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    My darling tot has an ambitious mind and legs to support it.  The moment I explain to her that roads are dangerous and hills are steep, and NOT to go whichever way it is she isn’t supposed to go– she makes a run for it.  GiGi and I were playing in the front yard of my sisters’ home on Wednesday and instead of giggling over the furry bunny rabbit hopping about the front yard, she opted for falling.  Not once, but several times.

     

    The yard has a tiny slope to it and in the midst of some serious running momentum; GiGi stumbled and ran into the cute scalloped brick border around one of the breezy trees.  She slammed into them and then rolled down the tiny hill. *tiny* hill.  Her poor shins are scratched to pieces and both bare bluish purple bruises that make me feel like crap every time I see them.  She shook it off pretty quickly and was more upset that I was holding her than the fact that she had blood on her legs.  She sprinted out of my arms and so I let her go.  Nothing appeared stitch-worthy and while I would like to have bandaged her up and pampered her little legs, she would have no part of it.

     

    She got a good five minutes of running in before she decided to venture toward the brick surrounded flower beds.  I stood in front of them, trying to plead with her to play with her cousin and explaining the harsh environment that roses lived in. Brick, thorns, and tiny baubles are not a girl’s best friend.  She screamed and screamed and when I redirected her to the lawn, she ran the other way.   She zigged, I zagged and the bushes caught her.  I rushed her inside to scope out the blood, bruises and tears and again, she only wanted down so that she could play again.  My child is a tiny Wolverine, an x-babe of indestructible force.

     

    The back of her right leg looks like I pulled a bush out of the ground and smacked her with it and her shins look like Tanya Harding got a hold of them.  Its sad. 

     

    We opted not to go back outside at my sisters house, so when we arrived home she was more than ready to run free outside.  GiGi is pretty simple when it comes to outdoor play.  Run, run, run and run some more toward danger (i.e. pools, roads, rosebushes.)  If not, she likes to swing or jump on the trampoline.  I say “jump” but its more like her sitting in the center while I jump around and watch her slightly fly into the air.  If I were to really jump, I’m sure that I could catapult her into...

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  • Sick.

     

     (Me -notice the elvis sideburns c/o being sick- and GiGi's zoned out little face)

     

    Yes, I am writing this blog in my pajamas, under the covers, with both a laptop and a toddler on my lap. We are swimming in a sea of used Kleenex (ew), honey-lemon cough drops, magazines, and Boudreaux’s Baby Kisses chapstick.   GiGi, who is still feeling yucky, has refused to let me go anywhere or do anything since last Thursday, unless I take her with me.  The bathroom, the kitchen, hell – even the other side of the room, have all been a mother-daughter effort.   I didn’t mind so much on Thursday and Friday, but now that it’s almost been a week and I have fallen ill as well, I’m done.   I’m done being sick.  Plain and simple…I’m done having it in the house.  Snot-fevers-coughs-menthol smells-sleepy faces and tired bods be gone!

     

    I’ve experienced the fevered “sick GiGi” once or twice before, but never for a solid three days.  On Thursday, she was feeling overly warm and super clingy so I knew something was coming on.  When Friday came and she had a fever all day I was still hopeful that the end was near, but her clinginess increased and appetite went out the window.  The only thing she would let me give her, by Saturday, were sugar free tropical popsicles and soggy Captain Crunch cereal.  I was giving her Tylenol and Ibuprofen which would make the fever go down for a tiny bit, and then we were right back at HOT again a few hours later.  I loathe the task of giving her medicine, by the way.  Dose after dose and then factor in her evening shots and we have a sticky situation. 

     

    Let me paint you a picture.  One tiny little mouth..

     

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  • Mothers Day Makes Me Barf...

     

    Well kind of... 

    I can’t believe my second Mothers Day has already passed.  Last year GiGi was so little and cute and this year she’s so animated and neat to be around.  Cute too, but so much older.  This year I started out the day in Alameda.  Since we were in town I took the opportunity to have my babe visit her big sister and daddy-o.  Ryan,  Chloe (gasp! Their real names!) and GiGi and I all took a nice long walk to the main street to have some breakfast at our favorite Alameda eatery.  Ole’s is a great place but is notorious for having a waiting line out front that is a bit long some mornings.  Since it was Mothers day and there was a Spring Festival on the street right in front of the place – the line was extremely long. So long that my little babe fell asleep waiting.

     

    It was kind of interesting to look at all of the other mothers in line and see their dynamic with the kids that stood next to them, some small and some grown.  Everyone so different and unique in their motherhood.  We waited and waited and contemplated going somewhere else, then waited some more and noticed a mom a few spaces behind us with what looked to be a mini version of her.  A person who was quite possibly the woman she was 20 years ago, before the wrinkles by the sides of her mouth appeared and the gray mixed with the brunette locks.  It was very sweet to witness until the daughter began to grope her boyfriend right in front of her mother, the line of hungry people, and everyone passing by the Spring Festival.  I looked to Ryan and said “That will never happen.”

     

    “What?” he said.

     

     

     

     

     

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Love is Blind

Megg Lasswell in Oakland.

This single mom moved home at age twenty-seven to raise her blind toddler, leaving city buildings behind and trying her best to embrace farm life outside Oakland. She is working on her first book in between indie-rocking out with her daughter GiGi and teaching her the simple things in life.

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