full of crap, with all of this baby talk for a baby that, quite clearly, did not exist. 

     

    Then, a few days later, he said baby, looked at Sean, and pointed at my belly.  He gave it a gentle pat. 

     

    I was shocked at this cognitive leap. He gets it, I thought.  It's amazing!

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Oz Spies

Oz Spies in Denver

Oz Spies lives in Denver, Colorado with her husband, a firefighter; their son, Axel; and a slightly obese dog and cat. She has a MFA in Creative Writing from Colorado State University.

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