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Grandpa Donates Sperm to Daughter-in-Law

Posted by Madeline Holler

God, those meddling grandparents. First they nag about grandchildren. Then they bear them. Now they want to father them (and I’m not talking about coaching Little League).

An English fertility clinic recently agreed to allow a 72-year-old man to donate sperm to his son and daughter-in-law to help her conceive. He’ll single-handedly, so to speak, bring about the next generation and also confirm his son’s worst insecurities that he doesn’t measure up to the old man.

No English laws preclude this intergenerational help, but doctors at the clinic said they debated this unusual request, counseled all parties involved and concluded it would be fine. The father-to-be had no brothers to turn to when he found out his swimmers were bad, so the couple went to dad to keep the family DNA all in the family. If any children come out of this, they’ll be the father’s half-sibling and grandad’s biological child.

I say take what you can get. My one hope is that the sperm isn’t being delivered the old-fashioned way, but I could just be thinking about  my father-in-law when I say that.


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Comments

 

cdc said:

eww.

October 6, 2007 6:02 PM
 

carlita said:

I'd like to say I'm open-minded enough to think that this is an amazing idea. . . then I think of my own father-in-law and being inseminated by him, however artificially, makes me want to throw up a little.

October 6, 2007 9:41 PM
 

Autumn said:

I cannot imagine how unhealthy and damaged the chromosomes of that old mans' sperm can be.  More and more studies are showing that increased paternal age raises the risk for many birth defects and maladies that appear later.  If the eggs aint fresh dont fry 'em!

October 7, 2007 9:59 PM
 

wordnash said:

I too need a barf bag, carlita. I hope the mother/daughter-in-law will opt for amniocentesis since her child faces an increased risk of autism, Down's Syndrome, etc. Since when did fertility/conception become an extended family affair?

October 8, 2007 12:47 AM
 

Sheri said:

OK, my first thought was ewwwwww.  But then again, I've heard about egg donation by family members.  And I'm not ewwwwww-ing that.  Cary Grant has a beautiful daughter, and he was in his 70's.  

Wordnash, I have an autistic son, would you like to show me a study where age increases risk of autism.  I'd like to see it--you know, me being 21 and birth father being 20 at the kid's birth and all.  Thanx.

October 8, 2007 9:09 AM
 

BBBGMOM said:

Wordnash - since when did autism become detectable via amniocentesis?  Never heard of that.  

October 8, 2007 12:17 PM

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