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Bucket Head or Genius: Which is Your Kid?

Parenting advice can sometimes be laughably simplistic and reductionist.  Nevertheless, obvious instructions like "don't leave your 7 month old unattended in the bathtub" serve to reassure us that all is orderly and well in the universe.  

Furthermore, with all the competi-mommy confessions and helicopter parenting going on these days, the elegant simplicity of statements like "each child has different needs" and "children learn at their own pace" should be repeated like a peaceful mantra -- an antidote to Type A overkill.

People judge other people.  And parents judge other parents.  If we sometimes feel a little embarrassed of our ragamuffin bucket-head kids, it's really no wonder.

It may not be easy having kids who aren't stars of the gifted program, who lag behind other kids development.   On the other hand, there is a sort of Beta Mom pride in the unwillingness to thrust our beloved progeny into the Fast Lane.  Just yet.


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Comments

 

Miss-B said:

I followed the links in your post to Izzy and then the "Hillside Parents" blog.  Thanks for the great reads.  

I'm happy to find out that I'm not the only parent out there that feels uncomfortable with the idea of pushing my two year olds to perform.  Whether it be by being the best dressed or the smartest or what have you.  I'm comfortable with the fact that my twins are a little bit behind the curve right now.  This may be the last opportunity they get to be goofy little ragamuffins.  Why not embrace it?

June 16, 2007 10:20 AM
 

RachelZ said:

Yes, it would seem that my kid is behind the curve a bit, too.  She just started crawling at ten months (playground mommy: GASP!  Joaquin was walking at 7 mo!) and tends to crash head-first into a lot of things.  Still, she's happy, I'm happy, and we're fine the way we are.  Playground mommy's kid might have been walking at 7 months, but he's an ugly little troll, so I win!

June 16, 2007 6:05 PM
 

Strollerderby said:

I'm posting this at 2:07 p.m. pacific time -- the exact moment Dana and I are getting in the car and never looking back going on our first weekend trip sans the baby. So you'll have to forgive me if I'm a little distracted. There's been

August 13, 2007 11:45 PM

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