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Toddler Accidentally Killed At YMCA T-Ball Game

Posted by Amy S.F. Lutz

I always get a hitch in my chest when one of my kids walks too close to other kids on the swings, or climbs too high in a tree, or darts a few feet away from me in a parking lot.  And sometimes I wonder if I'm just being overly paranoid.

Now, two-year-old Henry Berlin of Kentucky is dead, after being struck in the chest with a T-ball bat while playing with a YMCA group.  The child swinging the bat was Henry's four-year-old sister.

Keep in mind, this was not a bunch of rowdy kids behaving recklessly.  This was an organized event, supervised by a coach, who had no explanation for how the children got so close to one another while bats were being swung, but who simply said that Henry's death was, "the worst event of my life."

The worst event of his life?  How about the girl who has to live the rest of his life knowing she killed her baby brother?

So I guess I'm not being paranoid.  You really can never let your guard down for an instant. 


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Comments

 

Jackie said:

So is there info on the place to make donations?

July 23, 2008 7:24 PM
 

Amy S.F. Lutz said:

Yes . . . according to the article I read, "donations can be made at any PNC bank to the Henry Berlin Memorial Fund."

July 23, 2008 7:29 PM
 

sparkiy said:

Can't it be the worst event of both their lives?

July 23, 2008 10:11 PM
 

Maggie said:

The child was not playing with the Y group.  His sister was.  The coach is not responsible for younger siblings.  My child plays T-ball at the Y and his 2 yr old brother is either not brought to practice or kept away from the practice area.  It was an accident and no blame should be placed on anyone, especially the coach... a volunteer.

July 23, 2008 11:04 PM
 

Angela said:

I will agree with Maggie comments. My son just completed his session of recreational coach pitch ball, a step up from T-ball and we also have 2-year old twins. When we took them to the first practice it was too much for their Dad and I to watch both the twins and our player without any injury.  In fact, within the first few minutes one the twins fell on the cement and was bleeding from the lip and then just 40 minutes later the same twin fell backwards off of one of the open bleachers and hit the back of his head.  Obviously, we consider ourselves very lucky thinking of Henry and his family. But my point is this, sooooo, many families,( and I'm not saying this is what happened in Henry's case) bring other siblings to the ballpark and then sit back and just expect that things will be o.k., that they will not wander up to their siblings playing, or anyone else swinging a bat or throwing a hard ball.  I know I am over vigilant most times with my kids, and I really thought between myself and my husband we could keep the twins safe, but in just trying to watch our player for those single moments, out 2-yr old paid the price. Needless to say, the twins did not go back to the ballpark for the rest of the session. And I think our player enjoyed the individual attention he received.  My heart and prayers go out to Henry's family.  My player and I will be making a donation to their family. This was such a horrible accident.  

July 25, 2008 12:04 PM
 

Colleen said:

The mom is a friend of mine and this was not a case of parent negligence. BOTH parents were there, both parents were watching their two children and it still happened. These are loving, responsible, attentive parents. It was a fluke set of circumstances with an absolutely tragic outcome. This is the worst event in all their lives. My heart is breaking for my friend.

July 26, 2008 8:25 AM

About Amy S.F. Lutz

Amy S.F. Lutz's work has appeared in dozens of literary journals, including Cream City Review, The American Poetry Review, Puerto del Sol, and Mid-American Review. She and her husband have five children. Amy and her sister chronicle their adventures in communal living in their blog whoelsewantstoliveinmyhouse.com

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