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Strollerdery Playdate: Breakfast Of Champions

Posted by Amy S.F. Lutz

Breakfast is a touchy subject in my house.  My sister and her husband (who are both professional chefs by training) and their soon-to-be-three kids live with us ("us" being me, my husband, and our five kids) and Keri and I have very different ideas on what makes an acceptable morning meal.  All I really care about is that my kids head off to school with something in their bellies that will last until lunch, so I'm okay with enriched bars, graham crackers with peanut butter, and any number of things.  Keri basically thinks breakfast, whenever possible, should be a sit-down affair featuring homemade pancakes or waffles, eggs, etc.  You can read about our Breakfast Bar Wars here and here.

Although I still believe I'm right, Keri pretty much won, because hey, if her husband is willing to come down to the kitchen at 7:15 to make buttermilk pancakes, who am to tell my kids not to eat them?  So it was more a moral victory than anything else when I found out famous foodie Danielle Altshuler Wiley - aka Foodmomiac - basically agrees with me.

Frankly, Danielle has even lower standards than I do (Cinnamon Toast Crunch?  We buy our sugar cereals from the organic section, thank you very much).  She attributes this to a couple of factors:  one, she never cared for breakfast as a child, and resented being forced to eat it; two, she's too busy in the mornings to break out her skillet and to clean it up afterwards; and three, she invests a lot of time and energy in creating delicious, well-balanced lunches and dinners for her family, and she thinks that's sufficient.

So, where do you stand?  Is a sit-down breakfast a wholesome ideal to which we should all aspire, or is my sister's desire to turn every meal into a huge production destined to nurture in our kids an unhealthy obsession with food?


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Comments

 

giggleup said:

Oh how I love breakfast foods! I know my belly prefers hot eggs and whole-grain banana pancakes over a dull granola bar any day. I love good food, and it makes me happy to cook it for my family when I can. For breakfast, that usually only happens 1 or 2 days a week, but I agree that it's more important to prioritize healthy lunches and dinners.

Am I obsessed with food? Perhaps...OK, probably! But I doubt that my cooking habits will determine whether my son becomes food-obsessed. On the other hand, I do hope that I can encourage him to develop a habit of taking time to enjoy and savor the good things in life, whether that is food or art or music or conversation or whatever. How's that for a justification for a second helping of pancakes on Saturday?!

May 1, 2008 9:01 AM
 

leahsmom said:

I wanted to read about your breakfast bar wars (sounds like my house) - but when I clicked the links, I get the message: "Blogger: Blog Not Found" Help?

May 1, 2008 9:38 AM
 

Karen said:

We all have to be out of the house at 7:30am, so breakfast is never a sit down meal.  Plus my son has dairy and egg allergies and is very picky (but a balanced diet, so I have chosen other hills to die on!).

So breakfast for him varies - OJ every day, and either a poptart, cheerios, fruit loops, or a mix of soy yogurt and baby fruit.  

And horrors - it is usually eaten on the couch in front of the TV!!!

May 1, 2008 10:40 AM
 

anonymous2 said:

Although I love to cook, my family eats a hot breakfast only on the weekends.  During the week, it's usually toast and organic o-shaped oat cereal with banana sliced into it.  Occasionally on a chilly morning if I managed to get up at a reasonable time, I will whip up some oatmeal (from scratch, NOT from a packet!)  We do usually all sit down around the table as a family at breakfast, even during the week, which is a nice way to start the morning.  

May 1, 2008 11:06 AM
 

Amy S.F. Lutz said:

Sorry about the link issue.  The problem is now solved, so you should be able to read the original posts.

May 1, 2008 1:06 PM
 

MissB said:

People actually make pancakes on weekdays?  Seriously?  I'd cut off a foot just to have somebody living in my house who was willing to wake up early and do that.

May 1, 2008 7:29 PM

About Amy S.F. Lutz

Amy S.F. Lutz's work has appeared in dozens of literary journals, including Cream City Review, The American Poetry Review, Puerto del Sol, and Mid-American Review. She and her husband have five children. Amy and her sister chronicle their adventures in communal living in their blog whoelsewantstoliveinmyhouse.com

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