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Pink Balls For Girls

Posted by Kelly Mills
pink mittThank you Title IX! Target has come out with a line of pink sporting goods like mitts, volleyballs, and basketballs. Presumably these are designed for girls, or boys who are comfortable enough with themselves to adopt a rosier approach to athleticism.

On first glance, it might be tempting to hate on this stuff as going with the stereotype. Why do girls get everything marketed to them as princess pink fairy lacy frou frou? But I look at this equipment, and I see a nice revolution. If a girl is in the oh-so-common pink phase, she might like having a ball that appeals to her color love, and therefore be more into trying a sport. And my long range hope is that with more and more girls participating in athletic endeavors, we'll see some serious improvements in the current palette of black-red-orange-forest green-white-gold that dominates most sports. Where's the lavender? The bronze? The aquamarine? The sky blue? (Note: don't send me examples of pro sports teams that use these colors, because they are the exception rather than the norm.) Maybe we'll start seeing some uniforms that aren't an ugly blend of two colors that shouldn't go together. Down with man colors! Grrrl power!

Besides, being a feminist athlete doesn't mean you can't accessorize well or wear something bright. Tennis has had well-known women players for ages, and even though white ruled the sport for a long time, I love some of the newer ensembles. And when we bought this pink mitt for my daughter's T-ball season, it was a big hit on the field. Kids begged for a chance to use it. Interestingly, some of the boys did refuse to borrow it even though they had forgotten their own mitts and would have to catch bare-handed. Time to come around, young sons, and get comfortable with "girl" colors. You'll be seeing a lot more of us with our hot pink and lavender mitts on the field in the future.  


Comments

 

papa said:

Hold on a second.

"Time to come around, young sons, and get comfortable with "girl" colors."?

"..boys who are comfortable enough with themselves to adopt a rosier approach to athleticism."?

Are you saying then that your daughter isn't comfortable enough with herself to adopt a bluer appoach to athleticism?

Do you not see the hipocracy in what you are saying? You criticize a boys reluctance to use something pink while saying that girls shouldn't have to use "boy colors".

I have no problem with title IX, equal pay for equal work, or even pink sporting equipment (for girls or boys). Furthermore, I understand why you are happy these are now available. However, if you are going to write about a sexist society don't be sexist yourself in the same breath. Equality is a TWO way street!

May 5, 2007 10:03 AM
 

mum said:

I despise the phenomenon of boy and girl colors. What bothers me the most about it is that all colors seem to be acceptable for girls, but boys are harrassed (even by adults) if they use pastels, purples, and pinks.

My little boy actually loves pink. His bedtime toy is a pink kitten. When we are buying things for public use, however,  I always cleverly disuade him from choosing pink items (like the pink cleats that he wanted for soccer - and they were even on sale and we had to go to another store to find non pink or sparkly cleats in his size!) without telling him that I'd rather he didn't get the pink because both boys AND girls will ridicule him. I feel guilty about this, but frankly, I don't know how to pragmatically approach the situation.

Papa's right equality is a two way street. We've still got a long way to go to combat sexism.

May 5, 2007 1:22 PM
 

Kelly Mills said:

I was joking about "man" colors, because I, like mum, think it's odd that some colors are for girls, and some for boys. I'd like all the kids to be able to wear pink sparkly or blue or whatever they like best, without getting mocked. Make no mistake: boys on my daughter's team were anxious about using pink because anything supposedly feminine opens them up to ridicule. That makes me mad, because they shouldn't be teased for using a pink mitt. And I'm not saying my kid shouldn't use a blue mitt, but she shouldn't have to unless she wants to. I disagree that it's sexist- I'm all for a wider range of colors, as well as a wider range of athletic options available to everyone to choose freely without fear of teasing.

May 5, 2007 3:19 PM
 

tm said:

 I guess I'm sexist (actually I know I am), I don't want boys to use the pink balls, gloves, etc.  I like having things , whether it's sporting equipment or clothing, that are just for me.  I was super excited a couple of years ago when I was shopping for new spikes and they had pink!  I love my pink shoes and I really wish I would have had them as a young girl.  BTW, I'm 29 and still involved with soccer, hockey and basketball.  Title IX rules!

May 5, 2007 4:23 PM
 

JulieT said:

I think the pink mitt is great! My daughter loves sports, cars, and other "boy" things, but she also likes the pink and sparkly, so this would be right up her alley. She already has an iridescent pink soccer ball that she thinks is way cooler than the plain old back and white ones. :)

May 5, 2007 6:46 PM
 

MG said:

Papa and MUM, it's called humor!!!

May 6, 2007 3:54 AM
 

crunchy said:

My dh bought my daughter this...not becauause it was pink really but because it stopped her stealing her brothers glove and screaming that it was hers...now she is quite certain that THIS is her glove and he has his and they are not fighting.

the colour stereotypes ARE sad but the girls do by nature not nurture go for the girly stuff too.

May 6, 2007 12:51 PM

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