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They Say: Parents Know Nothing About Babies

Posted by Adrienne Martini

Pop Quiz, Hotshot:

1) Should a 1-year-old child be able to tell between right from wrong?

2) Should a 1-year-old child be ready to begin toilet-training?

These questions were part of a survey given by researchers to 10,000 U.S. parents of 9 month olds. On the 11 item quiz, one-third of those asked couldn't answer four questions correctly.

And their inability didn't seem to be related to mere testing anxiety. These parents had no idea what they could realistically expect from their children. This ignorance isn't without harm. Researchers conclude that low parenting knowledge of what babies can actually do is having a negative impact on how parents behave with their kids.

In case you were wondering, both questions have the same answer: No. 


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Comments

 

Cassie said:

My daughter was toilet trained by 12 months.  It was no big deal.  I think those questions are completely unrelated.  One asks about the reasoning abilities of an infant and the other about physical ability.  

May 4, 2008 6:52 PM
 

Casa Wasabi said:

And if you practice elimination communication it can begin much much earlier.  My daugher is 10 months, and gives me cues when she has to go potty, so I take her, and she goes.  I guess if babies are taught to go in their diapers, then trying to un-teach them that behavior at only 12 months would be a little traumatic.

May 5, 2008 7:11 AM
 

spartic99 said:

For all you EC parents,

Your kid has you potty trained, not the other way around.

May 5, 2008 3:00 PM

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