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Are There Cool Names for Grandparents?

Posted by Karen Murphy

grandparents-grandchildrenMine was the formal family. My grandparents were known as "Grandmother and Grandfather." Bleh. That's a mouthful when you're a kid. But we didn't see them often and it was only awkward once every few years. My kids call their grandparents "Grandma and Grandpa." Original! It took my parents awhile to get used to their new names; my dad especially failed to respond on more than one occasion when someone addressed him as "Grandpa."

But I hear kids all over addressing their grandparents by all sorts of other names:  Grammie, Pop-Pop, Nana, Meemaw, Paw Paw...

Ugh.

There has to be something better. But between the natural speech impediments of children who can't wrap their lips around long words, let alone (sometimes) short ones like "spoon", and the inherent inertia regarding the naming of the people closest to us (not everyone wants to be a "Glamma"), there just aren't that many decent nicknames for grandparents.

I was hoping this message board about names for grandparents would provide something interesting, to no avail. It's full of Grammies and Grandpas and Nanas and Papas. This entreaty to submit cool grandparent names is what got me to thinking about the whole thing to begin with: I kind of like "Chief". 

C'mon, I know you Strollerderby readers are up on these sorts of things. Surely tons of you have kids who have developed interesting monikers for your parents. My dad would go for his grandkids calling him by first name. in Me, I'm thinking about using my first name too, maybe, when the time comes. Or maybe "Mrs. Murphy." What, too formal?


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Comments

 

Karen (another one) said:

My son (now six) started calling his grandparents "Eemah" and "Eepah" - no idea where it came from, but it stuck.  Grandma and Grandpa are reserved for his great-grandparents.

August 28, 2007 8:40 AM
 

Ashlie said:

my dad is "paka" to the girls (from "the whale rider"). no, we're not maori, and we don't live in new zealand, but i've always liked how that sounded... that's our only original one. the others are Grammy, Grandad, Granny, Pawpaw, and Mimi.

Oh well. one out of 6 is different at least!

August 28, 2007 9:03 AM
 

chyna823 said:

All of this stems from the Baby Boomers' unwillingness to accept that they are old enough to be grandparents. I find all of the cutesy little nicknames kind of nauseating.

August 28, 2007 9:06 AM
 

RachelZ said:

A grandfather of my acquaintance is so in denial of his grandpa status that he named himself "Poppy G."  The G stands for Grandpa.  Maybe he's going to start a late-in-life rap career, who knows?

My parents are Nana and Papa to their g-kids.  My MIL is Grandma, her husband is Grandpa Joe, and my FIL is Grandpa.

My grandmother is Grandma to me but Super-Grandma to Jillian.  My great-grandparents were Grandma Rachel and Grampa Andy and my great-great-grandma was Grammie Maggie.  On the other side, it was Grandma & Grandpa.

Nothing terribly clever, but there were a LOT of them alive when I was born.

August 28, 2007 9:40 AM
 

Hanmee said:

Karen, not sure where they picked that up, but it sounds similar to the informal words for "mom" and "dad" in Korean (and other languages have similar-sounding words for "mom" and "dad").

I'm with Chyna83 on this one.

My annoyance was with the fact that my bro/sis-inlaw had their kids first and started early on the "nana" and "pop pop" thing. I almost wonder if it's so it's easy to say and they can talk about how their kids know how to say it. (Not in everyone's case, but in their case...)

I just had my kids call my husband's parents Grandma and Grandpa. He calls my mom "hahl-muh-nee" (Korean for grandma). Well, he calls her "hammee" because when he first started talking, he couldn't say the full word and that stuck.

Stuff that happens accidentally (like mispronunciation) seems cuter to me b/c it wasn't some attempt at cute.

(One of my little cousins used to call me "King" noona - noona is a term for older "sister" - because King was about as close as he could get to my first name.)

August 28, 2007 9:51 AM
 

Nikki said:

I had Mom Moms and Pop Pops growing up and only one or two Grandmas.  My hubby had Grandma, Gramma G, a MeeMaw and a Poppa Joe.  Our son couldn't quite get Mom Mom and Pop Pop so they became Mum and Pop until he was older and he's called our parents Grandma and Grandpa and MeeMaw is still MeeMaw.

August 28, 2007 9:56 AM
 

Melanie said:

My parents are known as Nonna and Nonno (Italian).  The other set is Grandma and Grandpa.

August 28, 2007 10:05 AM
 

attriel said:

My son is only 4 months, so he's not really calling anyone anything yet, but for my parents we're going with the hindi "dadi" and "dada" (my father is from india, and it's what i called his parents)

her mom is currently nana (b/c it's what mom's grandmother was called), her mom is mommom (and has been since my wife was a kid so its easiest to not change things).  We've also been looking at "saba" and "safta" for my wife's parents (from the hebrew, b/c she's jewish)

we also arbitrarily refer to "are we going to see gramma?" which will likely confuse the heck out of the boy later in life :o

August 28, 2007 10:08 AM
 

Michele said:

The parents of a friend of mine are known to their grandchildren as "Gigi" and "Captain".  Both of her parents definitely had issues with being old enough to be grandparents, hence the names.  My parents are the decidedly un-glamorous - "Mom-Mom" and "Pop" very common in the Delaware-Philly corridor.  But they were thrilled to become grandparents and insisted on those names.

