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How Big Are Your Family Digs?

Another old house in my beautiful neighborhood is getting knocked down. It is a house kiddy-corner from our apartment building and granted, it was on the market for a very long time and then for rent for an even longer time. It is not beautiful, not in great shape. But it is an old house on an over-sized lot with a great yard and its own character. And like many other homes turned construction sites within blocks, a Starter Castle will surely be built up in its place. With lots of bathrooms, more bedrooms and no trace of Earth on the lot.

This McMansioning of America cannot be surprising to anyone who owns a home, is buying a home or just walks past homes in their 'hood. A recent report citing one in five homes now have four bedrooms and 2.5 baths is up from a one in six ratio in 1990. This trend toward bigger home size doesn't match up with the trend toward shrinking family size. It is, however, right on track with our need for more expansive space to fit all our stuff, no matter how much greenspace it means we chop away or how big our environmental footprint is on our cities, counties or country.

All this construction comes at a price (and not just environmental). The average home price has risen 40% since 1990, hitting $167,500. I almost choked on my latte when I read this since our family's hunt for even a crappy fixer-upper keeps landing us at doorsteps with at least a $400,000 price tag. While I loved our own Crank Mama's ode to small spaces and while I can go on and on and freaking on about the horrific crapification of monstrous new builds in our neighborhood, I know that when we are finally ready to move out of our tiny apartment (noooo, not bitter about that at all), I will have every home-office/playroom/kid's bathroom/guest space/art studio/fitness room reason in the world to hit all the 4 BR/2.5 BA open houses I can find. 


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Comments

 

Miss-B said:

3 BR, 1 Bath, 1250 Sq ft.  Two adults, two toddlers, no A/C.  :(

May 29, 2007 6:47 PM
 

Teeny Apartment said:

1br, 1 bath, 2 adults, 1 baby - nearly 400 sf

(that's not a typo).

No A/C, no DW, no TV, no disposal, no deck - but laundry and elevator in the building and a 20 minute walk to the office, and just about anywhere else I'd care to go...

May 29, 2007 8:35 PM
 

carfree childhood said:

900 sq feet

2 bedrooms, 3 baths, one TV, no disposal, roof deck

2 adults, 1 kid, 1 toddler, 2 cats

I fantasize about 4 bedrooms, separate dinning room, and a back yard but I don't want to give up a fifteen minute walk to my kid's school, a fifteen minute ride on the subway to work and a neighborhood full of playgrounds and parks.

May 29, 2007 9:28 PM
 

RachelZ said:

I could totally get down with 4 bedroom and about 2.5 baths if the house were three floors or something.  I don't see why I can't have a three-story house with a smaller footprint, but you just don't see them being built that way.

I live in suburban New Jersey, and these McMansions are everywhere and ugly as hell.  I'd rather buy a nice old house with some character instead of one of those messes.  I do, however, require a gift-wrapping room.  Perhaps we'll put that next to the roller rink.

May 29, 2007 9:34 PM
 

CityOfTrees said:

We moved OUT of a spacious, new apartment in the burbs last year for our 2-bed, 1-bath, 700 sf house in the city.  It's 70 years old (ancient by CA standards) and has no modern appliances, but lots of character and a beautiful backyard garden.

We're expecting a third tenant in a few months, and while all my "hip urban" friends have retreated to the McMansions, we're going to stick it out. We love the uniqueness of this house, the diversity in the neighborhood, and the proximity to work and play. I wouldn't go back to that hour-long freeway commute for anything - not even for a spare bathroom and some climate control.

May 29, 2007 10:10 PM
 

Sheri said:

1150 sq ft upstairs and 937 downstairs, built in 1937.  

2 bedrooms, one bathroom, eat in kitchen and a den we are now using for a 3 rd too small bedroom.  

We have central air and a new furnace (which we are now in debt for)  

I live in NW Indiana and 11 years ago, this house was purchased for $95,000.  It is now worth more than that but still, I cannot imagine paying $400,000 for something so tiny I couldn't turn around in it.  And just so you know, I live in a very family friendly and desireable small town within a half hour drive to downtown Chicago.  

I've heard California is expensive but jeez....is it really worth it????

May 30, 2007 12:23 AM
 

mb said:

We unfortunately have a 4 bedroom 2.5 bath McMansion and unfortunately will have to get a larger house if we want to have a 2nd kid because my mother-in-law visits for moths on end so we need a dedicated room for her and my husband often works from home and needs a home office where he can shut the door to distractions.  What baffles me is why the designers of McMansions make the master bedrooms huge and the bedrooms so small they can't be shared by more thn one kid.

May 30, 2007 6:28 AM
 

Kim said:

I nearly choked on the $167, 500 average homeprice. Bring it on! The average 3 bedroom, 2 bath ranch house in my community goes for close to $400K. Many of these small homes are being razed to make way for McMansions at more than twice the price.

May 30, 2007 6:46 AM
 

Kim said:

I nearly choked on the $167, 500 average homeprice. Bring it on! The average 3 bedroom, 2 bath ranch house in my community goes for close to $400K. Many of these small homes are being razed to make way for McMansions at more than twice the price.

May 30, 2007 6:46 AM
 

RachelZ said:

I was browsing real estate listings in Indianapolis and I put my price range as $200K-$300K.  In the area of Indy where I was looking (Speedway, where my husband and I spent the two years before we got married), there weren't any houses.

I modified the low end of my range to $150 and found a 5BR-3BA for $159K.  I almost fell off my chair, since $159K will barely get you part of a 3-family tenement in downtown Camden if you want to live in New Jersey.   We have 2BR 2.5BA, which is nice, but it's a wildly expensive townhouse - no basement, no yard, no garage.  SIGH.

