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Father in Iraq Calls Son During Class. Son Suspended.

Schools these days have plenty to worry about, the least of which is text messaging and cell phone calls.  So this tale of a high school boy being suspended for taking a call from his father, stationed in Iraq, is sympathetic and troubling.

I feel for teachers, charged as they are with teaching kids with attention deficit disorder (among other things), kids with no manners, who are illiterate, violent, or worse...

And don't let's even discuss No Child Left Behind.  This the kind of story the patriots love to get worked up about.  A kid can't even take a call from his Dad who is serving our country?

But as usual, it just isn't that simple.   


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Comments

 

Jennifer said:

I actually do think it is that simple. This kid might not have a dad by the time he gets out of school. And there's a 7-10 hour time difference between Baghdad and the continental U.S. Sometimes, compassion has to take precedence over the rules.

April 14, 2008 1:01 PM
 

BBBGMOM said:

Any school official who handled this situation by suspending the boy is either an asshole or an idiot.  I am surprised that a school in which half the kids have a parent serving in the military hasn't come up with a good solution.  Is there indeed more to the story?  With Iraq so many hours ahead in time (as pointed out by Jennifer) it would make sense to actually carve out some time in the school day for calls to or from deployed parents.

April 14, 2008 3:43 PM
 

Colleen said:

As the wife of a deployed soldier and a former teacher, I can speak with some background knowledge on this- its never that simple- it should be, but you make a rule for students with deployed parents and you get sued by parents of students who dont have parents deployed because they are being discriminated against. School districts are not willing to risk taking money needed to educate away from students to deal with the lawsuits of a 'sue happy' society. Unfortunately, compassion and logical emotion (yes, they can go together) get thrown by the way side... and we've done it to ourselves- I took calls when my husband first deployed knowing that I could be reprimanded severly had I been 'caught' - but it was a risk I was willing to take- sometimes you stand up for what is right, even when it goes against the rules...

April 14, 2008 5:16 PM

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