I'm not yet sure what to think about this new book and website called "Shut Up About Your Perfect Kid!".
It's billed as a humorous alternative to the "My Kid Is An Honor
Student" bumpersticker mentality, but it just comes across as a lot of
sour grapes to me.
I'm the mom of a kid with special needs, and
while it may be that we've yet to experience some of the discrimination
and rude comments that many kids with special needs and their parents
seem to face, I wonder whether the best way to address this ignorance
is to throw the rudeness back? I don't know, maybe I live in a big
rainbow-colored Happy Bubble, but it seems to me that education, not a
big in-your-face "Shut Up About Your Kid!" is what will really change
people's misperceptions about kids with special needs and their, well, needs.
And,
too, why the need to continually set these kids apart? Yes, it's good
to acknowledge and honor their differences, but I think there's a fine
line between acknowledging and shoving it in someone's face. I want my
kid to be regarded as a person first and foremost, not as his
special-needs label. I'm afraid that this "Shut Up" site is only
creating a wider gap between the so-called "perfect" kids and the
"imperfect" ones. "Perfect"?? None of my kids are perfect, and neither
am I, but I don't go around wearing a label about it.
Can't they all just be "kids"? Wonderful, beautiful kids?