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Organized Sports for Preschoolers: Too Soon or Just Right?

Posted by Karen Murphy

soccer babyThere's a big debate a-brewing out on the soccer field these days as tiny three-and four-year olds are taking up scaled-down cleats and shin guards and milling about in confusion while their parents look anxiously on, calling out encouragement or instructions ("kick the ballll!"). The "traditional" age for an introduction to organized sports has always been at about age eight, when coordination and drive kick in for most kids, and many kids have been pushing that envelope with t-ball and other sports at about five or so, but parents seem to be pushing their kids into sports earlier and earlier now (even as young as 18 months!), which leaves child development experts shaking their heads.

Early-sports proponents say that being out on the field is far better than being on the couch in front of video games, and that preschool is a prime time for learning motor skills like throwing, catching, jumping and running. Okay, true enough. But development experts opposing this trend claim that it's too early to competantly learn game rules and that there's simply too much pressure on a kid that age to perform. Pressure that seems to come from the [cough] parents.

Parents these days seem especially keen on getting their kids into school teams as early as possible, pushing the poor kid into a practice regimen that's a sure-fire path to early burnout. Personally, I think that three and four is way too young for any kind of organized sports. Kids that age should be playing in an open-ended way. But that's me. What about you? 


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Comments

 

doodaddy said:

Sure, kids should be playing open-ended games, but I think that's what these leagues do. I've never been to a 5-year old's soccer game where anyone kept score or said anything less than encouraging to all players.

Ideally, we'd just let 'em all out in the field out back, but no one has fields out back anymore. Why not a "league"?

May 20, 2007 5:01 PM
 

BabyCakies said:

I also don't know a three or four year old, much less a yonger child, who can understand the rules of a sport or gives a crap about playing as a team.  As an occupational therapist with a focus in pediatrics, I'm also shaking my head.

Sure, preschool aged children should be running around, learning to throw balls and manover a playground--not playing video games, but team sports for such young children seem pointless to me.  If you can take your little ones to the field for a game, take them to the park and play.  

May 20, 2007 5:52 PM
 

karrie said:

My son is so active, that I'm looking forward to his third birthday in a few months, so I can start signing him up for sports.

Plus, I have this crazy idea that I'll be able to sit on the sidelines and......read. :)

May 20, 2007 7:04 PM
 

crunchy said:

Yeah teams...organized?  Noooo

I sign my kids up with t-ball and soccer through the community centre...they get an idea about HOW to play and working as a team and so on...that is about it.

Adam's little soccer games are just a bunch of four year olds running back and forth..they don't know what is going on!

May 20, 2007 7:42 PM
 

Sarah said:

Active is great, but I'm with the OT: kids just don't require that level of organization so young & the subtle messages aren't as subtle as we think.

May 21, 2007 12:26 PM
 

Sheri said:

I think it depends on the kid.  My son is almost 5 and loves playing soccer.  Our 3 year old does too.  But some of the kids on this team want nothing to do with it.  And it shows.  At this age, they pretty much just run around and kick the ball anyway.  I don't see the harm in it.  

May 21, 2007 11:10 PM

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