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Is It Safe for Kids to Fly Solo?

I read a book about raising daughters, "What a Difference a Daddy Makes." (Yes, yes, I know -- but I know so little about the opposite sex that I didn't think it could hurt.) The point is, the author said he never let his children fly alone -- even if it meant crisscrossing the country himself for no other reason than to play chaperone on United or, worse, AirTran.

At first I thought he was crazy, but I began to wonder whether I would do the same when my own daughter comes to "flying alone age" (11 months, is it?). My wife, Dana, flew alone as a child and now takes a measure of pride that she slipped away from her steward captors, hopped off the plane in Chicago and called her parents while eating a hamburger. Her parents ordered her back to the plane immediately.

I just read this story and think my indecision has come to an end. It seems an 8-year-old girl was flying solo on a Southwest flight and, because there are no assigned seats, ended up next to a touchy businessman -- I'm talking about you Ronald Evan Mays, 46, who lives in Palm Harbor, Fla., and also likes child porn. Mays was convicted of abusive sexual contact with a child, because he generally acted like a sicko.

This story aside, what do you think -- is flying alone safe for kids? If so, at what age?


Comments

 

basketcasemama said:

Back in the day when you were permitted to walk your child to the gate and see them safely into the breezeway and watch the flight take off, knowing Grandma would be waiting at the other end right by the door for their arrival, it was simple. I flew alone lots of times from age 10 or so. Today though...I'd be hard pressed to put my daughter on any airline by herself. Good Lord, I don't let her wander five feet from me in the mall. The idea of waving goodbye as she heads alone down a long hallway past 100's of people grab her and leave with her at anytime. After all security in is much tighter than exit security. Then since we arrive 2 hours early she has to sit in her area until the plane boards, get on and then wander through another airport to find her relative at the other end.  Hell, no!!  We will travel as a family until she can afford to pay for her own plane tickets, I suppose.

February 20, 2007 3:12 PM

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