August 28, 2007 10:10 AM
 

AmyinMotown said:

My mom is GrandJan (her name is Janet) which one of her friends called her and my SIL (who had the first grandkid) and I both liked. My nephew called her Gene for awhile which drove her crazy and thus I found enormously amusing. My dad is Papa, which I don't like but my nephew called his other grandfather that so that's what stuck. My grandmother is Gigi--for Great Grandmother (G.G.= Gigi).

My grandfather was Louie--his name was Leo and one of my older cousins called him that and it stuck. I agree with Chyna823 as well--"Glamma"? Yuck.

August 28, 2007 10:34 AM
 

trayletha said:

My mom is Mimi and my dad is Poppi, my husbands’ mother is Lola (Tagalog for grandmother) and his father is Grandpaw (his choice).   I called my mother’s mother Noonie – a mispronunciation of Winifred, which is what she wanted to be called

August 28, 2007 10:50 AM
 

schadenfreudette said:

My mom is "Gaga" to all of her grandkids, because that's what my daughter could pronounce, and since she was the first grand-kid, her word is law.  

My sister's mother in law is "Lu-Lu".  Short for "Lunatic."  She doesn't know where it comes from, but it fits....

August 28, 2007 10:57 AM
 

Ivy said:

My mom wanted to be called granny, but I couldn't bring myself to call her that, so my kids have just always called her Mom, like I do. My oldest son started calling my dad PaPaw (the "a" is like the sound in "cat") so that's what we've always called him.

August 28, 2007 11:06 AM
 

JuliansMom said:

My 4 year old son calls my mother "G'Ma".  That was G'Ma's decision, she felt really uncomfortable with Grandma or Gremmie(as I used to call my great-grand mother)

It was very easy to teach him to say it too.

August 28, 2007 11:42 AM
 

boob mom said:

I call my dad Grumpa behind his back. Well, he's grumpy!

August 28, 2007 11:55 AM
 

LogicalMama said:

My niece called my MIL, "Beemah." So that is what she became. That's the one I like best, somewhat original. My mom is Gramma to my son. He's got no grandfather's at this point anymore.

August 28, 2007 11:58 AM
 

K said:

I call my maternal grandparents Grammy and Grampy.

More interesting were the names for my maternal-maternal great-grandparents, who were French Canadian: Grandmere and Pupa.

August 28, 2007 12:21 PM
 

BBBGMOM said:

Everyone in our family is a variation on the common grandma/pa theme except the grandmother who is Chinese and is Popo (which is Chinese for grandma.)  Incidentally this is easiest for the babies to say so for a short while all the "old ladies" in their lives are called Popo until they straighten it all out.

August 28, 2007 12:59 PM
 

Dawn said:

My mom said there was only one Grandma (surname) and she wasn't about to try to live up to how awesome my Grandma (surname) is. When she was growing up her family name was Mimi so we went back to that for her. My dad is a PaPaw (pronounced like the other PaPaw above). My hubs parents are Grandma and Grandpa. Although I'm a HUGE fan of the Lu-Lu from above as well!!!!

August 28, 2007 1:26 PM
 

pqbon said:

My parents are Oma and Opa (german) to my daughter...

My wifes mother and father are grandma and grandpa...

My wifes stepfather is poppop...

It makes it easy for us to have different words for everyone.

August 28, 2007 2:30 PM
 

pqbon said:

Dawn:

That is exactly the reason my mom gives for not going by Mrs. <sir name>. She simply tells people that Mrs. <sir name> was her motherlaw.

August 28, 2007 2:31 PM
 

amyp said:

Our longtime neighbor is "Babe" to her grandchildren.  The oldest grandson came up with it and it stuck.

August 28, 2007 2:42 PM
 

Angel said:

My kids call my MIL "Bestemor" which is Norwegian for Grandmother (she's 1/2 Norwegian).  They call her mom "Mor-Mor".  My one grandmother is "GG" to them--for "Great Grandma".  Everyone else has traditional names.

August 29, 2007 1:06 AM
 

buster said:

I actually always loved my grandmothers' pet names. One of my grans is Cajun. She wanted to be called MaMere (one word from the French for My Mother - don't ask..) but the first grandchild (me) pronounced it as MehMeh (with a Southern drawl) and it stuck.

My other grandma is Momma Bugg, taken from her last name. It always made me think of a cheerful ladybug. My son couldn't pronounce many words, so he changed her name to Mommy Bee (bee meant any bug as far as he was concerned)! So Cute!

My own mom wasn't ready to be an granny, so she decided that she would be called Nina. I have no idea why and the name really bothered me, although I didn't say anything to her. Luckily my son changed it to Nini, which is pretty cute as well.

August 29, 2007 1:39 AM
 

danish said:

My mother in law went online to RESEARCH what to be called when she found out we were expecting (she is pretty vain and didnt want to be called Grandma). She decided she wanted to be called Bella.  I think it is the most ridiculous thing... it has nothing to do with her real name and of course it means beautiful in Italian.   And she calls herself that in the third person all the livelong day and it drives me insane.  I am hoping my son has trouble pronouncing it and starts calling her something else deriviative.

My Mom?  So thrilled to finally be a grandmother, she loves calling herself Grandma.

August 30, 2007 4:49 PM
 

kabir said:

Hey ma i call my grandad: big dad- my eldest cousin started that one off cause he couldnt under stand the concept of grand parents- but big parents made sense....?

i dont have a grandma as she died- but htere are names like big mum, marge, g mum, budsi...

August 31, 2007 12:25 PM

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