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Update: Praying Parents Charged With Homicide

Posted by Cole Gamble

The Wisconsin couple whose 11-year-old daughter died of treatable diabetes after said parents eschewed medical attention for prayer were charged Monday with second-degree reckless homicide. The father has stated he thought his daughter's illness was a “test of faith”, and I have no doubt he and his wife prayed until they could pray no more, but I wonder that now they have failed this “test” where their faith stands. Well, I guess you could always ask Job. The mother and father both face 25 years years in prison if convicted.

The main question that will come out of this trial, and the one you'll definitely hear from the attorneys for the defenses is this: is trying this couple a form of religious persecution? After all this couple did seek help in the best way they knew how, spiritually. Does it really count as criminal neglect if modern medicine doesn't factor into their belief system?

You can look at my original article for my stance on belief versus reality and where the two can work together.

What do you think: if a parent does what they believe is right, is that grounds for homicide? Extreme faith certainly isn't illegal, and it seems like we are dealing with a similar case of the state's idea of child welfare versus the tenets of faith in the case of the Texas polygamy sect.

Perhaps you think actively choosing ignorance might be a criminal offense. My question is, why do some religious people find common sense so antithetical to faith?


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Comments

 

patricia said:

I do not believe the parents did, "seek help in the best way they knew how". They chose to test their faith and they lost. If I remember correctly they did believe in medical care they just chose not to take the child in and "test their faith". Things like this always remind me of those jokes that have people turning down help to save their lives by saying "god will provide" and then when they die, end up at the pearly gates and ask god "why did you not help" and he says "i sent you all those options".

April 29, 2008 1:05 PM
 

Treespeed said:

This is no different than the parents who were charged with neglect for feeding their baby an extreme vegan/raw food diet, and the baby starved.

April 29, 2008 2:14 PM
 

Manjari said:

I definitely think they deserve 25 years in prison. I would feel bad for their other children if that happened, but reckless homicide sounds about right. That lovely girl could easily be alive today if it weren't for the very bad decision her parents made. It sounds like they are more than just religious, they are crazy.

Treespeed, I didn't know about the story you mentioned in your comment, but it does sound like the same principle is involved.

April 29, 2008 4:21 PM
 

Cassie said:

"why do some religious people find common sense so antithetical to faith?"  Because they want to believe in magic.  Thier faith is almost child like.  They are also lazy and superstitious.  I hope they rot in jail.  The parents who fed their kids the "vegan" diet did not give him soy formula.  They were cheap and lazy (potheads) and fed him soy milk and apple juice which gave him severe diarrhea and he died from extreme dehydration and malnutrition.  They could have been strict vegans and fed him formula or breastmilk.  Their being vegans did not make them kill him.  They were bad caregivers.  There are vegans all over the world with healthy kids that never touch any sort of animal product.  

April 29, 2008 5:51 PM
 

Treespeed said:

Cassie, I did not say that Vegans were bad parents. Just like most religious people are not bad parents either. You will notice that I used the qualifier "extreme" that I think would apply in referring to these parents religious beliefs.

April 29, 2008 6:18 PM
 

Manjari said:

Cassie, I agree with your assessment of both pairs of parents. They are BAD caregivers, and there is just no excuse for their behavior.

April 29, 2008 8:21 PM
 

treehouse said:

I used to work for a mother-baby home visiting program in Northern Manhattan (i.e. Harlem) whose goal was, ultimately, to prevent child abuse and whose philosophy was (on paper at least) that 'every parent truly wants what is best for their children'.

Now, while I can't say that I saw any extremes like the ones being  discussed here - it was still pretty clear that some parents just don't know how to do best for their children, whether it is because of religious conviction, willful ignorance, or a culture of poverty and violence. Some children clearly need some outside force to step in and protect them from their own parents.

April 29, 2008 8:22 PM

About Cole Gamble

Cole Gamble’s writings on the crimes of Willy Wonka, man-eating beds and tales from his cringe-worthy life appear here on Babble, the humor site Cracked, The Daily Beast, The Huffington Post and Salon. He is working on a book entitled, Conquer Everything! A Self Help Book to Destroy All Other Self Help Books and Grant You Mastery in Everything.

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