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Should You Only Have One Baby to Save the Planet?

Posted by Kelly Mills
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How green is your uterus? There's a thoughtful argument on Slate in favor of Americans limiting their families to one child in order to do right by the planet. The author says that in practical terms, having only one child cuts your carbon footprint in the most effective way. Of course, environmentalists have been leery of making the population control case for a number of reasons: the results of mandatory family control policies in places like China, and the fact that the birth control argument could alienate moderates or right-leaning folks who could see it as anti-life. I would guess that even the fact that some of our most eco-popular folks have big families (hi, Gores) might discourage this. But I actually think that in setting up argument and counter-argument, those who advocate for this kind of environmentalism might be missing an important factor.

While Americans might be attached to their cars and convenience, these bonds are really about pragmatism and willingness to make sacrifices. But the decision to have children is almost wholly and utterly emotional. I mean, in practical terms, it probably makes sense to have none or one--most of us generally don't worry about having enough farm laborers or progeny to run a family business. We have children because we want them (or because we get pregnant with them and don't want to take steps to terminate the pregnancy.) It's an emotional desire, and a desire like almost no other, and while many are truly passionate about protecting the environment, I would venture to guess that denying the longing for two or three kids would be more than some could bear. And I just understand that.

I only have one child, and while I'd love to say it's about environmentalism or practicality, the truth is since my kid was born, I haven't felt the longing for another. If I ever do, I'll see what happens, but honestly, I would not tell someone else to make with the one-kid family because it just doesn't feel right to me. And as I've offered before, if you've got two rugrats, you can totally have my one-kid carbon credit.

Update: Just to add a li'l more non-emission-causing fuel to the subject, here's an online discussion with the author of the Slate article.  


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Comments

 

Comstock said:

As a parent, I enjoy this blog. But I do think you guys need to work on your timeliness. Not trying to be a jerk, but the power of blogs is near instant communication/comment on internet happenings. I discover some cool stuff here, but I find myself wading through a lot of posts about things I read about a day, four days, a week ago on other websites.

September 14, 2007 1:15 PM
 

Kelly Mills said:

Fair enough, and I do think timeliness is important, but sometimes I think the power of blogs is just a different or funnier or more intimate perspective on what is happening on the internet and in the world. I've read about this issue in several places over the past year in particular, and I think we'll see lots more discussions of it to follow. Funny though, cuz I did just add the online chat w/ the author, though it's from last night, so...

September 14, 2007 1:48 PM
 

kendrabobendra said:

Hee hee - I guess I've turned into a mom - I'm not so concerned about having the most cutting edge sources anymore, and am happy that y'all are distilling new and not-so-new stories for lame-o's like me who only have 15 minutes a day or so to devote to it! Okay, now it's 2:30 pm, I'm going to change out of my pjs and into some mom-jeans and a scrunchie!

I turn to this site and blogs like Kelly's for the personal perspective that she mentions - I frequently visit the original source as well, but the tie that binds me to these blogs is that another mother is writing about it - and if our situations are different (I'm expecting my second, and absolutely have thought about this issue from the green perspective for a long time), I find it all the more enlightening to hear what other moms with differing opinions and lives have to say.

BTW - that's a great article, and I hope that Dennis Kucinich is a candidate when my two are old enough to vote! Or will my second (also a boy) rebel because his mama eschewed consumerism and he only had hand-me-downs!

September 14, 2007 2:47 PM
 

JuliansMom said:

That is the great thing about the blogsphere.  If you dont like the blog, the writer or the content you dont have to read it.

I think SD is just GREAT!!!!

September 14, 2007 3:19 PM
 

crunchy said:

Well, Canadians are having less kids so I feel that I am helping with my three!!  New homegrown taxpayers in the making!

September 14, 2007 5:56 PM

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