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It's All Your Fault, Mother!

Posted by Melissa Summers

An Australian study suggests obese, single mothers are more likely to "breed" chubby children. This article starts out strong and finishes even better on my annoy-o-meter. Obese and single mothers don't "have children", they don't "raise children who may also be obese". Obese, single mothers "breed" chubby children.

On the bright side, this study, published in the Medical Journal Of Australia, does not blame childhood obesity on family conflict, negative life events, or maternal depression. Hooray! We've taken away mother blame but added blaming a mother for being single. The study claims the correlation is due to genetic predisposition toward being obese and possible lack of healthy food options because one parent is choosing what foods are in the home.

As a baby my first born had horrible sinus infections and was sick for almost a full year. As we took her to specialists the first question they asked was, "Do you work out of the home?" Because it would have been my fault my daughter was ill if I didn't stay at home with her. When I told the specialists and pediatricians my daughter was at home all day with only me they asked if she was breastfed. She wasn't so how could I be surprised she had sinus infections?

I think what I've realized about medical studies is they're good for overall trends but they rarely relate to individuals.

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Comments

 

Renee said:

Those don't necessarily sound like judgmental questions to me.  Perhaps your child's doctors were simply trying to establish her exposure to germs (if you work out of the home, or your child is in daycare, she may be exposed to more pathogens).  Or perhaps they were trying to determine what kind of resources your family had to deal with the stresses of an ill child.  Whether she is breast- or formula-fed is also medically relevant information, and needn't be judgmental either.

You're exactly right about medical, and other scientific, studies.  The vast majority deal with statistical trends - they are important for telling us what usually happens, but can rarely tell us anything specific about how one particular individual will respond to a given treatment, or when s/he will reach a certain developmental milestone, etc.  I don't see that as a failing, it's just a consequence of the design, and both researchers and physicians know that very well.

June 5, 2007 12:30 PM
 

Sheri said:

I was a single mom the first almost 5 years of Matt's life.  He was a pudgy lil guy but he took after his birth father and is skinny and way too frigging tall.

Sounds like the morons who would assume I was on public aid when I took him in for his shots.  News flash--being a single mom doesn't always mean one is living below the poverty line.

June 6, 2007 12:30 AM

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