May 30, 2007 7:39 AM
 

JM said:

800 sq ft - two parents, one kiddo, one dog.  

And how timely, Canada's Globe and Mail newspaper published this morning stated that the average home price here just topped $300K.

http://www.reportonbusiness.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20070529.r-mls30/BNStory/Business/home

May 30, 2007 8:28 AM
 

Naomi said:

We own a two-family.  Our unit, which is one and a half floors, is 4 bedrooms, 2 baths, 2000 sq ft.  The other unit -- which we used to rent to tenants, but now my mom lives there (which is heaven, btw!) -- is 2 bedrooms, 1 bath, 12 sq ft.  

I highly recommend the two-family route.

May 30, 2007 8:45 AM
 

Naomi said:

Ahem.  My mother's unit is not 12 sq ft.  It's 1200 sq ft.

May 30, 2007 8:46 AM
 

ibambamama said:

2 adults, 1 child, 1 40-lb dog

650 sq ft - 2 bdrm, 1 bath

no outside space (deck, porch) but we are 1/2 block from one of the best public parks in the city.

It's a tight squeeze but it's home.

An interesting sidenote though - we just went house/farm shopping this weekend and found a great place - a 6-bedroom, 200 year old farm house (NOT a McMansion - and amazingly well-preserved) plus two huge beautiful barns on 13 acres of land - all for less than the cost of a studio in NYC (ie. less than 400K!) - Of course, we'd have to give up the city life....but, well, everything's a trade-off!

May 30, 2007 9:00 AM
 

crunchy said:

we rent and if we want to stay in vancouver we will continue to rent...

a 3 bed townhouse up the street just went for $520K!

Here the price gets higher and the places get smaller...

I have no clue where to find an affordable house for two kids, two 'rents, dog, two cats, office etc.

We are doomed.

May 30, 2007 11:02 AM
 

Mlle. Thunderpants said:

3BR, 1BA, 1260 sf, 1920 bungalow kit house.

2 adults, one shorty, 4 cats.

I hunger for another half bath, but I love the tudoresque beams, built-in bench and sideboard in the dining room. Our house is the size of a peanut, but it's *our* peanut, by gum!

May 30, 2007 1:10 PM
 

maconchick said:

Come on down to Macon, Ga if you're looking for affordable: 1800sq ft, brick, 3bd, 2 bth 3/4 acre lot, AC, DW, 2 adults, 1 baby, 3 cats, and get this; $145,000.

Nice weather, friendly folks, Internet access, close to Atlanta. What else do you need?

May 30, 2007 1:15 PM
 

Grammy said:

2 bedroom, (one is now my den) 2 baths, 1200 sq ft.  Laundry room.  No dishwasher.   I have AC.  I have to, I live in Phoenix.  I raised my two girls in this double wide mobile home.  Been here 27 years. I paid $28,000 for it in 1980.  It is now paid off.  It has problems but I love it here.  It is just right for me.

May 31, 2007 12:12 AM
 

Laura said:

in Philly...

3 bedrooms

2 baths

living room

kitchen

dining room

basement

laundry room

roof deck

for 3 adults, 1 baby, 1 goofy labrador retriever and 2 cats.  It fits, but just barely.

May 31, 2007 12:14 PM
 

spartic99 said:

I hate how everyone is down on big houses. While I personally don't like the idea of having all the houses look the same in the development the fact that a house is large shouldn't invite scorn. Why should we have to cram into a tiny house or apartment when we can have room to enjoy ourselves without falling all over each other? I actually find it easier to keep my larger home clean since everything has a place and there is no clutter, just dusting and vacuuming and I am done.

May 31, 2007 2:14 PM
 

STL Mom said:

Don't hate me because I live in a big house!  Out here in flyover country, we have four bedrooms, four baths, and I think about 4000 square feet.  For a price that would make the east and west coasters cry, so I won't share.

The dining room and family room are big enough for the kids to drive their little cars around indoors when it's raining or 100 degrees outside.  We moved here from a 900 square foot apartment.  Now that I've gone big, it would be hard to go back to small.  

On the other hand, if this house had a better floorplan we could lose 1000 square feet without missing it.  And we'd be fine with two bathrooms.

Anyone read The Not-So-Big House books by Sarah Susanka?  She's an architect who endorses making homes useful and interesting instead of large and boring.  Gorgeous photos and great ideas for utilizing smaller spaces.

June 1, 2007 11:40 PM
 

STL Mom said:

Don't hate me because I live in a big house!  Out here in flyover country, we have four bedrooms, four baths, and I think about 4000 square feet.  For a price that would make the east and west coasters cry, so I won't share.

The dining room and family room are big enough for the kids to drive their little cars around indoors when it's raining or 100 degrees outside.  We moved here from a 900 square foot apartment.  Now that I've gone big, it would be hard to go back to small.  

On the other hand, if this house had a better floorplan we could lose 1000 square feet without missing it.  And we'd be fine with two bathrooms.

Anyone read The Not-So-Big House books by Sarah Susanka?  She's an architect who endorses making homes useful and interesting instead of large and boring.  Gorgeous photos and great ideas for utilizing smaller spaces.

June 1, 2007 11:52 PM
 

Strollerderby said:

After having a spirited conversation about o ur homes and how big they are (or aren't) , I thought it

June 5, 2007 11:21 AM
 

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June 6, 2007 11:42 AM
 

Strollerderby said:

We live in an apartment, a small vintage apartment tucked into a lovely, expensive neighborhood in Chicago. Our rent hasn't gone up in the seven years we've lived here and we have a compassionate landlord and wonderful neighbors. Despite this

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