Huge, huge pet peeve of mine: people who have their TVs on all the time, whether they are watching it or not. Now I am not anti-TV – I watch it, and does my older child. But I just think it's enormously impolite to have it blaring when someone has come over to see you (like two people who shall remain nameless but happen to be two males who share many of my genes and GOD FORBID they miss one second of whatever major sporting event is on, not that I am annoyed by that or anything but there is such a thing as Tivo DAMN IT). Three-quarters of all kids live in homes where the TV is always on.
Anyhoo, I think the reason it bugs me is that I just find it really distracting, not to mention the mesmerizing effect any TV, showing anything, has on both my children. While we don't let the baby watch TV per se, he's frequently in the room when his older sister is and will turn his gaze to the screen.
New research is showing that even background TV – the TV which is always on, even when just "for noise" -- can disrupta child's normal development and impact their ability to sustain attention.
Researchers at the University of Massachusetts found that when children were given toys to play with while the television was on, the children played with each toy for "significantly shorter" periods of time. Focused attention during play was also shorter compared to when the TV was off.
Yikes. Time for some serious rationing around here – and taking the baby in another room when his sister does get her Elmo fix.