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International Adoptions Slowing Down Despite Jolie-Pitt Singlehanded Attempts to Adopt Every Orphan

Posted by Karen Murphy

adoption baby handsIt's bad news again for would-be adoptive parents looking to bring home a baby from overseas: the waits are getting longer with little relief in sight. Not surprisingly in the convoluted world of international adoption, this conflicts with the justification heard not long ago when China tightened restrictions on potential adoptive parents, claiming at the time that the new regulations would reduce the wait time. So far, it hasn't happened: in fact it's more than doubled.

In addition, several countries have shut down their foreign adoptions altogether: countries having done so or that are experiencing prohibitive delays include China, Guatemala, Ukraine, Nepal, Russia, and South Korea. International adoptions only represent about 25% of total American adoptions. The recent added wait times for international adoptions are making domestic adoption through the foster care system more appealing than it once was (there's still an enormous amount of bureaucracy to wade through no matter how you slice it). Unless your name is Angelina Jolie, in which case the Adoption Gods just seem to smile endlessly.

On the flip side, several countries are opening up adoptions a little more which may help ease things, and huge increases are being seen in African countries like Ethiopia and Liberia. And Malawi. I just hope that all the countries concerned are really attempting to ensure that the best possible families are found for their children who need homes, and that they just aren't preying on susceptible, desperate and hopeful parents.


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Comments

 

Sarah said:

It's funny you mention this, because the New York Times today did an article on how Ethiopia is becoming an adoption haven. Lebanon, where all adoptions are church-based, is a great place to adopt.

June 4, 2007 5:39 PM
 

cowgirl said:

I wonder how difficult it would be to adopt in war-torn countries like Iraq and Afghanistan where families are being torn apart by violence.  I do know that adoption is frowned upon in Islam but I wonder if this is loosened in certain circumstances, like war.

June 4, 2007 8:57 PM
 

laura said:

in response to cowgirl.

it is so western of you to assume that because a country is in war, or people are poor that their children are better off from their own parents and given to a happy western family where all is rosy.

if i was given the choice i would stay with my family and with those i know.

why dont we concentrate on helping change their situation instead of "rescuing" the children from their probably incredibly loving families.

you have talked about families being torn apart by violence, being seperated from your family is no different.

June 5, 2007 12:16 AM
 

Sandra Hanks Benoiton said:

I'm not sure what the line about Angelina Jolie is meant to convey. "Adoption Gods" require she jumps through all the same hoops we all do, and just because they're not displayed in public does not mean they don't exist.

As to Laura jumping on cowgirl (That's an image I could do without ... ), war = orphans ... you know, children seperated from family through family being dead? Is there a legitimate concern about children here? I'd say so.

Assuming that anyone suggests 'rescuing the children from their probably incredibly loving families' is just mean, and hints at a completely different agenda.

June 5, 2007 8:17 AM
 

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June 17, 2007 9:11 PM
 

Maureen said:

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June 17, 2007 9:21 PM

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