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Teachers Fake Deaths to Scare Students Sober

Imagine you're called into a school assembly a few days before high school graduation and told that several of your beloved classmates were killed in a drunken driving auto crash. Terrible, right? Young lights ripped from a community.

Then imagibe the teachers involved in said assembly -- who had even brought in the cops to make it look legit -- told you it was all fake; it was just an attempt to scare you sober as graduation parties near.

Some students later held signs saying, "Death is real -- don't play with our emotions." While still others said the emotional shock was worth it if the event saved even one life.

I keep thinking about the poor kid sitting in the assembly who doesn't drink at all and just found out his friends "died." It seems there has to be a better way to send this message, but of course I don't know what it is.

If these were your kids -- what would you think: Going to far? Or worth it if one life is saved?


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Comments

 

Erin said:

I think the teachers and administrators involved should resign. When we want our students to think, make decisions, and behave as mature young adults, then we must treat them as such. This type of behavior erases any positive, trusting relationships that have been built up between students and teachers by demolishing the notion of mutual respect and honesty.

This sort of ghoulish "gotcha" hoax basically says, "We don't trust that we've taught you sound decision-making skills. We don't trust that you are mature enough to listen to the guidance we're giving you. We've exposed ourselves to be liars willing to do or say anything to get your attention...but definitely listen to us next time we open our mouths because we're educators and we deserve your trust!"

My issue is not so much with the seniors who leave high school with a bitter taste in their mouths, nor is it with the understandable urge to highlight the dangers of drunk driving (which is what a properly run Ever 15 Minutes program does well). It's with the juniors, sophomores, and freshman who will disregard 90% of what is said at assemblies throughout the rest of their high school career because they HAVE learned a lesson...that the people responsible for their education can't be trusted.

June 15, 2008 2:14 PM
 

Angus said:

Around here they bring a smashed up car to the school, the drama students get all done up to look like they were in a crash, some of them are slated to "die".  Firemen, police men and paramedics all participate.

I can't say for sure that it actually gets any of them to realize that they're not indestructable, but because it's not a blatant lie meant to terrorize them they do still hold some trust in their teachers and such.

June 16, 2008 12:09 AM
 

tiffer said:

That seems pretty awful to me.  There are other ways to demonstrate it to kids.  I remember they did this thing at my high school where they would have kids become "dead" throughout the day.  The number of kids that were "dead" had something to do with statistics about drunk driving deaths, but I can't remember exactly what it was.. it was a long time ago.  The "dead" kids would walk around in all black with their faces painted white and they wouldn't talk to you or anyone else.  It was actually pretty creepy and obviously left a mark on me, but not emotionally abusive like what it sounds like happened at this school.

June 16, 2008 9:03 PM
 

tiffer said:

Oh... I just realized that the program I'm talking about was actually referenced in the linked article.  It was called every 15 minutes.  So, kids would "die" every 15 minutes throughout the day.  

June 16, 2008 9:08 PM

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