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Pro-Life Pharmacy won't sell birth control

Posted by Brett Singer

No rubbers for you!DMC Pharmacy, can we help you?

Oh, you want birth control pills. I'm sorry, we can't help you with that. No, we don't sell condoms either. How about this pamphlet on the Rhythm Method? Perhaps a new Bible? Hello? Hello, are you there?

The DMC Pharmacy in Chantilly, Virginia, is a Pharmacy with a Point of View. Basically, if you're going to "do it," you should be prepared for the pitter-patter of little feet. That means no condoms, no birth control pills, no morning after pill – nada. Zip. The "family planning" aisle will be filled with rosary beads, Left Behind novels and snacks filled with nothing but high (moral) fiber. (We kid, because we love.)

(Aside #1: I wonder how far the store will take this. Would they sell copies of "The Da Vinci Code"? How about "Hustler"? Jolt Cola?)

(Aside #2: Now, don't go to dmcpharmacy.org if you want to find the pro-life pharmacy. That site is for a different DMC Pharmacy, which is part of the Detroit Medical Center. I'm not sure if they'll sell you a rubber, but my guess is that they will.)

Tom Brejcha from the Thomas More Society is, of course, supportive of the venture. Brejcha is representing another pharmacist who refused to fill a birth control prescription on moral grounds. The Washington Post quotes the attorney as saying, "Every pharmacist has the right to do the same thing." According to the Post, "[The DMC Pharmacy in Chantilly] is one of a small but growing number of drugstores around the country that have become the latest front in a conflict pitting patients' rights against those of health-care workers who assert a 'right of conscience' to refuse to provide care or products that they find objectionable."

Now, we may mock (in good humor) the notion of a pro-life pharmacy. But I think they have a right to keep contraceptives off the shelves; I'm not a lawyer but I'm fairly certain that no private store has a legal obligation to sell any product that they don't want to. Manhattan is filled with drugstores advertising a staff that will help you get your health insurance company to pay for fertility treatments, which is something not typically offered at your local Walgreen's. Different strokes, different folks. I do have a problem with a pharmacist who works at a "regular" pharmacy (you know, the kind of establishment that will burn in eternal hellfire – OK, sorry, mocking again, it's just a joke! Ouch! Watch the lightning!) refusing to fill any prescription, or a health-care worker who goes against the policies of their employer. You are absolutely entitled to your beliefs, but don't you also have to do the job that you were hired for? That's another legal question I don't claim to know the answer to.

Obviously it would be a problem is every store took this attitude. Personally, even though I don't need birth control pills myself, I would gladly avoid a store that took a stance against them. The best way to stop stores like this from proliferating is simply to not shop there.

Source: thefrisky 

images: Wikipedia (1, 2), and then futzed with in Photoshop by me


Comments

 

DCMama said:

Sure they have a right. But, I wish a few places would exesize that right by refusing to fill viagra 'scripts or similar, then maybe all this silliness would stop.

June 18, 2008 10:27 AM
 

s said:

I completely disagree since in refusing to fill a prescription for the pill, a pharmacist is disregarding the orders of a doctor. You would think it was wrong if a doctor refused to fill a prescription for a pain medication because they thought that pain management through highly addictive drugs was wrong, so how come it suddenly becomes okay to refuse a doctor's orders in areas of birth control? Last I checked, pharmacists aren't medical doctors.  Let's also remember that birth control is not just about unmarried women and their escapades, it's also about married women, too, and it seems that these pharmacists are encouraging us to go back to a time when women were forced to have babies until they dropped. We think such practices are wrong when we find them among the likes of the fundamentalist Mormons in Texas, so shouldn't we also question the acts of these pharmacists, too?

June 18, 2008 11:19 AM
 

sparkiy said:

My bc helps with my clinical depression, why should they have the right to tell me I can't take it?

June 18, 2008 12:36 PM
 

PeaFreedom said:

Dollars to doughnuts, this place will be kept in business by those who are happy to buy their shampoo and aspirin there, while going elsewhere for their b.c. needs, those who think that they are justified in having non-procreation sex, but certainly don't want *others* doing it.

June 18, 2008 12:49 PM
 

leahsmom said:

I also would be worried if there was no where you could be sure would fill a prescription if you needed it. I take bc because I had very early menopause (not before we had some little feet anyway, but still. . .) and if I don't take it, apparently I'm at risk for major osteoporosis.  I always get scared about what will happen not only to womens' reproductive health, but also other health conditions that respond to hormone treatments, if bc gets taken away!

June 18, 2008 1:20 PM
 

Manjari said:

Like many women, I have taken birth control pills to treat endometriosis. The very idea of this pharmacy aggravates me. I suppose they have the right to sell or not sell whatever they want (people can always choose to have their prescriptions filled elsewhere), but it's still really obnoxious. I wish that enough people would boycott the place so it would go out of business.

June 18, 2008 2:23 PM
 

dana said:

Bottom line - the pill isn't all about sex. There are plenty of other indications for taking it, and it's flat out unethical for a pharmacist to deny me the right to the pill for my condition.

As for other items like condoms, my concern is that of public health and the spread of STD's - though I suppose folks like those running the pharmacies thing STD's are punishment from a higher power and wouldn't care if someone got sick from their partner...

June 18, 2008 2:44 PM
 

Sheri said:

You know, no one is denying you all the opportunity to get your pills.  This particular pharmacy is.  Go elsewhere.

Don't buy your shampoo there.  Send a message.  

A lot of people believe that taking birth control is akin to abortion or stopping a life that God has given you.  They have every right to believe that.  You have a right to disagree.  

Nuff said.

June 18, 2008 4:23 PM
 

Bunny said:

The only major issue I have with this is the same issue I have with clinics that provide abortions closing down because of too many protesters and violence, too many times - after a certain point, if you have to travel too far to get your birth control or your abortion, what does it matter that they're legal? if you're poor and/or don't have a car and/or can't get time off, you're screwed. "Choice" becomes a privilege.

June 18, 2008 5:29 PM
 

kayare said:

I agree with Bunny on this one -- the places where this is most likely to occur are places where there aren't many other options within a reasonable difference (e.g. the rural south, North Dakota, etc.).  If a pharmacist doesn't believe in providing prescribed medication as per his or her job description, why is that person a pharmacist?

June 19, 2008 4:55 PM
 

Grouchy said:

the problem I have is that now, before I buy anything in a store I will need to go check all their policies. I certainly won't support this sort of bigotry by buying shampoo but I don't see any warning signs going up.

sigh

June 21, 2008 2:51 AM
 

Liz said:

Okay i have one important comment, why would they do that?  Are they not aware that people dont only use protection to not get pregnant, people also use it as a protection as to not spread diseases like STD's and AID's.  This is more of an issue about pregnancy its an issue about safety and protection.

June 25, 2008 12:20 PM
 

Lary Saltzman said:

You do you community a disservice by limiting birth control products.  You are probably against welfare for needy mothers who were not educated in birth control. Shame on you and your drug store.  

July 6, 2008 7:03 PM

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Brett Singer is a writer and father living in Manhattan with his wonderful wife and two terrific sons (referred to here as Thing 1 and Thing 2). He writes about music for the Boston Phoenix, parenting for Babble and daddytips.com, and other topics for anyone else who will have him.

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