Weaning

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Kellye — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 01:37:27 GMT

Tylenol...or better yet since you're not nursing anymore, bring out the big guns!!! Naproxen Sodium...3 pills and a Diet Coke along with the Cabbage Leaves should do the trick! Good luck to you and congrats for making it this long! I made it 6 with my first born, but hope to go a full year with this bundle of joy!

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Carole in Korea — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 23:44:14 GMT

Thanks Oz. Daughter's two weeks older than Axel, and we've been struggling lately with biting. I stopped pumping at work two months ago, with her getting forumla in the daytime... and while (with much work) she doesn't chomp on me and cause me to bleed, she still nips me almost every time.

After much thought and discussion, we're going to start to give up nursing. I gave her a bottle myself for the first time yesterday (the rule was if I'm around, it's breast) and it was such a tender moment compared to the stress I'd feel nursing - "don't bite, don't bite, please don't bite".

We're expats over here, so we don't have many other families to benchmark ourselves against. Since you're my daughter's "internet twin", your stories and examples have to be my "neighbourhood comparison".

Ambitious to be getting on a bicycle! Good for you!

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Noell — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 19:46:12 GMT

That is a good point about calling it something different. I did put some breastmilk in a cup, but he wouldn't drink it. Then I put it in a bottle, and he drank a little of it. I really don't want to get him started on a bottle at this point. So I probably shouldn't give it to him...right! So maybe if I put the breastmilk in a cup more often...he would take to it better.

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CFJ — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 14:59:07 GMT

Congratulations on a job well done! Nursing for 9 months is a great accomplishment...especially when pumping is involved. I too hate pumping more than I can express (ha, get it!) but the price of formula kept me going until my little guy hit 12 months. Monday will be my first pump free day at work and I am psyched.

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mamaseoul — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 22:51:34 GMT

Noell: I had a hard time getting my son to drink milk from a cup (he would only drink water) so I started putting a little soy milk in a cup and putting it on his tray. I'd pour some for myself and say,"Cheers", clink the glasses and say,"Take a drink". I always called it "soy" instead of "soy milk". I started with a small amount until he asked for more soy. Since then, I have been able to give him cow's milk when I run out of soy. He will also drink cow's milk out of a box with a straw. I don't buy them because of all the packaging, but if we are at someone's house and they have them, he will. He is still nursing at 23 months, but does drink something other than water from a cup.

Starting with breastmilk in a cup is a good idea since your son is so young. If you decide to do cow's milk or soy milk just be sure to differentiate it. I called breastmilk "milk" so when I tried to give him something else and call it "milk" he rejected it. Just calling it "soy" or making the distinction and saying,"cow's milk" or "cow" might help him to try it.

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steffmarcusky — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 21:35:56 GMT

I agree with keeping the early morning nursing, because you enjoy it, and it will relieve the pressure. That's all I've done for the past 6 months, I think, since I had trouble with nursing (Coltrane is 14 months). I regret the thought of losing that time in the morning, even though I added a bottle to it, too, a long time ago.

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CD — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 20:14:37 GMT

I've been nursing my daughter, who is now almost 13 months, only when we wakes up in the morning and once before bedtime, and that has worked well for me. I was sick of pumping at work, but liked (and still like) the together time we have before and after she goes to daycare and I go to work.

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Thu, 21 Aug 2008 19:29:43 GMT

Just wanted to chime in re: a combination of cabbage and limited expression to relieve discomfort. When DS dropped his last feeding a month ago, I was also VERY sore. I used a hand pump once or twice just to make myself more comfortable, did some expression by my bare hands in the shower for a couple of days, and combined that with the cabbage. Within a week I was totally fine (though I'd dropped two cup sizes...oh well...)

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Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:43:57 GMT

My kiddo is 9.5 months (his birthday is Nov. 2- I was totally seeing us in your birthday post!) and the idea of weaning was kinda scaring me, both because he drinks when he's going to sleep and I didn't know how to change that routine, and because nursing time is special cuddle time. But in the last few weeks, he's become less dependent on milk for going to sleep, and more cuddly- even when he doesn't want or need anything, he'll snuggle up with mom for a little while. So I'm hoping maybe it won't be so hard. I'm dreading the first few times I have to say no to a comfort-nursing, though- it's still what he turns to when he's upset and too sleepy/frustrated/whatever to deal with it on his own.

