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Baby-Proofing the Pooch

Posted by Amy Kuras

 As modern parents we spend money and time on childbirth classes, baby gear and books galore to get ourselves ready for a new baby joining our family. If it's kid #2 or more, sibling preparation classes might be added to the mix.

But for many of us, a baby will be joining an already established family, with cats or dogs playing the role of "furry children" before the first human one ever came along. And the pets can have just as difficult a time with the changes in their lives wrought by a baby as a human sibling would. I (and my poor, peed-upon couch) can attest that my daughter had an easier adjustment to her brother's birth than our dog did to her arrival.

According to this Wall Street Journal story, more and more people are working with trainers to prepare their dogs for their baby's joining the family. Now some of these people are the real "Best in Show" nutjobs who carry their dogs in purses and have an extensive wardrobe for little Pupster, but most people who do this seem to be nice, caring people who maybe love their dogs a little too much (and I'm someone who lets her cat sleep on her actual pillow, so I have no room to talk).

I did a story on this for a local daily a few years ago, and the trainer told me that adjusting the dog's routine before the baby arrives is a good idea. Get her used to shorter, less regular walks, for example, because you'll be unlikely to have the time for an extended stroll in those first few months.

Worst-case scenario? It's legal to lock the dog in a crate when it gets annoying.


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Comments

 

Cassie said:

I get totally grossed out when I see dumb parents let their dog LICK their babys' face and mouth.  Dogs clean their bum holes with that tongue.  I have seen dogs eat other dogs' poop on many occasions.  Blech.  It is a major myth they have clean mouths.  Great way to give your kid E Coli.  

June 4, 2008 9:13 PM
 

botanist said:

BTW, it's called Escherichia coli becouse it populates colon. Of normal healthy people.

June 4, 2008 9:39 PM
 

DCMana said:

Casssie,  A dogs mouth may not be "clean", as in fresh from the dishwasher, but I don't think there is any recorded instance of someone getting ill from some dog spit.  Dogs have been licking babies and kids since dogs were domesticated.  Siberian huskies traditionally slept with the children (or more accurately, the kids slept with the dogs) to keep the kids warm.  Before crazy germaphopic parents started walking around with "antibacterial" disposable wipes and keeping kids in Clorox dipped pack-n-plays, children actually roamed around on farms and probably got licked by dogs, cows, horses, goats and even pigs.  The played with chickens -- live. flithy. chickens!!! -- and rabbits.  And, those kids had far fewer allergies and probably fewer illnesses than your average day-care/play-group attendee of today.

You don't have to let the dog lick your kid, but leave the rest of us alone.  My dog refuses to lick the kid -- probably thinks its unhealthy for a dog -- but I never freak out when a strange lab gived the kiddo a big wet sloppy kiss.  Kid loves it, and its never caused him any damage.   And, as an added bonus, there is never, never any old toddler tossed food on the floor of my house waiting for a kid to see what a 3 month-old moldy goldfish tastes like.

June 5, 2008 11:04 AM
 

km said:

I don't have any pets, but I will actively seek out dogs and cats of my friends for my kids to play with.  I read an article years ago in the New York Times, I think, that said a child's early exposure to animal fur and dander may help prevent allergies later in life.

Of course, I also put my kids in grocery carts without those dumb protective covers, I do not own a bottle of antibacterial  anything (I'm convinced it creates "super-germs"), and I let the kids in my oldest son's kindergarten class kiss my 6 week old baby (build up that immunity, kiddo).  

And after 6 years and 3 kids flirting with these germs, we've only racked up one sick visit to the doctor (for an ear infection.)  Go figure.

June 5, 2008 7:43 PM

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