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2-Year-Old Branded 'Thief'

Posted by Madeline Holler

Is this little girl a thief? Store workers at a U.K. Woolworths called her one after she helped herself to a piece of candy from the bulk food bin. 

Shortly after she popped the tooth-shaped sweet into her mouth, a staff memeber rounded the corner and said rather loudly, "That's theft!"

From the Daily Mail:

An incredulous Mrs Khan was then forced to listen to a stern lecture about the health and safety rules of buying confectionary and pay for the sweet.

True, it's theft. Technically. But is it really?

The mother offered to pay for it, but she still had to sit through the lecture. She also argues that with three kids, it's impossible to watch all of them always.

I think apologizing and paying for it is the right thing to do. If stores are losing a lot of money on tiny tot thievery, they could do themselves a favor and keep the open bins of candy out of reach of children. 

We've done the same thing in my family, eaten a few grapes before they had been weighed and purchased. For awhile, my oldest confused all unpackaged food with samples. 

In any case, the mom says she was humiliated and is waiting for an apology from Woolworth's executives.  

What do you think? Has your kid ever stolen anything? 

 

 



Comments

 

leahsmom said:

My little one took a chapstick from a bin - I didn't realize until we were heading home and I saw her pretending to be mommy with it! (I wear lipstick a lot, I guess! What can I say?!)  We talked a little bit about how that wasn't ours, as opposed to things at home - I think it's too early for her to really get that - but in a calm way. I then went back to the store to pay for it, and they were very nice about it, laughs all around.  It's not really developmentally appropriate to cry "Theft!" there, I think!

April 2, 2008 3:52 PM
 

Melissa said:

How ridiculous.  I don't think it's worth throwing such a fit and humiliating that poor mom and her kid!

April 2, 2008 4:14 PM
 

Kellyology said:

When my son was two 1/2 I discovered a stuffed animal that we had not purchased stuffed in the stroller basket.  I made him take it back and apologize, and then also suffered a lecture.  I'm thinking that if I made him take it back and apologize, I don't really need the lecture as well, no?  

April 2, 2008 5:11 PM
 

wreke said:

i dunno. i take issue with parents, and i can see why people in stores do, too. for example, i have been by the bulk bins at the supermarket when i see parents actually taking giant dried mangoes and nuts and candies and such out and feeding them to their kids -- and no, they aren't buying any other mangoes/nuts/candies/etc. i get a little irritated by the sense of entitlement that some people have, and they pass it on to their children. i can see why the employee would have gone a little crazy. i don't even work there, and it pi$$es me off, too. over the long run, it makes costs go up, and guess who ends up paying for that eventually? yep. the consumer.

that being said, a two year old who takes a sweet ought to be told that isn't what we do in the market: apologizing and then paying for it is sufficient. but if the parent was clueless about what her kid was doing in the market, then you gotta wonder -- what if the kid put something in her mouth that was unsafe?

those are often the same people who then turn around and sue the store.

April 2, 2008 9:03 PM
 

bookmama said:

When I was about three or four, I took two peppermint patties from the front counter of a restaurant that also sold some sweets. Now, in my defense, I thought they were free, like the mints that you often get for free after dinner (we went out to eat regularly, I suppose!). When my "theft" was uncovered (my mom saw me playing with an empty wrapper), my parents gave me a bit of a lecture (but in a nice way), called the restaurant manager to our table and had me apologize, and then added the candy to our bill. I was totally humiliated, sure, but also aware that people make mistakes like I had done. Let me tell you, that was 30 years ago and I remember the entire exchange like it was yesterday. And I never stole anything again (well, there was one time when I was 13 and my cousin urged me to steal a lipstick from Kmart but then I took it back AND I put $5 in the collection plate at church that sunday)!

What I'm trying to say is, yes! Make a big deal out of it and hope that little people learn the lesson early and well!

April 2, 2008 9:17 PM
 

Mike Adamick (Cry It Out!) said:

The kid looks kind of dodgy. Today it's candy. Tomorrow it's my car. I'm surprised they didn't do more than lecture her for such a heinous, unspeakable crime. Lock your Brach's.

April 2, 2008 9:55 PM
 

Doodaddy said:

Reminds me a little of the mom who wanted a family deported because a three-year old had bullied her kid at a playground...

April 2, 2008 10:40 PM
 

Doodaddy said:

P.S. --- Your link to the original article is missing. It's www.dailymail.co.uk/.../news.html

April 2, 2008 10:42 PM
 

Madeline Holler said:

Thanks, Doodaddy -- the link is fixed.

And Mike, she's in the U.K. Your Tootsie Roll stash is safe ... for now.

April 2, 2008 10:57 PM
 

mamaloo said:

I can only imagine how this played out in the two year old's head:

"Wow! Candy! A whole big bin of it! Isn't that wonderful that someone put all that delicious candy in a big clear container for me! Mmmmmmm, delicious. Huh? Wait, what is that woman yelling about. Stop yelling at my mommy! Waahhhhhhhhh!!!!!"

There are definitely ways to help 2 year olds learn about what is and isn't available for their free use and this surely isn't one of them.

April 3, 2008 1:42 PM

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