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Babble Talk: Sign, Sign, Everywhere a Sign

Posted by Jen Chaney

Pamela Paul has an essay on Babble today that analyzes the merits of teaching our babies sign language. In the piece, excerpted from Paul's book, "Parenting Inc.," she finds that there isn't anything wrong with showing infants how to communicate with their hands. But she also discovers that it may not be as overwhelmingly beneficial as the initial studies by Linda Acredolo and Susan Goodwyn, founders of the Baby Signs Institute, suggested.

"Parents who sign to their children are also talking to them — and no study can prove that talking alone didn't lead to later verbal advances," Paul writes.

Like so many parents, my husband and I have tried to teach our son a bit of signing, figuring it can't hurt and, potentially, might help him communicate with us. So far it has not been a successful endeavor. I repeatedly gesture -- "Eat. Eat." "More. More." -- when he's buckled into his high chair at meal time and he just looks at me like, "Whatever, lady. Just bust out the Cheerios and get it over with."

I also noticed that the signs I learned differ from the illustrated examples in Paul's piece. So it's entirely possible I actually have been teaching my child to say, "Mom, seriously. Enough with the hand motions."

Have you tried signing with your kids? Did they pick it up more readily than mine? And do you feel it ultimately helped their communication skills?

Unfortunately, we can't use sign language on this blog, but feel free to share your thoughts the old-fashioned way, by typing, in the comments section. 

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Comments

 

Treespeed said:

We tried, and it worked a little bit. I think the benefit is that it's just another way of interacting with your kid and having fun with them. Even though my daughter can talk up a storm, she will still sign a few words. I'm also still teaching her some fun ones and she seems to enjoy it. Like anything with a toddler once you start pushing too hard it stops being fun in a hurry.

Little bug's favorite signs are hot and helicopter, one of the joys of living in Los Angeles is that we are on the Police chopper flight path so she learned that one early.

April 8, 2008 6:02 PM
 

mags said:

I thought about showing my daughter some signs, but to my surprise she started talking so early that by the time she was a year old she had a vocabulary of over 50 words and could communicate pretty freely with us.  She is a total chatterbox and we never really had to guess what was on her mind.  Guess we're lucky.  

April 8, 2008 6:23 PM
 

km said:

I meant to teach my oldest son some signs (he's 5 now).  Actually though, he came up with some gestures for certain things:  food, birds, dog, drink.  There were probably some more.  They definitely weren't ASL signs, but they did the trick.

My second son--well, whatever, I didn't even think about it with him.  And actually, his big brother (2 years older), would always do the talking for him.  ("Gideon wants more food," etc.)  Although the little one was able to bust out the tune to Black Sabbath's "Iron Man" at 8 months.

Now my older son is learning ASL in his kindergarten class, and I'm due with my 3rd boy any day now. I figure I'll let the big guy teach the baby signs, and then he can just tell me what the kid is talking about.  :)

April 8, 2008 6:47 PM
 

Melissa said:

We sign a little with our 11-month-olds, they do "more" but I think they think it means "eat".  It also looks a lot like their newly acquired clapping skill, so I'm not sure we've made great communication strides.  It is fun though!

April 8, 2008 6:58 PM
 

Manjari said:

My twins (17 months old) know some signs, and they are also starting to talk to us a lot more. Most of the time they will use a sign and say the word at the same time. I guess for us it was never a way to help them communicate before they could speak words. We have taught them a few Spanish words and a few Gujarati words too. I see ASL as just another language that's fun to learn.

April 8, 2008 9:22 PM
 

cooper1178 said:

The few times I've come across a friend that has taught their little one sign, it was more of a party trick than anything else - "Look what Alexis can do."  Kind of like teaching your dog to roll over.  It's fun time to spend with them, and a cool learning experience for you both, even leading into more useful lessons (talking for kids, sit/stay for dogs), but maybe not a whole lot of actual use for it.

April 9, 2008 11:41 AM

About Jen Chaney

Jen Chaney is the movies editor and a DVD columnist for washingtonpost.com. Her byline has appeared in The Washington Post, People magazine, USA Today and the Utne Reader as well as various other newspapers around the country. She is the mother of a one-year-old boy, who has not yet learned the word Xanadu. But he will. Trust us, he will.

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