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You Need to Have a Threesome

Posted by Madeline Holler

Parent expert and exhausted Strollerderby mom Redsy has some great advice for your marriage and life: have a threesome.

Stop, stop. Not like that. OK, fine like that, too, if you want. But she's talking about a threesome that happens in the kitchen. And living room. During playdates. Maybe even at night when you're gone. 

Let me start over: the threesome she imagines in her latest Rugrat Reprive column is a G-rated one. Basically, another adult to up the grown-up to kid ratio. One who cooks, cleans, tells interesting stories. Someone -- anyone -- who can make the often isolated world of day-to-day family life a little easier, a little less hectic, a little less nuclear.

From Imperfect Parent:

Families today tend to be closed systems – with fewer extended family members around and more fear of neighborhood child molesters. 

I think having another parent / adult-type in the mix is the perfect method for bringing in some outside air. 

Enter: Trevor. Her Rhode Island friend's extra set of grown-up hands.

Would you ever consider having a Trevor of your own? 

 

Photo: metroactive.com

 


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Comments

 

Nicole said:

Our social group is a fun mix of folks ranging from late teens to late twenties (we're all still new at this, I know). It is great how well our friends get along with the kiddos during day to day visits at our house, or during social gatherings on the weekends. Everyone seems to just pitch in- pouring juice in to sippy-cups, reading a book, finding a lost toy or notifying us that one of the boys desperately needs a new pull-up (Dad and me are the only ones who brave dirty pull-ups).

June 24, 2008 11:59 AM
 

Manjari said:

Nicole, that sounds so great to me! I had sort of hoped that's how things would be when my twins came along, but we almost never see our childless friends anymore.

I would LOVE to have someone around to help me with the twins while my husband is at work. I can handle them on my own, but it would be so nice to be able to take a shower or something. I also just really like having another adult around. I seem to enjoy all the funny things the kids do more when there is another adult there to smile about them too.

June 24, 2008 3:19 PM

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