Straight From the Bottle

Surviving Swine Flu and Sickness in General

Sunday night I came home to one very sick child. And when I say very sick, I mean, scary sick. A kind of sick I had yet to experience with either of my kids ever. Apparently it started Sunday morning but by Sunday evening, Archer was immobile. Refusing to leave the corner of my parent's couch. His eyes were swollen. He was shivering. 104 fever. Whimpering. 

 

"I think you should stay here," Hal said. "I don't know if traveling back to LA is such a good idea right now."

 

And he was right. So Hal took the train back home and I stayed with the kids at my parent's house.

 

Archer in the car

Archer, the picture of health (and angst) before I left for the weekend.

 

"He probably has the Swine Flu," my mom said. 

 

"OH MY GOD! Really? Should we take him to the hospital? AHHHHHH!!!!"

 

"Nah, he'll be fine," she said. 

 

And she was right, of course, but Sunday night was the first time in a long time that I spent the night worrying. In between rounds of "Moon River" and dabbing Archer's face with cold washcloths, I lied awake, listening to my babe's heavy breathing, totally afraid. And I started to think about parents who tend to sick children all the time. About the sick kids I used to work with and how their parents spent YEARS worrying, dabbing, singing, rocking, being afraid. 

 

So.

 

I would like to take this moment to give thanks for my children's health. 

 

Thank you, universe. For curing Archer of Swine Flu or regular Flu (or whatever it was that made him sick for three days) so that he can now sit beside me as I type this, happily devouring a bag of pretzels while kicking me with muddy shoes.

 

And thank you for making it so that everyone in my family can eat pretzels and kick each other with muddy shoes right now if they feel like it.

 

You rule. 

 

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Comments

 

JustLia said:

Oh I just hate it when the little ones are sick.

My little man (2 years old) was sick last week with croup and that was scary. His breathing sounded like a seal barking all night. It was horrible. He has had breathing issues before and we've spent nights in the hospital when his lung collapsed from an asthma crises so I get extra freaked out when he's breathing funny. I got no sleep for a week.

I do hope Archer is feeling much better and that no one else in you family catches the same flu.

October 13, 2009 8:35 PM
 

Korinthia Klein said:

There are few things worse than that helpless feeling when one of your kids is sick!  Glad your son is better.  

I'm enjoying a rare moment where three out of my three kids are all healthy, so I share your sense of grateful thanks to the universe.

October 14, 2009 8:26 AM
 

maria said:

My son is three and a half and is just getting over Swine Flu.  We had the same experience.  Lethargy, ULTRA high fevers.  But in three days most of the symptoms subsided.

Very scary stuff while it lasted.  i don't do fevers well.

October 14, 2009 11:16 AM
 

Christina said:

So true! Glad Archer is better. Thanks for reminding us to remind ourselves o be thankful. think Oprah has something with her Gratitude Journal idea..... important to stop and be thankful.  

October 14, 2009 11:18 AM
 

samantha jo campen said:

I'm so glad he's better!  Our 19 month old had a 104.5 fever three weeks ago and, like Archer, was immobile.  SCARY.  He'd be asleep but moan and groan throughout the night and it killed me.  Took 10 years off my life.  I am dead serious when I say that I am terrified to ever have more kids because I don't know if my heart could handle that much worry for another person.  I feel maxed out!

God bless healthy children and families, and God bless those who aren't.

xo

October 14, 2009 11:19 AM
 

Erin said:

I was very sick as a child, I was tested for hodgkins disease and cystic fibrosis, both of which I did not have.

Now that I have a baby of my own, I am thankful for her health and that I have such wonderful parents who, I know now, worried their heads off too often.

I also tell them sorry for being a pain in the ass frequently.

October 14, 2009 11:23 AM
 

Karen said:

We had to take my baby girl to the hospital about a month ago (she'd have been about 9 months old) for some xrays and tests.  I felt like my stomach was in my throat and my heart was going to pop out of my chest.  A sick child is terrible, and not just because they're sick but because of how it makes us feel.  

I'm glad Archer is feeling better.  

October 14, 2009 11:40 AM
 

heather said:

oh my god. glad he's ok. so much love comes with a so much worrying sometimes. phew.  

October 14, 2009 1:47 PM
 

Mae said:

I had to have my son re-hydrated last winter when he got a horrible gastro illness. He didn't move when they put the IV in him. My daughter got the same illness but ran around the house in between vomiting. It didn't seem to phase her.

