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Teaching Fire Safety: How to Scare the Crap out of Your Kids

Posted by Karen Murphy

firefighter"Stop, drop, and roll." Words to strike fear into the heart of third graders the world over. When I was in 3rd grade we had two field trips, one to the Hershey factory in California (AWESOME!), and the other to a fire station (FREAKING SCARY!). I had fire-related nightmares for years afterward. 

My second-grader has some sort of fire safety presentation this week, and my preschooler saw fire trucks today, and I'm steeling myself for the inevitable nightmares that are going to result. Would a life-sized robotic Dalmatian help, I wonder?

Maybe so. I'm totally on board with teaching kids about safety and what to do in various emergency circumstances, but does it have to be scary? Can't we somehow empower our kids instead of frighten them? I'd like my kids to feel confident in an emergency rather than paralyzed from panic. I tried to preempt the situation a little by introducing my second-grader to some fire safety topics ahead of her school presentation, and within minutes her eyes grew big and round as saucers so I knew it was time to stop.

So how do you strike a balance between scaring the crap out of your kids unnecessarily and arming them with information they might one day need to know?


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Comments

 

regandbabe said:

the really scary par of any fire safety lesson is when the firefighter dresses up in full gear- this scares even some adults! The hope behind this scary momemnt is that the kiddos will remember the friendly person inside the gear if/when they are ever in a real fire situation...think of how much scarier seeing a person in fire gear in a smoky room would be if you couldn't think of the person underneath it all and even though it induces nightmares etc there have been informal studies done (think of firefolks asking young fire victims how they stayed calm in the fire) that show a lot of kids really do remember "that nice fireman" even though at the time in the classroom they were scared of them

October 9, 2007 11:35 AM
 

Jen said:

When our preschool group visited the fire station, the big safety issue they addressed was "Do Not Run Away Or Hide From the Fireman".  Two firemen gave them a little talk, with one helping the other to put gear on while they spoke, ending with a guy in full gear.  I thought this was a brilliant way to address an issue I hadn't ever thought of.  It never would have occured to me to tell the kids hiding from a fireman was a bad idea, and they all liked seeing him go from a 'regular' person to a 'fireman'.  Nobody seemed scared at all.

October 9, 2007 10:39 PM

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