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Emily — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:22:43 GMT

Great job nursing for 9 months!!! It's not easy for us working mamas, especially pumping at work. Your babe looks like he is super healthy, and our guy was always a peanut until he started on the formula. After that, he really filled out.

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leahsmom — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 14:36:09 GMT

@Noell - if you're uncomfortable or just feel that you want to wean - that's good enough reason not to do it! Don't feel that, just beause you're an SAHM, you don't have the right to make that decision - it's your body, and you certainly do.

@Oz - you totally can walk around with frozen veggies duct taped to your chest. I (true dis) brought ice packs to work and snuck 'em in there - under my sweater!

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knockedup — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 14:30:52 GMT

CaraBee - I think it's great that nursing is going so well for you and you're cherishing this time with your daughter. I bet by the time your girl does self-wean, you'll have new things to do together that will be different, but could be equally good. Of course, if it's working for you both now, there's no reason to stop.

Cabbage leaves totally rock.

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Marie Eve — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 14:02:35 GMT

I was seriously surprised about how much it hurt when I weaned my son, who was a few weeks shy from his first birthday, because by then he had only been nursing once a day for a few minutes. But oh, it was hell for over a week! I didn't think about the cabbage leaves, but I guessed they wouldn't have been of much help during work hours. I was leaking a little bit too all the time, something that had not happened in months and months. I had given away all my nursing pads to a friend and didn't want to buy new ones for "just a few days." So I can still see myself cutting maxipads into small rounds that I would stuff in my bra... So ridiculous... Glad it's over. Hang on. And I applaud you for lasting this long, especially with the work pumping.

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Adina — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 03:48:33 GMT

CaraBee I feel the same way. I've been home longer than I expected, and I really hope then when I go back to work we can keep nursing in the AM/PM and on weekends for at least a couple more months. Nola is pretty resisitant to the sippy cup (and won't take a bottle at all) so...we'll see.

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CaraBee — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:27:51 GMT

We're still nursing. If I were working, I doubt I would have lasted this long. I DREAD the day when either she self-weans or I decide its time to quit. I'm a SAHM, so I'm not really in any hurry. Am I weird that I like it? It's our time together and it makes me sad to think about this phase being over.

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knockedup — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:40:43 GMT

LauraLaura - the sippy cup took us at least three weeks. Axel waved it around a lot and chewed without drinking and then, when he started drinking, he only drank when we held the cup for him. When he held it, he banged it against the floor or dropped it from his high chair. Then, it seemed to dawn on him that he could actually get milk out of the thing.

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LauraLaura — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 21:24:14 GMT

A process I've begun, too, complicated by Flann's refusal to take a bottle from us (he'll take it from the Daycare Ladies, though). How long did it take to get Axel up to speed on the sippy? Flann just kinda chews on it. Any tips?

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Ewokmama — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 20:57:24 GMT

You should pump at least a little bit to relieve the engorgement, otherwise you will wind up with a nasty case of mastitis. I believe Benadryl is supposed to help things along, too.

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amanda — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 19:09:29 GMT

ooof, I remember that. You will feel better after a couple of weeks (that's total time, it gradually gets better, at least it did for me).

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Joanie — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:26:10 GMT

heehee, you could use some deli cole slaw?

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KaritaG — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:00:58 GMT

Hey, kudos to you for nursing for nine months! I am impressed.

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knockedup — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:54:10 GMT

CABBAGE! I read about that a long time ago and had forgotten until your comments. I'm going to go by the store this afternoon and get some. I think we have a package of chopped cabbage at home, but I don't think dumping a bunch of cabbage pieces down my shirt will work as well as whole leaves.

Melissa, it was gradual - we cut out one session of nursing (or pumping if I was at work) every 3 - 5 days over the last three weeks.

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UpstateMom — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:43:37 GMT

I was skeptical, but cabbage leaves seriously work! I was in AGONY until I slipped a couple of leaves in my bra. Ahhh... Weaning is really tough -- physically, emotionally. But it gets better.

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Charlene — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:37:18 GMT

Cabbage works! I did it and it was wonderful. Just put it in the fridge and when you want to use it roll a rolling pin over the leaf to release the juices and cut a hole out for your nipple and voila. You'll be dried up in no time.

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Liz — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:24:37 GMT

Seriously LOL on the stir fry comment above.

The good news is, the engorgement doesnt last that long...