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5 Alternatives to Mother's Day

Mother's Day isn't for a few more weeks, but I'm already dreading it.  And I'm not the only one.  Say for some reason you don't care for Mother's Day.  Maybe you don't have any kids.  Maybe you think it's just a meaningless overcommercialized holiday.  Maybe you don't have the time, money, or inclination to worry about it.  

Since ignoring the day altogether is not recommended, particularly for the mama's partner, here are 5 alternatives to Mother's Day that won't leave you feeling like you were just licked by the Hallmark aisle:

1. Get Out of Town - Sometimes it's best to leave the scene of a crime.  If you get out of town (alone or with your partner) you might really enjoy some relaxation, without all the politics.

2. Children's Defense Fun - Put the kids in charge of Mother's Day activities.  Depending on their ages, this could mean you'll be trapped in sensory overload restaurant with large mice, or maybe you can all sit around and color together in your pj's.

3. Mommy Picks the Movie - It's Mother's Day and your chance to watch all the chick flicks you want, in the privacy of your own boudoir.  So grab the popcorn, some chocolates and kick back, sister.

4. Who's the Boss? - You are!  Do whatever you want.  For a day! For a week! For a year!! 

5. Start a Girlcott -- Who needs Mother's Day anyway? Just skip the whole thing and do something fun without all the fuss and pressure. 


Comments

 

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April 21, 2008 12:37 AM
 

Doppelganger said:

On Mother's Day, all my mom friends and I get together for brunch or dinner at the kind of restaurant we'd never bring our kids to. Good times!

April 21, 2008 2:04 AM
 

Kate said:

We always planned the Mother's Day celebration for my mom, with a little help from Dad, of course. No matter what, though, it started with breakfast in bed, made by me and my siblings. When we were little, it was cinnamon rolls from the refrigerator (Dad couldn't cook), and it became such a tradition that we always have them on Mother's Day, no matter what else is on the menu. We thought surprising Mom with breakfast was so cool that we did it at least once a month. As a five year old who wasn't allowed to use the toaster or oven, I improvised "special toast" with anything I could find that was yummy. My poor mom, she always smiled, even when faced with bread topped with chocolate frosting, jelly, and sprinkles. Dad always made it clear that we were supposed to make Mommy feel loved on Mother's Day, and it was the most well-behaved day of the year, spent at home in our jammies, surprising Mom with bubble baths, homemade cards, and control of the remote. Good times.

April 21, 2008 5:29 AM
 

Manjari said:

My dad always helped me make breakfast in bed for my mom. Every holiday was exciting in our house, and Mother's Day was no different. I liked the idea of "surprising" her in bed, and she always pretended to be asleep. I guess I just figured I would be the mommy someday, and then I would get breakfast in bed and special treatment all day long.

I always want to be with my kids on Mother's Day. There are other days when I like to get away with friends or have time off from parenting, but Mother's Day just seems like a time to be with the kids that make me a mom.

April 21, 2008 9:06 AM
 

Mike Adamick (Cry It Out!) said:

"For a year"? But that cuts short my father's day plans! How about "Do what you want until June" instead? Then the dad gets the rest of the year. That sounds fair to me ...

April 21, 2008 10:05 AM
 

cocosmalls said:

am i the only one who sends the kids to my MIL's and lays in bed reading all day?  oppps...

April 21, 2008 7:40 PM

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