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Back Off, Baby: No Biting the Boobs!

Posted by Karen Murphy

baby teethPoor Gwen Stefani. She's worried her 14-month old son Kingston is going to start biting during breastfeeding now that he's getting teeth. (Side note: he's just now getting teeth?) Well, kudos to Gwen for sticking with the breastfeeding this long, even though Rachael thinks you're crazy. Oh, and why am I even talking about Gwen Stefani? I mean, isn't that a job for Famecrawler? Why, yes it is, and they do it well, but today we're talking about biting. And this was my segue.

I had two biters. Not coincidentally, they were also the two who breastfed the longest. My daughter began biting at about 10 months, when she had both top teeth and bottom teeth. And my son, despite having no teeth at all until he was close to two, would use those little gums just to clamp down as hard as he could. Which was actually worse.

The strategy that worked with one didn't work with the other: gently breaking suction with a finger and removing my nipple from between her teeth while saying in a quiet voice, "Be gentle!" Her brother would have none of it and just clamped down harder. I'm pretty sure the quiet voice and gentle finger went out the window at that point, and he may have kept doing it just to hear me squeal (like the photo in Rachael's post).

What about you? Have a biter on hand? What did you do about it? 


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Comments

 

squawks said:

True fact: babies can't bite and suck at the same time.  If they're biting, break the seal and let them figure out whether they're really hungry or not. Also, I'm still nursing 2x/day at my daughter's insistence, and she's nearly 20 months old. Suck on THAT, Rachael.

August 10, 2007 9:40 AM
 

Lisa said:

My ds will be 3 in Nov and we just weaned a month or two ago.  Go Gwen!  

Re the biting, I think the advice you have is good.  I've also heard that pulling the infant towards you to (basically) stop their breathing and open their mouth works.  

August 10, 2007 9:48 AM
 

AmyinMotown said:

Tried all that (well, not smothering her but everything else) and nothing worked, and we were both getting so tense around feeding time it wasn't fun anymore. So we stopped. I wish I could have made it a year but I made it longer than my minimum goal of 6 months and even longer than my bare minimum goal of "longer than my Miss Perfect SIL."

August 10, 2007 10:41 AM
 

danish said:

I just weaned my 16 month old last week  :(  . I think he had been over it for a month or so before that, but I really liked that one nursing session before his bedtime.

He got teeth early, and has a mouthful now.  He bit one time around the 8 month mark, and drew blood.  When i pumped later that day the milk was pink; gross.  That hurt. I told lots of people about it, and those people mentioned it to him, saying, don't bite mommy!  That hurts her.  Interestingly, he never did it again.

August 10, 2007 11:46 AM
 

LogicalMama said:

squawks and Lisa are right. A baby can't nurse if they are biting. Pulling them in will cause them to open their mouths or you can stick your finger in and break the suction to tell them, "gentle, no biting." It usually happens during teething early. In my case, my son and I worked it out quickly. He got the message without brute force(I think my sister flicked my niece on the cheek to stop her!).

I nursed my boy successfully until he was 3.5 years old!!!!!!!!!! Go Gwen!

August 10, 2007 1:37 PM
 

Mom2Two said:

My 8 month old has one tiny tooth...and she bit me the other day.  Forget gently and firmly telling her no.  It hurt!  I yelped!

August 10, 2007 9:17 PM
 

Strollerderby said:

It's been the week of the Boob here at Babble. We've discussed babies who bite , the hospital formula ban , and celebrities who favor bottle over (fake) breast . So it's seems quite fitting to begin the lovely weekend with a drink we like

August 13, 2007 12:02 PM

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