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Dads Aren't Slacking, Are Getting Some

Posted by Kelly Mills

men who mopThere has been a glut of "guys do housework, get laid" stories out lately, and some of them frankly sound like a bid to get laundry help. You know, men who do housework are hot, if women aren't tired they feel more in the mood, and so on. If it doesn't make you feel like a low-paid call girl, I suppose you could even work out some sort of direct exchange of chores for hummada hummada, but I doubt either party really wants to feel like there's an ulterior motive behind the acts of cleanliness and love.

No matter how you look at it though, a new report says guys are pitching in on housework and childcare more, and possibly getting laid for it. They cite that men's contributions to housework have doubled since the 60's, and pitching in on childcare has tripled since 1965. Great. Maybe now people will stop asking dads with kids in tow, "Oh, are you babysitting?" And if there's a happy ending (in every sense) to this more equitable division of labor, then three cheers for parents today. 


Comments

 

AllisonWonder said:

I definitelyunderstand the correlation between moms being less tired and dads gettin' some!

March 10, 2008 3:59 PM
 

Treespeed said:

If only it was that simple. I see plenty of Dads cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry but not many Moms snaking drains, changing oil, or pushing lawn mowers. I'm definitely teaching my daughter to kill her own spiders.

March 10, 2008 5:10 PM
 

crunchy said:

dh would get some if he washed the dishes or cleaned the kitty litter without expecting me to gush at him like I do the kids for 'being a clever boy!'

March 10, 2008 8:09 PM
 

LMN said:

I have no problem with there being an ulterior motive for "acts of cleanliness and love" occasionally (I like the phrase, btw) as long as it's not all the time - sometimes we get acts of cleanliness because guests are coming over, or acts of love when one isn't in the mood but the other's happy to oblige!

March 11, 2008 9:10 AM

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