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When Children's Underwear Says "Wink, Wink" There's a Problem

The American Psychological Association released a study that -- surprise, surprise -- says young girls today are bombarded with sexual imagery that throttles their self-esteem and could actually make them dumb. Or at least perform poorly on tests when wearing bathing suits. Seriously. It's in the study.

From racy blogs to stupid dolls, thongs for 7 year olds to underdressed pop culture figures, girls face a tsunami of images and messages that could lead children to act sexually like adults and adults to act like children.

Of course, it's not too late to protect childhood. While the association calls for more study, it also offers some get-real talking points for parents. I've written about this before, probably too many times, but it's good to know I'm not the only one that finds it more than a little odd that some children's underwear says "wink, wink."


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Comments

 

RC said:

When we went to Madrid (Spain) to visit our friends with two girls,  it was so different for the girls there than here in the States - they and their friends were allowed to be little girls -even the oldest who was 11.

Despite prevailing US opinion that Europeans are more sexualized than people in the States, I have found that not to be true - at least in Spain - children are children, young adults are young adults, and grownups are grownups - there seem to be clearly defined generational social boundaries.

February 27, 2007 3:36 PM
 

creative-type dad said:

Why do they need a study? Wasn't that pretty obvious...?

As for the comment above, I can't speak for Spain, but we have friends (and have visited a number of times) Germany, France, Italy, Denmark...the kids are very much sexualized. This isn't just a US thing.

Even more of a reason to buy a cabin in the woods to raise my kid.

February 27, 2007 5:56 PM
 

viciousrumours said:

When my daughter was eight she came home from my ex-husband and his new wife's home with three pairs of underwear that looked like they came from Vicotria's Secret.  

I took the underwear back to his home and asked him what in the hell he thought he was doing.  He looked at me and said he didn't see anything wrong with them and accused me of overreacting.  His wife apparently thought they were "cute".

My response was: "If your wife wants to dress her daughter up like a sleazy little Barbie Doll, that's fine.  She ever does it to my child again and it will be the last time she comes to your home."

I am now called the "psycho" at their house, but there haven't been anymore inapporpriate clothing incidents.

February 27, 2007 8:18 PM
 

cryitout said:

You are my new hero, vicious. I like it.

February 27, 2007 8:37 PM

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