Glad to hear Archer is feeling better.

October 14, 2009 1:48 PM
 

Amanda said:

Nothing makes me feel more helpless than when my son is sick. He hasn't been "sick" more than once or twice (the croup and a bit of pain and fever with incoming molars) but when he does feel ill I freak out. I can only imagine parents dealing with severely ill children go through and it breaks my heart.

Glad to hear Archer is doing better and I'll rise my next glass to everybody's health!

October 14, 2009 1:59 PM
 

Baby in Broad said:

Best non-prayer prayer ever. Amen, mama.

October 14, 2009 5:13 PM
 

Expat Mom said:

I'm so glad he's ok. It's awful to feel so helpless when your child is sick. As one of those moms who had to deal with the rocking and dabbing and freaking out for the first few months of my firstborn's life, I totally share your sentiments. Now I watch him running around, sassing both his parents, explaining footprints to his slightly younger brother and scaling 8 foot ladders and think, "Holy cow, how did that sick little baby turn into such a strong healthy kid?"

October 14, 2009 6:35 PM
 

Kristin said:

Wow, I just went through this with my five year old! We ended up in the hospital for an entire day, she needed IV fluids and her fever of 105 wouldn't break. It was so scary. The entire time she was sick (8 DAYS!!) I did not sleep, I barely ate, and I did not stop worrying. Back and forth to the Pediatrician's office, trying cold cloths, cold baths, Tylenol, Motrin, Gatorade, apple juice, etc. Alls I could think of was, what would I have done if I had another kid to take care of at the same time? I give all you moms with more than one child so much credit.

Glad Archer is better!

October 14, 2009 8:05 PM
 

Jillian said:

Glad to hear Archer bounced back.

I feel you on the gratitude. My two babies are such a joy that I'm sometimes scared the universe will realize I've been over-served and yank something back from me.

My toddler is recovering now from a fever and suspected case of the flu. Out of an abundance of caution (panic!) I sat up all night taking our 21-day-old's temperature every hour. Poor little bugger did not appreciate the additional feature of his diaper changes.

October 15, 2009 12:20 AM
 

6512 and growing said:

As a mom of a very early preemie who is now four I live in fear of the swine flu. I/m also not so psyched on the vaccine, hence the fear. Having healthy children is a huge blessing. Glad you're feeling the gratitude and glad Archer is better.

October 15, 2009 4:23 PM
 

amie said:

Ah, glad Archer is back in the saddle.  Nobody can ever explain to a non-parent how terrifying it is to see your child sick and to know that you are helpless to heal.  That all you can do is comfort---sing, rock, dab kiss, and hold.  

October 19, 2009 7:42 PM
 

Susan said:

Ahh, Swine Flu!  If only my kid had come down with that during muddy shoe season!  Would have done wonders for my powers of acceptance.  As it was, I just wanted to kick his muddy, healthy little ass.  

October 20, 2009 2:39 PM
 

Loukia said:

There is nothing scarier than taking care of your sick child. It scares me so much. I actually hate night time because it seems that most children get sick at night and that has totally been my experience, too. The hours drag on and on until the doctors office opens up in the morning... I had a very sick child last year, right about this time. My big boy, 3 years old at the time, had a high fever, grunting to breath, etc. After taking him to the doctor, we were told he had pneumonia. PNEUMONIA. I thought only old people got that. We rushed to the children's hopsital where he had x-rays taken, and was admitted. 2 weeks in the hospital. IV's, constant x-rays and blood work, and not getting better. He had to go for surgery. In his lung. And he had a chest tube in him for 4 days, draining fluid. Oxygen mask, morphine. It was my biggest nightmare, something I will never get over, and it still haunts me. The sounds and the smells of the hospital I will never forget. Anyway. It sucked. The worry stays with you always. Ever fever, ever cold, every cough. A lifetime of worry. Not to mention he was also sick as a baby, at 12 weeks old and again at 6 months with UTI's... hospitalized.. IV's... and then you also are exposed to seeing other sick children and your heart bleeds even more. Sorry for rambling, Rebecca...

Glad your little boy got better so quickly! And I'm so thankful for healthy children, too.

xo

October 22, 2009 10:25 PM
 

amy said:

glad archer is better i have 6 kids my two lil ones have confirmed swine flu, theyre on tamiflu, hoping they recover well

October 29, 2009 9:03 PM

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