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Maternity Leave and Sick Newborns

Posted by Madeline Holler

Here's the Sophie's Choice of parental leave: use up all your leave time to be with your preemie newborns at the hospital or save it for after they get home?

A federal employee in Washington, D.C., had to make that decision and wound up going back to work two weeks (two weeks!) after giving birth.

Going without pay, which she can under the Family Medical Leave Act, wasn't an option, as it isn't for many families.

The mother's story comes up as an example of how inadequate family leave for federal employees is. This mother had saved up all her sick and vacation days for maternity leave. But when the babies were born early and had to spend time at the hospital, she had to use those days carefully and make the tough choice to return to work two weeks after giving birth. A N.Y. congresswoman is working to get federal employees eight weeks of paid paternity leave.

From the Washingtonpost.com

Too often, federal employees are forced to choose between their paycheck and their new child, said Rep. Carolyn B. Maloney (D-N.Y.), vice chairman of the joint committee, noting that "even the best-prepared workers face difficult choices when children need their care."

We all know the U.S. is painfully behind in terms of family and maternity leave. So how would you have used the days, particularly if going without pay isn't an option?


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Comments

 

Chicory said:

I'm a federal worker and planning on getting pregnant and worried about that.  Actually, what keeps me up nights is worrying about what happened to my friend (a state worker -- also no maternity leave) she was put on bedrest to postpone labor, baby born 10 weeks early, she used up most of her leave on bedrest, had to go back to work when her baby was still in the nicu, had no time at home once her baby came home.  

March 12, 2008 4:12 PM
 

AnneAC said:

Unfortunately most state governments and private companies fall into this category as well. It is fairly rare to receive paid time of at all unless you work for a fairly "progressive" company.

When I worked for the state of Montana I was in the same exact situation as the federal employee. Returned to work after 3 weeks with a sick child at the hospital. It was terrible. I was fortunate enough to save enough money for 8 weeks of maternity leave. Because of complications, I had to take bedrest early and used a lot of my savings.

It's amazing that conservatives claim to be the "moral" party, but making families make this choice seems terrible amoral to me. What's going to happen when only people who have huge amounts money in the bank are able to have a family?

It's sickening.

March 12, 2008 4:52 PM
 

Lisa said:

I know of someone who gave birth to a premie, stayed at the hospital day and night all through her maternity leave, and then had to head back to work when he was home just a couple weeks. This country is down right archaic when it comes to maternity leave!!!

Lisa

March 13, 2008 1:12 AM
 

Kelley said:

I don't believe the government, or businesses should be responsible for subsidizing a woman's choice to have a child.  If a woman chooses to have a baby, and wants to spend more time with them for  maternity leave, she should plan accordingly.

March 16, 2008 11:21 AM
 

Kristen said:

Our daughter required a long stay in the NICU following her birth, and I had to go right back to work immediately.  I could only take off one week when she came home from the hospital, but then I had to be back at work the following Monday.  It was awful!

March 18, 2008 3:47 PM

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