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The Etiquette of Boobs

Posted by Adrienne Martini

Chow.com's Helena Echlin is the internet's answer to Emily Post. There is no topic too sacred for Echlin to tackle. Is it OK to eat on the subway? She can tell you. Can you ask friends to bring their own cups (the drinking kind, that is)? She's got you covered. Her advice is always well reasoned and sensible, which means that she is almost always ticking someone off.

Recently, Echlin took on breastfeeding at a restaurant. Her stance is that if the kid is hungry, mom should feed it. If the sight of a bared breast makes diners uncomfortable, then that is their problem, not the mom's.

In the comments, of course, is where all of the boobs come out. Some stop short of suggesting that moms always stay home. Some just can't handle seeing a breast with a baby on it. Some are more ticked off when mom give her baby a bottle of formula, rather than doing it the old fashioned way.

Which just goes to show you that moms -- especially new moms -- can't do much of anything "right" because no one can agree on what "right" actually is. Try to look at it as liberating.


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Comments

 

Karen said:

I have to admit I was a little preturbed to see a woman breastfeeding her child in a public pool.  As in sitting in the water and feeding three different times.  I couldn't figure out why that bothered me so much until later (aside from the fact I was wrangling my three toddlers and trying to shepherd her 14mo old back towards the shallows): what if the kid spitup?  One of my kids in particular yakked like clockwork, and it wasn't until on the way home that I pieced together what bothered me.  I still stick a swim diaper on my housebroken son just in case he gets distracted and has an accident - I really don't want to be frollicking in the pool next to floating yarph if it could have been avoided.

August 8, 2008 8:23 AM
 

Ella said:

Dude, if you're in the pool, it's already 15% pee, 10% drool, and 4% boogers anyway. What's a little spit-up?

August 8, 2008 7:44 PM
 

Christina said:

Yeah, seriously, aside from the pee, drool and snot, what's to stop any other kid there from yakking?  My breastfed baby hardly spat up as an infant and stopped spitting up at all around the 3 month mark.  Maybe this kid is the same way.

I've sat in a public pool full of breastfeeding while in the pool moms (including myself) here in Germany and never saw any of the babies spit up in the pool.

August 10, 2008 9:32 AM

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