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Michelle Obama Takes Time Off for Family: "What Hope Is There for the Rest of Us?"

michelle obamaThe Washinton Post reported on Friday that Michelle Obama is about to be jobless. She is quitting her position as Vice President of Community and External Affairs at the University of Chicago Hospitals to seek balance in her work-family life as her husband Sen. Barack Obama (D-Ill.) pursues the presidency.

Michelle Obama shares that she never intended to be a stay-at-home-wife and mother, though she, like every professional working mother, admits to feeling conflicted about her choice to work out of the home.

Says Michelle Obama, "Every other month [since] I've had children I've struggled with the notion of 'Am I being a good parent? Can I stay home? Should I stay home? How do I balance it all?' I have gone back and forth every year about whether I should work."

Blogger Pundit Mom takes this all in and asks, "If someone as high-profile as Michelle Obama can't negotiate a family accomodation, what hope is there for the rest of us?"

Pundit Mom adds that she hopes Barack Obama can use his wife's situation "to illustrate as a campaign issue why more workplaces need to shift the view of what is workable for professional people, women AND men alike." Granted, we don't know what was behind Michelle Obama's leave. Certainly she is high-profile enough that she can have any job she wants when she decides to go back to work. Still, this begs the question, "Should she have had to quit?"

Pundit Mom doesn't think so: "It's not about women not being able to suck it up and stick it out. It's about dragging employers kicking and screaming into the 21st Century...Maybe they won't get it until more women leave the workplace and they see their bottom lines plummeting when half the qualified work force steps off the track and businesses are left scrambling for qualified replacements."

I know one organization that will have a lot to say about this. 

[photo credit: Washington Post] 


Comments

 

Grammy said:

I feel bad that she even had to make that kind of choice.  At least she can afford to stay home.  It is probably a good idea while her husband runs for office.  If he makes it, it will be hard for her to continue working.

May 14, 2007 11:41 AM
 

PunditMom said:

Thanks for the link, CityMama!

May 14, 2007 1:58 PM
 

nippleconfusion said:

Pundit Mom doesn't think so: "It's not about women not being able to suck it up and stick it out. It's about dragging employers kicking and screaming into the 21st Century...Maybe they won't get it until more women leave the workplace and they see their bottom lines plummeting when half the qualified work force steps off the track and businesses are left scrambling for qualified replacements."

For half the workforce to step down, we'd have to be living in extraordinarily wealthy times, and we are not. And for all the working moms I know, it's not about sucking it up and sticking it out - it's about making a living and helping to support their families because it's what must be done.

I work at one of the world's largest media corporations, and if all the moms quit, you can be sure they'd be instantly replaced by super intelligent people who have no kids or problems with working late, or even just past six. There's no dearth of brilliant, young people ready to take on a job that a mom can no longer fulfill.

I agree that the workforce must be changed - we need child care on site and flexible hours. But please remember that opting out is an unheard of luxury to most working women in America.

May 14, 2007 2:22 PM
 

OldParrothead said:

I would love to be able to tell my wife "quit, stay home, your job is the house and kids", but it's not realistic in today's society. The college kids are lined up at the doors for women who (God forbid) think they have a right to spend time with their families. I agree with nippleconfusion when she says the workforce needs to be changed. As on of the many dads who have taken on increased household roles, it wouldn't bother me at all to allow flexible hours. My only caveat is that this needs to cut both ways. There are many functions that I would love to attend with my kids, but cannot just have the time off.

May 14, 2007 2:58 PM

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