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Expecting Moms Not Expecting To Take A Class

Posted by asflutz

I have to say, I didn't get much out of the childbirth class I took almost a decade ago - except for two lifelong friends and the astonishing fact that many Brazilian women give birth in the squatting position. 

I guess more women are coming to similar conclusions about the utility of childbirth classes, because attendance has dropped.

Experts attribute the decline to several factors.  More women are working right up until their babies are due, so they have less time for classes.  Most women also approach birth having already decided to have an epidural, so they feel they have little use for breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, and other natural coping strategies they associate with childbirth classes.  

Although studies have shown no difference in outcome between those who take classes and those who don't, experts fear that those who neglect to take a class will be unprepared for the kinds of decisions that may have to be made in the heat of childbirth, including those involving induction, episiotomies, and C-sections. 


Comments

 

mamaloo said:

"Most women also approach birth having already decided to have an epidural, so they feel they have little use for breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, and other natural coping strategies they associate with childbirth classes."

This one always surprises me. Because a responsible health practitioner won't OK the administration of an epidural until a woman has reached about 4cm (because any earlier than that an there is a huge statistical correlation between epidurals and labour dystocia leading to delivery problems) meaning she has a good six hours or so at home and hospital to deal with before she can get pain relief medicine. How will a woman know how to deal with that?

And, if a woman doesn't know the normal course of labour such as what happens in each phase, how long they normally take, what is happening with the baby in each phase, etc, how will a woman know when things start to deviate from the norm?

I'm continually blown away when otherwise smart women have a lot of major misconceptions about labour and delivery, such as not realising that labour doesn't start with the breaking of the waters and immediate soul crushing pain. In fact, I recently spoke with an orthopedic surgeon who thought that was exactly how labour began!  

It's a weird phenomena that so many women aren't interested in being better prepared for such a big event, regardless of how "natural" or interventive they want it to be.

January 15, 2008 3:37 PM
 

Sheri said:

I wanted to take a class when I had my second child because it had been almost 13 years since I had given birth to my first child and I only remembered one breathing technique.  We didn't take a class.  I read a lot.  But I believe first time moms and dads should try to take a class.  Knowledge is power.

January 15, 2008 3:38 PM
 

LogicalMama said:

I did not take a class but not for any of the reasons listed above. Quite frankly, I felt very prepared. I was one of the last of many of my friends to give birth and I had attended the birth of one of my friend's kids. I had a doula, my sister and two friends that were moms as well as my husband attending the birth. I read a little of the Bradley book, but honestly, felt quite instinctive about the birthing process. I knew the phases, the approx. length of time for each stage, the list of possible complications and so on. That being said, I had 50 hours of labor! Most people do a double take, but most of it was bearable. It was the final 8 hours that were the hardest, most of which I honestly have no recollection. I left my body and do not remember although everyone there says I worked very hard. It took less than 40 minutes of pushing and he was out. It was all natural.

January 15, 2008 5:50 PM
 

chyna823 said:

I was planning on an epidural (and had one), but I knew that things don't always go as planned. I wanted to have some idea what to expect so I wouldn't be too freaked out if I couldn't have the epi for some reason.

January 15, 2008 9:53 PM
 

cooper1178 said:

I didn't take a class with my first, and I probably won't with my second, but I still feel very prepared.  The internet is an amazing tool.  With the click of a few keys you can search for all sorts of things - technical information, personal stories, expert opinions from all over, even videos.  I'm just not a person that learns well from being in a lecture and/or group activity setting.  I'd just rather figure it out on my own.

January 16, 2008 12:08 PM

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Amy S.F. Lutz's work has appeared in dozens of literary journals, including Cream City Review, The American Poetry Review, Puerto del Sol, and Mid-American Review. She and her husband have five children. Amy and her sister chronicle their adventures in communal living in their blog whoelsewantstoliveinmyhouse.com

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